What can i take out of my sway to prevent another chemical? anyone? atomic??

[zanacal]

I reckon that whatever you do has to be right and comfortable for you and DH so that's clearly the best plan for you! Good luck deaks x

[Indira]

I think it is a good plan deaks, dh has to be on board or you won´t be able to get pregnant
I think leaving out the lime is a good move.
If you find it takes to long to get pregnant you can always change your mind about O+12 (or try a shorter abstain) knowing you tried for a lot of months. And if you do get pregnant soon (FX!) you can still feel good about your sway, knowing you didn´t throw everything out of window right after your chemical-which would be a very sane thing to do but might make you regret later. Good luck!

[atomic sagebrush]

Right, spoken to dh and he's not up for releasing at all! well i mean he is up for attempt time me getting him to the point of no return and then dtd, but he's not up for any more releasing than that. Im not worried though as i have pretty much come to the conclusion tonight that we will abstain for 10 days max, do our o+12, but use absolutely no lime, acigel or LR for him at all. I will also add the progesterone in and be VERY careful with my blood sugar levels. If there is any whiff of a chemical again then we will make some much bigger changes to our sway but for now i am hopeful that using progesterone and not lowering sperm overly far with LR will be some positive changes that will hopefully lead to a healthy bfp.

Hope this is the right thing to do but i just cant imagine bd through ov at the moment or making dh do something he really doesn't want to. He is happy to support me when it comes to my side of the sway but i think FR is just a step to far for him. Fair do's. What do you reckon ladies?

Then that sounds like an excellent plan!

[deaks66]

Thanks ladies. Just want to get on with my next attempt now!

[Out of the Blue]

Sending you lots and lots of , deaks!!!!!

[zanacal]

Me too, good luck!

[deaks66]

Thanks zanacal and outoftheblue! its surely got to happen this month...10 months on the diet is waaaaay toooooo long!

[zanacal]

It SO is!!