After dtd questions

[atomic sagebrush]

yes it can go from totally neg to totally pos all of a sudden.

[Tmommy725]

Officially in the tww! Didn't go exactly as planned but nothing does ... Got first pos opk yesterday bc o seemed to e coming later so I started testing twice. Got this at about 3pm.... On digi and wondfo ... We just got back from vacation and it couldn't work out to have a good attempt yesterday. And actually had a couple failed ones ... This am I woke up at 5 and tested again and still a bright wondfo positive and digital positive. This would of normally been the first test for me if I tested 1x a day - and had our 1 attempt!... Missionary , no o , shallow etc... My only concern is am I too close to o ( even though I know timing doesn't sway ��) bc I am clearly somewhere in my surge and not at the very beginning ... But what's done is done ! In retrospect if this attempt doesn't work we may have to switch to every 4 days . Dh feels as though he either doesn't want to know he has to "perform" bc it's an attempt or have it just "happen" like it did last time - doesn't get that's not exactly always how it works but I have to be flexible too! Let the wait begin!

[atomic sagebrush]

good luck!

[Tmommy725]

So last night which is about 48 hours from first Pos opk I had ewcm and same thing this am . I did test with opk Sunday night( positive) Monday am ( positive and our one attempt) Monday night it went negative ( on digital and wondfo and continued to be negative yesterday. Is it possible to have ewcm post ovulation? Or did I just ovulate closer to 36-48 hours after first smiley? Guess my question is do I continue to test just in case I missed o or leave my one attempt( not gonna lie would like a break from testing ). I definetly had watery cm with our 1 attempt - is it possible to get ewcm 1-2 dpo?

[atomic sagebrush]

It is possible to get EWCM for a week before O and a few days after. Has happened to me on many occasions including the month I got my daughter (had CM for 2 or 3 days after that!)

[Dreamingofpinkafter2blue]

Honestly, the jellys and rephresh and all that made me feel stressed. Like I think it would have made my sway worse because of anxiety. This month was my first attempt. I just laid down for a few minutes after dtd and gently wiped some of it out when I got up. Something I do anyway. I don't know if I'm pg yet, though.

[atomic sagebrush]

Leave it out next time.

Some people feel like they have to at least try everything but it doesn't always mean you have to.

[Tmommy725]

So bummed Af reared her ugly head today! I had what I thought was ib yesterday, bc of color and consistency mixed with cm and then this today - I know a girl away takes longer but after 3 cycle I'm a little upset ... Sure I just need a day or two -
But I really don't think I can bank the whole thing on this one attempt .... With my son I got pregnant so easily but using boy frequency so I don't know if that's what I need to get pregnant or this is just gonna take longer ... Need some advice !

[atomic sagebrush]

I answered this in your other thread.