Feel low and almost ready to give up hope

[atomic sagebrush]

I can't find a lower dose of vit b6 near me, if I order online may take a while to get to me! Can't split tablet as its a powder,
Current thinking might as well go cold turkey as it looks like I'm not going to be able to ttc in July now thinking it's too late to change anything!

Going cold turkey is bad for your health. Just gradually space doses further and further apart till you're down to one every week and then you can drop it. (should take about 3 weeks)

No, you should still TTC this month since you've been having trouble conceiving. You may only be making a few good eggs a year and you need to be in the position to catch one when it shows up.

[atomic sagebrush]

So many questions now,
they sell the calcium and magnesium in that size tablet and other site says to take that much
I'm not taking vit e now gives me too much ewcm and I already had quite a bit anyway
Am I ment to take zinc then or not?
I tried antihistamines and it did not clear up the ewcm.

Seems I'm doing everything wrong which has made me feel I little low again, I wish I could buy a plan but I couldn't justify it to my dh he would take supps, change his diet slightly but as for spending money on a plan and still end up with a boy he will say no, and I think it's a little late now was hoping to ttc girl around July 20th!

THey're wrong. I used to be on that other site and I know what they say, and I also know the people who ended up in the hospital from taking that much magnesium, the zinc is sold that high for people to take FOR A FEW DAYS when they feel a cold coming on, and there are studies that show taking calcium in that high a dose can contribute to heart disease.

You need some EWCM to get pregnant. If you're not getting pregnant, the antihistamines have to go.

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry! ... think I am almost at last resort, I won't be able get a script for clomid in uk, as I need to see a fertility docotr for it, there isn't actually anything wrong showing up I won't get refurred to the fertility doctor.
Oh and my docs don't believe in swaying says there is no such thing, nothing can influence what you get!

If you're having long cycles like that then Clomid is medically indicated. I know it's tough in the UK to get a second opinion but many, many ladies have been given Clomid in the UK with exactly the issues that you are having.

Don't talk to doctors about gender swaying. They don't know about it and hence in their minds it isn't real, but the fact is when we're getting 75-80% boys and 65-75% girls by making a few easy changes that anyone can do, it's working. Studies have shown that it does work and anyone who ever looks into it for longer than 3 seconds knows it, even famous scientists like Richard Dawkins. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/sway...-part-1-a.html

[atomic sagebrush]

I think the long patch of ewcm was from taking vitamin e as soon as I stopped I have become dryer

I do feel like my body has given up and failed me which is why I feel like giving up to, I wanted an 2016 April baby girl but with each day that passes that dream becomes more bleak.

You can't get EWCM from taking Vitamin E unless your body is ALSO trying to ovulate. No estrogen, no EWCM. Vitamin E on its own does not make EWCM.

[atomic sagebrush]

Call your doc and ask for a script!

And MAJOR correction. It has been a LONG time since the time I was thinking of. I was using SI around the same time but I was VERY confused. I have been trying to think back for other advice and realized I told you sooooo wrong. It was NOT SI that I used to induce AF!!! It was something called BIOIDENTICAL PROGESTERONE!!!! I'll see if I can find the link from where I bought it from. Still script is better IMO but if that isn't an option you'll have the link as a fallback

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Soy Iso doesn't induce AF, it induces ovulation!! Thank you for correcting this because I didn't quite catch where we were getting hung up.

I have not seen good results with using the bioidentical progesterone for bringing on AF because if you haven't ovulated yet and are about to, it can really delay everything further and may cause a cyst. And if after ovulation, you were about to get AF anyway. We need the doctor's help to test to be sure where you are in your cycle and then a prescription strength medication from a chemist/pharmacy - the OTC stuff is meant for women in menopause and doesn't have the strength to trick your body into shedding the uterine lining.

[atomic sagebrush]

My car parking brake broke this morning, well got stuck, had to manual proform a reset now it's working just fine wish we could just reset our bodies like that

We can but unfortunately we need a doctor's help.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you it's not confusion coming from you its just the doc said that was all they could do will ask about the other meds and let you know how I get on

It's not just you, I have had a terrible time getting doctors in the UK to prescribe Prometrium to people even when it's medically indicated (as in, people who are going 6 months without a period). There is WAY more legit reason to give people Prometrium than Clomid (lowering risks of uterine cancer!) but for some reason the doctors in the UK will not prescribe it.

I do want to give you hope though Beautiful - one of my clients was in the same boat as you, in the United Kingdom, not ovulating or geting AF for months at a time, and the doctors would not give her Prometrium even though she should have gotten it. Well, after several months she got pregnant with twin girls!! It can still happen for you.

[twointow83]

Soy Iso doesn't induce AF, it induces ovulation!! Thank you for correcting this because I didn't quite catch where we were getting hung up.

I have not seen good results with using the bioidentical progesterone for bringing on AF because if you haven't ovulated yet and are about to, it can really delay everything further and may cause a cyst. And if after ovulation, you were about to get AF anyway. We need the doctor's help to test to be sure where you are in your cycle and then a prescription strength medication from a chemist/pharmacy - the OTC stuff is meant for women in menopause and doesn't have the strength to trick your body into shedding the uterine lining.

I agree that her doctor definitely needs to do more testing if this continues to be an issue and that the OTC stuff is for women in menopause. However, I have been in her shoes. Back then I saw 3 gyns and neither would do anything for me but recommend BCPs.I was TTC so obviously that was not what was going to help me. My cycles were completely annovulatory. I waited about 6+ months each time, over a year the first time, praying each time that it would be the cycle that would be the one I would ovulate and get pregnant, but I nevet did until I moved to another state and got my current OB who got involved and did what was necessary. I dont want to cause issues here, I really don't, but the BIP can induce AF... not at recommended doses because you are correct in saying they are made for hormonal therapy but they do work at higher doses. Not unsafely high, just higher than recommended. I also agree that if she is about to ovulate taking the BIP would mess that up, which is why I feel her doctor should be more involved but unfortunately many doctors feel that because they went to med school that they know everything and we know nothing. I personally know the frustration and stress that comes with cycles that go on and on and I worry this stress will keep her from ovulating at all thus my recommendation of a fresh start and pushing for more testing if it continues. Again, not trying to stir the pot... that's the last thing I want. Just trying to use my experience and knowledge to help someone, just as you do. I truely hope it is an issue of miscommunication with her doc and her doc will Rx the prometrium, as this is really the best possible outcome because of all the reasons I mentioned before.Then she can use the SI for TTC next cycle since her doc won't Rx Clomid. But if not I don't want her to feel the helplessness that I felt for so long. HopeI am not stepping on toes. Just trying to help.

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[Beautifulrainbow]

I had such a busy day today I did not get chance to call my doc will try tomorrow!
I really want to thank you both for taking the time to reply to me I really appreciate it, I really like having more knowledge for when I do speak to the doc maybe not so much about swaying but more on cycles af etc, this is because I dint full trust that they reall know what they are talking about... Take me back to 1st time I fell pregnant.....
My periods stopped July/August was sent for test, again then they found nothing wrong, pregnancy tests were negative, sent me for more tests, found I was making milk hormones, said I was a very strange girl, ran another pg test it was also negative.
then I was sent to ob who tried squeezing my breast to see if any milk came out which it didn't, was told by him that it is very unlikely that I would get pg, fast forward 2-3 weeks after that appointment I felt a strange feeling like something was trying to kick its way out of me did a pg test good a really strong + within a min, was so shocked, the ob phone me back told him and he seemed very shocked and wished me luck,
went back to my gp ( not knowing how far along I was, didn't know when you was ment to start feel you baby moving kicking) there they felt my stomach said I felt about 16 week and sent me to see a midwife.
I thought this part was a right whirl wind but little did I know there was more to come, next day mid wife said she would be with me the day after that for booking in, got to hear my babies heart beat for the 1st time (amazing) booked me in for a scan the following week.
At the scan they informed me that I wasn't actually 16 week that I fact I was 26 weeks plus and that I was having a son and luck early he was perfect in every way. My son was born 11 weeks later at 37 weeks, August 2004, so only had about 12 weeks to enjoy my pregnancy in totally.

[twointow83]

I had such a busy day today I did not get chance to call my doc will try tomorrow!
I really want to thank you both for taking the time to reply to me I really appreciate it, I really like having more knowledge for when I do speak to the doc maybe not so much about swaying but more on cycles af etc, this is because I dint full trust that they reall know what they are talking about... Take me back to 1st time I fell pregnant.....
My periods stopped July/August was sent for test, again then they found nothing wrong, pregnancy tests were negative, sent me for more tests, found I was making milk hormones, said I was a very strange girl, ran another pg test it was also negative.
then I was sent to ob who tried squeezing my breast to see if any milk came out which it didn't, was told by him that it is very unlikely that I would get pg, fast forward 2-3 weeks after that appointment I felt a strange feeling like something was trying to kick its way out of me did a pg test good a really strong + within a min, was so shocked, the ob phone me back told him and he seemed very shocked and wished me luck,
went back to my gp ( not knowing how far along I was, didn't know when you was ment to start feel you baby moving kicking) there they felt my stomach said I felt about 16 week and sent me to see a midwife.
I thought this part was a right whirl wind but little did I know there was more to come, next day mid wife said she would be with me the day after that for booking in, got to hear my babies heart beat for the 1st time (amazing) booked me in for a scan the following week.
At the scan they informed me that I wasn't actually 16 week that I fact I was 26 weeks plus and that I was having a son and luck early he was perfect in every way. My son was born 11 weeks later at 37 weeks, August 2004, so only had about 12 weeks to enjoy my pregnancy in totally.

Uh... with that kind of history ignore everything I said. Seriously! Too much risk involved if you could be preg and not know it! This is above my "pay grade" and without a blood test and prob an u/s I wouldn't move forward to inducing AF. (((Hugs))) I know it is frustrating but with your history assume you are preg until proven otherwise.

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