♥ April 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[babydes56]

Lola, did the DHEA make your boobies hurt & feel bigger? Been trying to figure out why mine are feeling this way

[LolaInLove]

Hi ladies!


I kind of wish DH and I had TTC last fall. I cared less then. Lately I've had more friends have boys and all it does is make me want one all the more. DH doesn't want to find out gender this time but heck, if I could have a psychic ultrasound that would tell me what this yet-to-be conceived baby will be, I'd pay $1000 for it, LOL! And even if my imaginary psychic ultrasound showed it was girl I'd still go through with TTC b/c I want 3 kids, but at least then I'd know not to get my hopes up! I know I'm going to end up totally obsessed with the nub since I will honor his request to be surprised. I'm going to have to try really, really hard not to go get a private u/s and just not tell him!

I TOTALLY KWYM! I am actually having the weirdest thoughts now....I DO NOT want to know what this baby is. I am afraid of being upset, so I am trying to avoid that. I wish my DH were down with not finding out, because I would love to delay the possibility of having GD. It is just so hard when you are having your last baby and its your last chance for a boy. And I just don't know how I'll react to hearing it's another girl....I may be fine, or I may slump into a HUGE funk and react very strangely. But DH and the girls want to find out, so we probably will, and I will just have to deal with my feelings silently, and on this site, as I surely don't want to A) make my daughters think there is anything bad about having girls, and B) make DH have a bad experience with the pregnancy and birth of his only bio child. UGH. But, here's to hoping it's a boy and I won't have to worry about that! I wish an imaginary psychic could have told me the same thing, Begonia, that way I could feel so much more prepared.

[LolaInLove]

Lola, did the DHEA make your boobies hurt & feel bigger? Been trying to figure out why mine are feeling this way

I kinda recall that it did, actually. It's hormonal, so it would make sense.

[begonia]

Oh Lola it is just the toughest thing, isn't it? I think it is so sweet for you to let DH have his preference and find out gender since it is his only chance to experience this whole pregnancy/baby thing, but man ... the toll it could possibly take on you is tough. But on the upside, if it is a boy, how great will you feel!?!?! You'll love the rest of your pregnancy! Which is why right now I think I am going to need to know ASAP, because if it is a boy I want to enjoy knowing that.... but I wouldn't be surprised if once I'm actually pregnant I end up more in your camp, where I'd rather not know.

All that said I really, really think you've got a boy there though :-) FX FX FX!!!!

[Aqua]

Zivic, I forgot to comment on your DH rant! I know how annoying that is.....my DH, bless him, is 38, which is by no means old, but I think he is one of those guys whose sex drive is naturally pretty low. I mean, when we first were dating and had sex, it was higher, but that is the fun stage, right! But, he NEVER initiates it, and when he does, it's because I've been making snide comments about it and he's trying to make up for his lack of interest.

OMg!!! This is how my DH is too... Glad I'm not the only one with the complains..lol

[begonia]

Aqua did you ever think about not finding out with this bean? I mean I know technically you still haven't "found out" since it is just nub (but even your doc guessed boy!!!!!) ... but did you know all along you'd find out?

I am surprised at the number of DH's who aren't more, ummm, active! ;-) That seems crazy to me since mine thinks we should be doing it every day. I wish I was up for it that often but I barely get a shower every day, so BD isn't always my top priority!

[boyjoy]

My DH wants to find out, me too but i am too scared of my possible reaction in case of opposite gender. For now i feel like i am cool either way but in deep down i know i am not

[TTC5]

I TOTALLY KWYM! I am actually having the weirdest thoughts now....I DO NOT want to know what this baby is. I am afraid of being upset, so I am trying to avoid that. I wish my DH were down with not finding out, because I would love to delay the possibility of having GD. It is just so hard when you are having your last baby and its your last chance for a boy. And I just don't know how I'll react to hearing it's another girl....I may be fine, or I may slump into a HUGE funk and react very strangely. But DH and the girls want to find out, so we probably will, and I will just have to deal with my feelings silently, and on this site, as I surely don't want to A) make my daughters think there is anything bad about having girls, and B) make DH have a bad experience with the pregnancy and birth of his only bio child. UGH. But, here's to hoping it's a boy and I won't have to worry about that! I wish an imaginary psychic could have told me the same thing, Begonia, that way I could feel so much more prepared.

This is exactly why I want a suprise this time too, as it is our last shot!

[skrimpy]

There are many times I wished I had not found out with this baby... the GD was so bad and so painful I felt it would be better not to have known. Now I'm doing better but feel I haven't bonded with this baby as well - it has been more mechanical "getting ready." I do think I'm feeling more excited and trust I will love holding my LO, but it's hard.

DH says he wants to find out with the next one, no question about it. He's fine with finding out and not telling me... but I don't know that I could handle that, heh. I sort of wish he would be happy not knowing. But then I don't know if I'd have been any better going through pregnancy with no idea... maybe instead of having a hard period and then starting to feel better, I'd just have fear and apprehension. I just don't know. We will probably find out again when (Lord willing) we conceive again. It's a hard choice when you know GD may be a factor.

[My Fabulous Children]

3PNB= hope you get some good cm!!!!! could you maybe try Robitussin????
MFC= Hopeing AF shows so you can move on and concentrate on your next cylce!!!
AFM, i am currently sitting at 2DPO and no symptoms DTD once on O day...FX and TX and Arms crossed haha

Thanks Chunksta, AF is finally here!

I hope you get your BFP, Good luck.