TTC Girl- April 2012

[prayforprincess]

KD -- Good luck with your attempts! This month has to be your month.

H&D -- You are so pregger's! You took the shot 11 days ago...it is absolutely a positive test! 100%! Get excited girl!!

Mocha -- I can't wait to hear about your gender scan. It is so nerve racking. I wish you all the best and pray you hear "its a GIRL!"

I am a couple weeks away from starting my stims -- will begin them the week of the 16th. I am kinda scared. I keep going back and forth -- am I crazy doing another cycle? Am I making a big mistake?? I know I will get lots of eggs -- my RE and I already accomplished that; and I am pretty sure there will be girls to transfer. Where I get crazy nervous is whether those girls will implant. Will those girl embryo's be good enough to become my baby in the end? That si what freaks me out. And every part of me want twins. At this point, Dylan (my 3 yr old), is going to be nearly 4 when I have a baby. It would be nice to give the baby a sibling, one she can play with since my boys will be so far ahead. 2 girls would be a dream come true, but I will gladly take only one. I won't be greedy. I think I will consider transferring 3 if I have 3 to transfer -- that way I have higher hopes that at least one will take and hopefully 2.
In the mean time I started my prenatal and eating really well. Tons of veggies and fruit, nothing processed, chicken and fish, low fat dairy, little to no alcohol. I just want to be really really healthy.
I am praying for all of us that April/May will bring us lots of bfp and baby girls on the way!

[PeonyPrincess]

KD, that does sound tiring but fun! You are sounding very relaxed which is great.

Hope, so excited that things are looking so good for you this month!! FX those bloods give you the true positive on Wed.

[HopeandDreamG]

Kraisy- that was the view I took this month. I was really relaxed when dtd and tried to b after and it may have worked! I think I was tense in Feb which didn't help!

Peony- thank you! How are u feeling?

Prayforprincess - I am so happy for you! I was tempted to do HT $stops me I could find it but the idea of ending up without a pregnancy scares me. But now I'm scared of what gender I might have. Either way it's a gamble I guess. Thanks for the positive encouragement that it's a true positive. Why don't I think so for sure? I'm scared now to b honest. I really dont want a boy.

Frer and cheapie still positive today. 11dpo 12 days past trigger..., please please please b pink or I'm gonna be committed.

[littlemissnaughty7]

ooh H&D thats gotta be a positive huni im so happy for you !!,

good luck in april all my lovely ladies !!!

[mydream]

So good to see the April thread. Wishing all of us much luck and BFP's
Dh was doing FR we started dtd at o-4 ...o-3, o-2 and now I got a smiley on digital OPK this am ( it was negative last night). My questions is... Should I keep dtd? Dtd 1 more time today and stop ?
or just keep dtd through O. Yes, I want to get pregnant but I also don't want to mess this up
I have been on diet since feb 1 strictly and since jan 1 loosely. I have taken SP and vitex 2 months.
I have little EWCM so I dropped the zyrtec and j& d.

[prayforprincess]

So good to see the April thread. Wishing all of us much luck and BFP's
Dh was doing FR we started dtd at o-4 ...o-3, o-2 and now I got a smiley on digital OPK this am ( it was negative last night). My questions is... Should I keep dtd? Dtd 1 more time today and stop ?
or just keep dtd through O. Yes, I want to get pregnant but I also don't want to mess this up
I have been on diet since feb 1 strictly and since jan 1 loosely. I have taken SP and vitex 2 months.
I have little EWCM so I dropped the zyrtec and j& d.

I think you should definitely dtd tonight and tomorrow night. Timing does not sway, and you want the bfp. o-4 is a far fetch one, sometimes it can be enough but sometimes it can amount to nothing.
You have been so strict on the diet and taking your supp's -- its time for bfp. If you want to be conservative, then dtd tonight and tomorrow night, and get up and wipe after 5-10 minutes both times. But I would definitely do it - it won't mess up your sway. And if you get a bfn then you will wish you had, and this way you'll know for sure you did everything you could to get your bfp this month.

[prayforprincess]

H&D -- I think you are committed hun, that is a real bfp! Try to stay positive. You can't change anything now. Stay positive until you know for sure, I know it is hard. But as my friend told me, there is no sense in freaking out til your scan when it could very well be a girl. Then you will have wasted all this time feeling down. Instead keep your chin up and think cautiously positive until you know for sure. If god forbid it is a boy, then you will deal with it when the time comes; but it could happily be a girl and you could've been excited this whole time.
You swayed soooooo hard -- there was nothing more you could do. Be confidant with knowing that -- you can sleep well knowing what is meant to be now is meant to be and you did ALL you could.

[auroara78]

Hey ladies! Happy April!

KD, I LOOOOOOOVVVE that you and your DH are already getting started. It should be fun! I think changing the clomid from 3-7 is good too, and what a blessing to have twin girls would be!!!!

PFP, I also love the idea of transfering 3-2 girl embryos. I totally agree with this as it will def. increase chance of at least one baby sticking, and also if you do have 2 then you will give your daughter a built in sister. Love it!

Hope & Dreams, I def. think that's a real BFP, but I understand if you want to be cautious and double-check. I agree that natural swaying AND HT are both gambles, but of course in different areas. This natural swaying is a gamble with gender; I think you did great on diet and you already concieved a girl naturally before, so I totally think you can do it again. I really do believe in what's meant to be is meant to be (remind me of this in 3 weeks please when I have my scan!), and if you concieve a little baby, that baby is meant to be with your family. Just try to remember that. I know it's easier said than done, for sure.

Dramabird & Lassie, this is your month for BFPs!

Amari, I love the plan of being in Vegas and taking your clomid earlier and trying to relax and enjoy...I think this sounds like a good strat towards getting a BFP!

I am looking more pregnant now and less fat, lol. My bump is up high and it surprised me becuase my boys I carried low, so I am really into the OWT about high = girl, but I need to keep myself in check, but it sure is fun dreaming I looked at some girl spring dresses on Sat in the mall and I shouldn't have. It made me think of how awesome it'd be to induldge in that! Then I made myself walk over to the boy's side and glanced around, wasn't so exictied of course, but there was a really cute lil outfit that said "pinch me, I'm cute" and I could imagine a lil boy wtih blue eyes wearing it.

[Mochagirl]

I am looking more pregnant now and less fat, lol. My bump is up high and it surprised me becuase my boys I carried low, so I am really into the OWT about high = girl, but I need to keep myself in check, but it sure is fun dreaming I looked at some girl spring dresses on Sat in the mall and I shouldn't have. It made me think of how awesome it'd be to induldge in that! Then I made myself walk over to the boy's side and glanced around, wasn't so exictied of course, but there was a really cute lil outfit that said "pinch me, I'm cute" and I could imagine a lil boy wtih blue eyes wearing it.

I'm really hoping my high bump is a good sign too! for both of us!

I keep peeking at girl outfits too, and I'm soooo scared I'll never be able to buy one for my own baby. No matter what I hear on Thursday, though, I'm going to go out and buy a new outfit - either pink or blue.

[HopeandDreamG]

Auroara~ WOW 3 weeks will be here before you know it! I can't believe it!!!
Mocha, Thursday is sooo close... I Love how you both are sounding positive either way! I know where your heart is, but thinking about buying outfits either way is a great thing!

If this is my BFP, I will be exactly 12 weeks on my bday, and nub obsessing beyond belief!! I WANT TO ADD A FRUIT TiCKER!! lol