TTC Girl - January 2012

[pinkin2011]

D/h usually will release say every 3 days on average.. he doesnt help himself.
We are only doing one attempt when i get my +opk or there abouts.... Do you think one attempt is ok??
I have been using Rephresh i used it yesterday morning and my plan was to use it again on the 7th in the am.
Was going to get d/h to have a hot shower before dtd and then i was going to do a jump and dump.
I am taking Vitex, saw palmetto , Folic acid and i am eating those equal things all day!! I have about 100 a day!!!
Oh and i dont eat until 2pm

[prayforprincess]

That sounds like a great attempt pinkin2011! I started only taking saw palmetto and folic acid. Am on the LE diet really strict. I decided that 3-4 days before o and on o day I will eat only 2 meals a day (around 1pm and 6:30pm) and only have one cup organic skim milk, 1 yoplait yogurt and white rice. Same meal both times. I want my body to really think it's hard time's when I concieive this baby so it knows there is no way I can have a boy Will go back to the LE diet strictly after o+1 day. Will take zyrtec and also do rephresh every 3 days and fingertip replens 1 hour before dtd. J&D after 5 minutes. Dtd only once and will try for a o+12. Not stressing about it though, will dtd roughly 32-36 hours after the 1st +opk. That's the plan...I hope all ours works and we see pink in October!
My hubby cannot do fr without moaning. It is stressful and that sways blue. I had done fr through o with ds3 (he released everyday from af-o) and he complained every night "do we have to?" Now, he doesn't get it enough...3 boys and he's lucky getting it once a week. I think his ideal would be 2-3 times a week. That is why abstaining is painless for us. We don't have to think about it, just don't do anything til it counts. He will never take care of himself though which is a pain -- if we did fr it would be all on me and I'm exhausted at the end of the day.

[KraizyDaizy]

KraizyDaizy - you should do a search for posts asking about Clomid and girl sways because there's been lots of talk about it in the past, but basically Clomid sways pink by making your cm hostile. You'll need to drop a lot of the other girl sway stuff (like jellies/antihistimines/timing) to make sure you get pregnant while you're on the Clomid because you won't be able to stay on it for too long. Good luck!

I am trying to search, but not having a lot of luck. Maybe I am searching wrong? Can someone help me out and point me in the right direction?

[amari]

KD-I am taking clomid. I took it for the first time last month but did not attempt. Still sort of regretting that decision but we were in Mexico for 2 weeks and the diet thing was hard so we didn't. Anyway, will hopefully o this month too as I did last month with it and haven't in so long! My only worry is that my lp was only 10 days this month. Anyways, are you not o'ing??

[dannikins]

i dont know about the frequent release thing personally. i know its only one factor, but dosent seem to work for us.
our first son, we were like bunnies at least twice a day every day.
our second was probably 5 times a week.
our 3rd, hubby was working away alot, (but was helping himself, while he was a way) and that BD was a 2 day cutoff before O.
our 4th was a 3 day cut off, with BD every second day.

and thats 4 boys.

this time has been different, but it was an unplanned different.
we were both sick with the flu, so werent really in the mood anyway.
so we ended up with a 5 day cut off, after 7 days abstaining.
hubby is 43, so abstaining was not at all in my plan.

[KraizyDaizy]

Dannikins your boys are darlin!!!! I can never get all 4 of my boys to look at the camera and smile at the same time!

I have a found a few posts about Clomid and now I am a little freaked out about the cancer risk? I want a daughter so bad, and I am sure that I will use the Clomid and risk it. Am I insane?

Since next month is the Clomid month, should I cancel this month out?

For this month, I have been temping as usual. My CBE monitor started showing HIGH on CD9. I am going to start using OPKs tomorrow. My last two cycles FF said I Oed on CD19 (27 day cycle) and CD21 (32 day cycle) so I am thinking it will be the same this month although I started taking Saw Palmetto on CD5 and DH started licorice as well then. I am not sure if I will O earlier this month because of the SP? I always skip breakfast. I used RepHresh on CD5 and vinegar douche on CD8. Plan to use RepHresh again tonight CD10. MY DH has been FR 1-2 times a day for a week or so now. So I am thinking of frequent DTD, but not sure of the pattern? I just got my SYLK in the mail today, so thought I would use it before attempts? How soon do I use it and where do I put it?

Then if I get BFN this month, I can try the Clomid using SYLK maybe? I really don't know how to incorporate a sway with it. Can someone tell me the what to do with Clomid?

[KraizyDaizy]

KD-I am taking clomid. I took it for the first time last month but did not attempt. Still sort of regretting that decision but we were in Mexico for 2 weeks and the diet thing was hard so we didn't. Anyway, will hopefully o this month too as I did last month with it and haven't in so long! My only worry is that my lp was only 10 days this month. Anyways, are you not o'ing??

FF says I am Oing, I get +OPKs and I feel pains. But I am Oing just really late and my last cycle my LP was just 9 days. What should it be? Are you going to a RE or you OB for Clomid?

[pinkin2011]

I thought that f/r was good for girl because you are lowering sperm count aswell as lowering the amount of sperm in you because i would only be dtd once... When we concieved our d/s we dtd ALL the time i would of had HEAPS of sperm inside me so there would of been a very high sperm count .. this time he is releasing heaps but not dtd so i hope it will be a fairly low count. Oh well i cant do much else so will just see what happens!

[amari]

FF says I am Oing, I get +OPKs and I feel pains. But I am Oing just really late and my last cycle my LP was just 9 days. What should it be? Are you going to a RE or you OB for Clomid?

I don't really know much about lp. I used to have regular cycles until the last year. Now they got all funny. I took meds last month to get my period so this is the first time I o'd and got a "period". It is sooooo light I am hesitant to count it and hope it is enough to get me prego. I will call the doc tomorrow to discuss it. Anyway, my lp was 10 days. And yes, it was my regular ob who prescribed it. I am doing the le diet and just not using any of the gels or drying agents if I o this month. good luck with your decision kit with me...not that I know much about clomid!!

[rainbowflower]

Hi jennibel, you know me from BC with a different name there!

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