New year babies !!TTC Pink in May

[SamS_TTCPink]

I should ovulate 2nd June! Can't wait now! This HAS to be our month! Went and got vitex and SP to start again today and ordered more opk's and HPTs. I saw a baby girl at the footy today and she was sooo cute! I want one so badly!! Also ran into my brother and his girlfriend at the footy who then came and sat with us. I couldn't believe it! 😠 The. I came home and was talking with DH about how they'll be married soon and PG and probably have a girl and how I don't want then to have the first granddaughter! And DH said "it's ok, you'll be PG with our daughter soon" 😊 He also commented that whether or not we have a daughter first or after them, that their daughter (or son) would be more "doted upon" anyway and that we just have to forget about what they all think. He is right but it's hard when it's my own family.

[SamS_TTCPink]

Hopefully your DH will keep TTC in mind when he goes on his party.

[stephk]

Hmmm he didn't keep TTC in mind at any other parties or when recently asking a friend to sort him out with special cigarettes even our friends who do the same thing were shocked. When we conceived DS he hadn't touched anything for 4 months even though I wanted it to be at least 6 months and he thought he deserved a medal. When we argued about it today he said well I have never cheated on you and I'm like Er I should think not!!! I can't believe him sometimes!

You know what - knowing what I know about your family, I also get the sense that whatever your brother has will be doted on more. I really hope that you get a girl first. And if not that they also have boys. Boys are beautiful anyway and they love their mums wouldn't it be funny if they also had a large family, what would your parents think then!

[Marika]

Hi all!

Have tried to catch up here after a busy weekend with not much time to read in here.

Sorry about those BFNs :-( And sorry to hear about arguments with DH and stupid comments from family.

My diet has been awful this weekend. Cake, cake and more cake. And wine, lot's of wine. From now to O I will have to be super strict.

Got some ewcm today but shouldn't o until end of next week, around saturday or so. A bit hard to tell exactly since I don't know when those spottings were considered to be AF.

I so wanna be pregnant now. My neighbor just told me they are having another baby and while I am happy for them it is painful at the same time. I really have to make myself smile but I also wanna cry and scream that I was supposed to have a baby too, two months before them but now I am here, struggling with a stupid diet and spottings and negative sticks.

I talked to the doc that checked my cyst in february and she thinks my spottings are linked to what caused the cyst and that it is all due to a hormonal unbalance (?) after last pregnancy. They told me to give it two more months, if I am still spotting then they will examine me more.

I know I have read that a messed up cycle can be good, cause that means somethings happening with the hormones, but since early spotting can make it harder to get pg I a am not very happy over this change.

Oh, I just wanna get this week over with and be able to make next attempt. Then the awful 2ww before it all probably starts all over again. Sorry for whining.

Hope you ladies have had a nice weekend!

[stephk]

Sorry to hear how you're feeling Marika, we can all totally relate and whining is totally cool here! Can the doctor not investigate now instead of prolonging your agony? The sense of time when you are TTC is totally different to when you're not, don't you think?

I have also been very bad with the diet this weekend, in fact I'm eating cake and drinking wine right now!

[SamS_TTCPink]

Men are so hopeless!!! And I think they all think they deserve a medal if they don't cheat on us.....uhhhh hello!! That just automatically comes with being in a relationship!! My DH almost left me for a much younger "bimbo" at his work and he gets so cross when I make commented about it when he has work meetings with her etc! I get "but I didn't leave" like it makes any better that he almost did!! And he doesn't get why I have such a problem about the fact that he still works with her!! 😠

[Kidandcatmommy]

Mumofsix sorry your family is being annoying. At least your husband was sweet about it though! Occasionally those DH's are sweet and say the right thing haha!

[Kidandcatmommy]

Oops mumofsix just read your lAst message I was referring to the "you will have your daughter soon" not the "but I didn't leave" comment! And I would be annoyed if my husband had to work with her too!

[SamS_TTCPink]

Lol Kidandcatmommy! I assumed you meant the previous comment. He can occasionally be sweet. 💜😊

[stephk]

lol well we can be glad not to be alone in the useless DH stakes then. Yes, to be fair to him he does have his good moments. I just wish he would realise he is 35 years old, a father and now TTC again...but there is obviously nothing I can do about it so I have given up trying.

mumofsix i would also have a problem if in that position, lets hope the bimbo gets another job and leaves