Pink swayers' December thread

[auroara78]

Lemon, are on CD12 now or something? Are your temps still up? I think Atomic said somewhere recently that temps have to stay up for 3 days in a row to prove ovulation happened.
How are you feeling?

[Mochagirl]

Mocha, the comment I liked earlier wasn't about your spotting, it was about when you said you hope you don't see blood again until after you have a baby! That was the portion of the quote i was liking, hehe. I'm glad you looked over your charts and had some reassurances that you have long AFs....I pray for an early O for you so you'll be able to O and get it out of the way.

Thanks, auroara...and don't worry, of course I knew what you were 'liking'!

I'm sorry about your Mom - that really sucks that she's giving so much pressure for you to have a girl. Maybe you could tell her if she wants a guarantee she can foot the bill for high tech . I'm sure she, like you, will love any child you produce just as much whether it has a penis or a vagina.

[auroara78]

Mocha, thanks hun!

I am totally supportive and happy when others go HT, but that is a route I'll never take because of the unused embryo issue. It would bother me thinking of unwanted sons being left frozen ( I love my boys so dearly, it would be hard!! I know there are options for that, but I have no money for HT and Mom wouldn't do that either, because of the same thing I have an issue with....but it's a lovely thought, isn't it? The guarantee?

There was a lady on IG that ended up with B/G twins though they transfered two girls....then there was this other lady on IG that did PGD for a girl and ended up pregnant with a boy...wrong embryo transfers...so I have seen some instances of the 100% being like 99%! To me that is absoutely astoudning, to do HT and end up with an opposite....it's almost like....someone is trying to tell those ladies something!

[Out of the Blue]

I don't want to see any blood on my toilet paper again until after I have a baby in my arms!

Yup... She's coming, MJ...she's coming very soon! Sending you EARLY O vibes so you can get things started soon!


Jamie, a cold would sway girl…that’s a good thing!!! &


Dannikins This thread does move quickly, doesn’t it!?! It’s so hard to tap into that real intuition when you’re so desperately hoping for one thing over another. It kind of clouds your vision. for you that she’s a …Can’t wait until your scan in Jan!!!

I really worry about this as well and to me falls into the 'luck' part of swaying on what time of day you pop the egg. I guess it is something I can't do anything about so try not to worry about it! xx

Sounds like we don't have to worry about this b/c it's the overall trend that matters...Mocha put my mind at ease yesterday w/Atomic's response to a similar question:

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...-ttc-pink.html

Did AF come for you yet, Maybe?


Lemon, BIG ditto on what Rainbow said!!


Auroara, your Mom sounds like she’s my Mom!!! I didn’t tell her about swaying or anything like that, though. She’s come around now and knows we’ll be trying again b/c we just want a #3 to be our caboose, not our #2 (regardless of the gender). I’m so sorry her words brought you down…I have been down that road a few times last spring/summer. When I was preg last time, I was so scared it was a boy b/c I wanted that baby to be as loved as DS1 & 2 by her. Honestly, it took her a bit to have her melt w/DS2. If my last preg would have been a healthy boy, I know it would have taken a while for her to love him…not that she’s cold and cruel really but it’s just how she is and that she wanted a girl UGH! I'm not that close w/my Mom and she wonders why... At least I can learn from her that I should never be that way w/my daughter (or sons)…HUGS

[Mochagirl]

auroara - I totally understand. I was really just joking, anyway.

I figure if we're here on the swaying board it's because we don't want to or can't do HT for some reason. It's not something we'd ever consider either, for several reasons: 1) DH is morally against the whole idea, 2) we couldn't afford it in a million years, 3) it's illegal in Canada so we'd have to travel to another country to do it. I'd also never thought of the issue of unused embryos, so there's yet another reason I wouldn't do it!

[Out of the Blue]

Thanks for all your support, ladies! I didn't scare away O afterall!!! I got crosshairs this a.m. and am now 3dpo... As I've said earlier, I think all that RepHresh probably canceled out our chances this time. It's been a good learning experience for next time if there's no BFP. I'm just thrilled that my body O'ed!

[Mochagirl]

Thanks for all your support, ladies! I didn't scare away O afterall!!! I got crosshairs this a.m. and am now 3dpo... As I've said earlier, I think all that RepHresh probably canceled out our chances this time. It's been a good learning experience for next time if there's no BFP. I'm just thrilled that my body O'ed!

YAY for O!!!! I'm sure your increased fertility post-m/c will do the trick! I can't wait to hear about your Christmas BFP!

[Out of the Blue]

YAY for O!!!! I'm sure your increased fertility post-m/c will do the trick! I can't wait to hear about your Christmas BFP!

I don't know, MJ...There's no more RepHresh left in the state of Virginia...It all got squirted up my Va-JJ...

[Mochagirl]

I don't know, MJ...There's no more RepHresh left in the state of Virginia...It all got squirted up my Va-JJ...

Seriously, though - I think you still have a great chance, and at least you'll know you had the best sway possible when you get your BFP!! If I had any babydust to share, I'd send heaps of it your way.

[auroara78]

So happy you O'ed Jen!


And I agree Mocha! Sorry, I'm one of my frumpy moods today, lol.

I just don't feel like dealing with shoppin' this weekend to finish up Christmas....I do love our xmas tree and seeing the boys face light up! Just not in the mood to deal with the "buying" part of Christmas, ya know? Blah!