Good luck, Odd!!!
I got a BFN this morning. I think I'm done. Done, done, done. There's no point in further testing 12DPO. If my pink line yesterday was a true BFP, it would have been positive this morning.
I'm actually contemplating ending my TTC'ing now. I have two happy, healthy boys. I'm going to be 36 in July and I wanted to be done having kids by 35. I'm nervous about having additional problems due to my age (considering my history). I have to talk to DH about all of this. He wasn't all that gung ho for a third, so I can't imagine him being crushed by the idea.I, stupidly, had my hopes WAY up after that positive line popping up hours later. I knew it was dumb, but I couldn't help but hope.
I know I'm only 12 DPO and there is still a chance, but I'm just not feeling it. I'm very sad today....
Thanks for "listening",
Angie
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May 16th, 2014, 09:17 AM #321
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May 16th, 2014, 09:25 AM #322Dream Vet
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I know how you feel Angie. I'm thinking of stopping TTC too. Our plan was a Xmas bub this year, which was crushed when I had the m/c and now everything seems to be against us! We said no more once were 35 too and that's May next year. We also don't want another March-May baby as we have so many birthdays then as it is and it's already hard financially. So it's this month or not at all and I'm sure I'm out now with AF so late and still all BFN's and I'm sure we missed the egg. I've also run out of supps and almost out of opk's and can't really continue to afford it all. And my DH wasn't keen on another baby at the start either and said a few weeks ago he was done so I know he wouldn't care.
Really didn't think it would all be so hard but maybe it's cause it's just not meant to be! 😕
You never know though, maybe when you stop "trying" it will all happen easily for you and you might get a surprise BFP! 😀Mum of 9 boys & my stillborn angel daughter, Shaylah Anne 20/02/2015
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May 16th, 2014, 09:50 AM #323Dream Vet
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So sorry to hear this guys. Angielorna sorry for the BFN today. for some people it just doesnt show up yet though so you never know. mumofsix - it is so true for a lot of people that they stop trying and then bham!
Im not stopping TTC but I do wonder how much longer I can consistently do the restriction on the diet, even monday to thursday, its just getting annoying. Or maybe its just hard coming back from holiday as I have been hungry all week and cant wait for the working day to finish so I can go home and eat
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May 16th, 2014, 09:52 AM #324Dream Vet
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Steph you've had a tough time, I don't know how you've kept up with the diet this long! You're amazing. I can't wait to see your BFP!! 👍😀
Mum of 9 boys & my stillborn angel daughter, Shaylah Anne 20/02/2015
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May 16th, 2014, 10:49 AM #325Dream Vet
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its been almost 7 months on the diet!!
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May 16th, 2014, 12:56 PM #326Me: 35 years old. Was an infant nanny and birth and postpartum doula. Now a full time SAHM.
DS1: Aug 2003 (my first home birthed water baby!)
DS2: May 2009 (my second home birthed water baby!)
Oct 2014
July 2016: Laproscopic surgery to remove a ping pong ball sized endometrioma on left ovary and 3 pea size fibroids on outside of uterus. Hysteroscopy to remove one larger "penetrating fibroid" inside uterus.
Oct 2016: Heartbroken after DH's vasectomy. Looks like my dreams of a daughter are gone.
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May 16th, 2014, 12:58 PM #327
*applause* You are amazing!!! I hope you get your BFP this month! You've certainly EARNED it!!!!
And thanks, essnce629. I know, but I feel far too good (physcially) to be pregnant. Oh well. Decisions to be made. I've been off the diet for about 1.5 weeks now. Even had breakfast 2 times!!! haha
Angie
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May 16th, 2014, 05:01 PM #328Dream User
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I had a BFN this morning, so I am going to say I O'd late. Arg so frustrating. Im pretty much out of the running for a girl now since I had already started my prenatals and got back on my boy diet :-( there goes 12 weeks of diet and paintful hour long cardio sessions. I'm so mad at myself right now.
I guess I'll be checking in another week.Last edited by FitBlonde; May 16th, 2014 at 05:05 PM.
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May 16th, 2014, 06:05 PM #329
Wow! 7 months on the diet! You're definitely getting a daughter Steph!
Fitblonde and Angie Don't loose hope If af is not here you're still in the running!
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May 16th, 2014, 10:01 PM #330
8DPO here. Doing my head in. BFN (of course) today. I got a BFP 9DPO with my son so that's why I decided to test early. I had had lots of wet CM but that changed to creamy yesterday but there is only a wee bit. I just want to jump forwards a few days
good luck to anyone who is testing soon!