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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    NO abstain for DH at 41.

    If you're doing every 4 day method then you'd start after AF and do every 4 days.

    If you aren't doing every 4 day method, you could have DH do daily release or every 2-4 day release, then have one attempt at pos OPK

    I can't give you advice without knowing the method you are using and why
    Sorry to hijack but is every 4 days ok for a guy with lower post vasectomy reversal sperm count?

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    yes to start, we can always add more attempts
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    My husband is 39 will be 40 in January I know we didn't DTD for about 5-6 days and then did it once around ovulation, Maybe day of I think so that is one attempt? Even though it was abstained for 7 days. I know you advice against that for older men. Is it because of their sperm can effect and cause miscarriage?
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    I have one daughter and one son. There was no major difference between my diets and timing (we always had sex once every 1-2 days) before conceiving them. But before my DD I used a birth control pill for around 6 months, and then metformin (I have PCOS) for around 8 months. With my DS I didn't use any of these. So in my case, I think it's related to the pills or metformin or just pure luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Princess Mom View Post
    My husband is 39 will be 40 in January I know we didn't DTD for about 5-6 days and then did it once around ovulation, Maybe day of I think so that is one attempt? Even though it was abstained for 7 days. I know you advice against that for older men. Is it because of their sperm can effect and cause miscarriage?
    Yes that is still one attempt

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    Quote Originally Posted by daydreaming View Post
    I have one daughter and one son. There was no major difference between my diets and timing (we always had sex once every 1-2 days) before conceiving them. But before my DD I used a birth control pill for around 6 months, and then metformin (I have PCOS) for around 8 months. With my DS I didn't use any of these. So in my case, I think it's related to the pills or metformin or just pure luck.
    We know it's not pure luck because we get better than 50-50 for both pink and blue sways (even among people with 3,4,5 or more of the same gender already). Something we're doing is working and coming off BCP and metformin both seem to sway pink.
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    Ok, since I am pregnant of my sweet baby girl, who is btw a very good baby, she only kicks in the mornings for a couple of hours lol (almost 8 months pregnant now), I have been reading a lot A LOT nd would like to add my unintentional sway for a baby girl .

    We moved last year from a big city where you could buy good red meat anywhere, nice vegetables, find many good restaurants and a variety or rice! Yes I am a big sucker for meat, rice and potatoes with loads of salt, avocado, vegetable salad and fruit salad with SALT.

    Unfortunately, that changed as soon as we moved to this tiny Island, where the quality of meat is poor and therefore, we barely ate meat, we barely snacked due to full-time job, we stopped having breakfast in the mornings as soon as I started working 40 hours a week, had two chai tea lattes every day and two cups of coffees with sugar, no candies at all and no cookies anymore. Our dinner consisted of soup with some bread and some salad, but no meat, no high salt, not a big amount of vegetables nor fruit. I was also on a diet and tried to avoid many carbs, fat, salt, sugar etc. Sometimes we had pasta with vegetable, but no snacks at all and the last few weeks before our deed, I had many fruit shakes and cereal as dinner...My immune system became pretty weak I must say, many headaches, no vitamins intakes at all, not many fruit, maybe one banana in the morning with coffee as 'breakfast' (around 11 at work). Lunch: usually some bread with tuna or soup.

    I don't remember everything in details. We were in general everything LOW. However, we did do a lot of walking as it's hard to buy a decent car here and I went a few times to the gym where I mostly did cardio workouts.

    I believe that is how I got my surprise baby girl. She was not planned and we did the pull out method. Neither was I aware of any sway.



    I believe 100% in the methods and I am sure if one follows it religiously, they will get their dream baby.

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    So, i didnt sway this time (total surprise pregnancy) but ended up with the DG that i tried to sway and got an opposite last year so i thought I'd post my info too (even though i wasnt intentionally swaying at all). Maybe it will be helpful to someone

    So last year i did a full out girl sway and did everything by the book, religiously, except for the exercise component. I ended up with a boy.

    For this surprise pregnancy (that i now know is a girl) this is what i was doing at the time:

    Diet- calories (1200-1400/day) but no restrictions on food. If anything i was probably fairly healthy eating a lot of protein, healthy veggies, nuts, etc. I was tracking my calories/foods because i was trying to lose some weight but was pretty balanced between carbs/proteins/fats. Drank at least 1 venti starbucks/day so lots of caffeine. Took multivitamin.

    Exercise- like a crazy person lol. 5+ times a week of intense cardio (at least an hour at a time) and light weights as well as barre classes.

    BD- well before i ever got a positive on an OPK. We only did it twice all month so i know baby came from BD on either O-5 or O-3.

    Since we BD'd so far from O i thought there was no chance id get pregnant but surprise! We are super excited!

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    Congratulations ! Have taken note of the posts on here it's proving exercise is so important swaying pink which is so encouraging for me to keep going !
    Thanks for posting! Xxx


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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Yes, Clomid sways pink and no we don't know that diet counteracts it. It helps and if you need Clomid you need it and can def. get a boy on it.

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    My sister got two boys on clomid, so it is possible!
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    #3 my delightful result of a (half hearted) pink sway
    Not sure if we want to go for another sway....but will get ready just in case :-)

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