Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

[Tiffani3]

So sorry winngrin
I dont know what it is with all the opposites on here - did we all miss something? was there something we all did that we shouldnt have done? it just doesnt make sense...

In 3 hours time it will be me! Well, hopefully...fingers crossed for a clue or 2.
Feeling really certain that i am going to hear boy....so certain actually that I'm already feeling slighty sad (i know, that is very stupid)

Good luck sweetie fx for you xx

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

I'm sorry for both of you

I was thinking the same thing about the stats in this thread!! Crazy!!
I have my NT on friday. I don't know if I want to look for a nub or not :/
my dad asked me yesterday if I was going to find out the gender. he is trying to convince me not to , just saying it will be a better surprise, but I think he's worried about how upset I will be if its boy.

Reading this makes me cry. As I've said to you before, I'd take another boy so you could get your girl. Your dad sounds just like mine...a really sweet guy!!

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

I'm exactly the same today I'm ok yesterday I was holding back the tears at the sight of my niece I couldn't even bare to hold her! I wish it would just stop now I think we all have had enough of this rubbish gd.

I agree with you!!!! It's robbed me of the joy I should feel at an ultrasound, and the weeks following. And it's been the nagging voice in my head that has kept telling me to try again for the sister I though my dd needed. It needs to stop. Dh is getting snipped very soon so no more babies for us. I'm done and want to enjoy my kids and go with them on their journey through life. The one thing I'm super grateful for is 5 very healthy children...

[TT_3814]

Sorry you're feeling sad today, Three. ((((hugs))))

Sunshiner~ It's hard to hear the opposite of what you were hoping for, don't feel like an idiot because you aren't. It's perfectly fine and normal to want a desired gender. Being grateful for a healthy baby goes without saying, no one in their right mind doesn't want that, so of course we want healthy. Congrats on your healthy little one! Another plus, you aren't alone in how you feel and can vent anytime. With my GD, I had feared being called a bad and ungrateful mom so I held my feelings in, took so much longer to heal from.

Winn~ Oh no, sorry you didn't hear a girl and add to it, the rough start to your day. Big hugs to you! xxx

[Tiffani3]

I'm sorry for both of you

I was thinking the same thing about the stats in this thread!! Crazy!!
I have my NT on friday. I don't know if I want to look for a nub or not :/
my dad asked me yesterday if I was going to find out the gender. he is trying to convince me not to , just saying it will be a better surprise, but I think he's worried about how upset I will be if its boy.

I say don't look sweetie don't obsessed about it just enjoy the scan xx

[Shellbelle]

Winngrin, I'm so sorry you heard boy. Congrats on your little man! I'm thinking about you today and sending hugs.

I don't know what the deal is with all the opposites, either. It has stolen joy from those who have already heard, and its stealing hope from those of us who are waiting. It does seem statistically off compared to previous sway results.

[jark22]

I'm sorry for both of you

I was thinking the same thing about the stats in this thread!! Crazy!!
I have my NT on friday. I don't know if I want to look for a nub or not :/
my dad asked me yesterday if I was going to find out the gender. he is trying to convince me not to , just saying it will be a better surprise, but I think he's worried about how upset I will be if its boy.

I was actually kind of happy that the tech wouldn't guess at gender when I went for my scan. I can remain in my own world of ignorant bliss for a few more weeks. I thought it was hard to see any type of nub on the screen too. Maybe that's because it was a crappy u/s machine. I say- don't obsess about the nub and just enjoy that cute little baby you will see on the screen. You will find out gender soon enough. Good luck!

[NCBeachyGrl]

I'm so sorry Winn and 3M&AL. My heart is breaking for all of us and it is so unfair!!

[Rosie85]

I think I need anger management ladies, ive been rage filled all day long and my poor boys are getting it taken out on them. Every little thing sets me off lately, it's like an instant flip of a switch and I don't know how to make it stop. Why am I sooo angry? :-(. I hate myself right now.

[homebirthing princess]

Winn I'm so sorry sweetie its so unfair that so many on this thread are getting the opposite gender I just don't understand?? I wish I had a magic wand.... Congrats on your little boy you will love him so much!

3 I'm sorry your hurting I just wanted to add that I had 3 brothers and no sisters and I LOVED being the only girl lol my brother's were and still are very protective of me, and I am the biggest daddies girl!! Iam sure 100% your dd will love having all her brothers around her, what a Lucky little thing she is

Good luck lassie xx

Thinking of all you ladies as scans start coming up fx this thread starts turning around!

Big hugs xxx