Due March/April/May 2017 (3)

[Girlieplease]

I never said I wanted to leave. Only you made comments about leaving. You got posts confused

Yeah no worries I intend to stay right here. I have friends like family and I always want to make sure they are happy and taken care of and supported cause that makes me happy. And I dont typically let strangers over the Internet stress me out so no worries there I was just fine with all that. I Did attempt to switch the subject and not have it brought up again for the sake of others

I am glad! X

[Girlieplease]

Who here is ready for Christmas! Because I sure am. I hate snow and ice and cold but I absolutely love Christmas. It's already snowed here twice

Children's sorted for Christmas but not really anyone else, love Christmas as well! X

[All*blue*everything]

So ive finally decided how to do my gender reveal over Christmas! I've ordered boy and girl scratch cards and once we find out gender on Christmas eve (*cough boy*) I shall dish the scratch cards out to our families and watch their reactions! Can't wait x I still can't believe i have kept having a gender scan a secret! I tell my family everything!

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[All*blue*everything]

We had our big sono last week, it was confirmed that baby is a boy. I'm starting to accept it as much as I can. I realized the comments from people who say things about me only making boys is almost worse than anything. I am not even trying to hide my disappointment at this baby being a boy to anyone. I'm sure people think I'm a horrible mom because i am very open with my feelings about being sad about not having a girl. Baby's heart rate was high at the sono so they are doing an echocardiogram (sono of baby's heart) at 24 weeks. I am not too worried about it but just that little scare made me appreciate him a little more. I had horrible migraines for 4 days leading up to the sono and took quite a few migraine meds so I'm sure his heart rate was just a result of all the meds[emoji17]

All blue everything-I can't wait to find out what you're having!! This is your fifth baby right?? I know of a girl who has 4 boys and just had a baby girl a week ago, they didn't find out what they were having. I was so excited for her and I barely know her lol! You never know, maybe #5 is the lucky number!!!!


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Yes 5th baby a lady at school who i see everyday had 4 boys then a girl she constantly nagged me to try for another assuring me it would be a girl ha ha..now she's sure it will be ....i think otherwise

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[Burakoam]

It's official.. I have a nephew on the way got to watch the gender reveal over FaceTime. My heart did shake a bit wanting to shatter, but I really am beyond happy for her and them. I figured it would be a boy, per this site she is very typical boy mom material. High powered career, very driven.. I'm just glad I'm gonna have a squishy baby boy to snuggle a month after my baby is born.. I'll squish and snuggle them both at once

[Cinss]

So ive finally decided how to do my gender reveal over Christmas! I've ordered boy and girl scratch cards and once we find out gender on Christmas eve (*cough boy*) I shall dish the scratch cards out to our families and watch their reactions! Can't wait x I still can't believe i have kept having a gender scan a secret! I tell my family everything!

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That sounds fun! Have you seen that video getting around Facebook the couple who did their gender reveal by opening a box and balloons came out, but they were all different colors like a rainbow. That would have been disappointing but great story to tell the kids.

[Lissastick]

Thank you for what you said, Girlie. I am hurting for you. You can only feel what you feel and denying it DOES make it worse. I think time only heals if you allow yourself to feel everything and work through those feelings truthfully.

I know I will be more OK than I am now with time because I am feeling all the ugly stuff and not forcing myself too much. I say that because I keep telling myself that I couldn't handle a girl and I wouldn't be the right kind of mom for a girl and I am believing it. Not sure if that's denial or a true realization. My way is to try to make divine sense of it...like I could actually do that! Haha. I'm a pretty closed Agnostic bordering on Atheist...LOL. But, I feel something exists that is "bigger" than us. I call it the Universe.

I honestly think that the Universe didn't place a daughter in my care for a reason. One that I am trying to understand.

My biggest problem is working through jealousy of everyone who gets their hearts desire.

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[Burakoam]

I dont think its about denying your disappointment when it comes to coming to terms with an unwanted gender/baby/etc. Obviously no one will tell a single person thats healthy. Its about finding ways to heal. If you arent looking, if you expect the universe to fix itself, thats when it becomes an issue. Time doesnt heal all wounds, or PTSD wouldnt be a thing (which i have...though not from gender disappointment)

Do i think its entirely possible someone can get C-PTSD from gender disappointment? Oh yes. I think thats the most severe form of GD. I think it requires therapy, medication, just like any other individual who has C-PTSD or PTSD from any other situation. It doesnt just go away. Those who feel time healed their wounds, probably had something positive they held on to that got them through that length of time.

[Cinss]

Girlie it was at about 20 weeks that I really started feeling kicks and jabs, down low mostly as my anterior placenta is high. Theres still plenty of room for them to swim around in before then I suppose. Ive seen ladies talk about drinking cold sugary drinks to get baby to move around more if they are worried about lack of movement. X

[purple]

Who here is ready for Christmas! Because I sure am. I hate snow and ice and cold but I absolutely love Christmas. It's already snowed here twice

I'm not ready for Christmas but I'm ready for some time off!

Although no ice or snow here... today was 36 degrees Celsius (almost 97 deg F) so a bit warmer it often gets to over 40 here so I'm not looking forward to that!