♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[Flava]

Where is everyone?

[Flava]

Oh and no1 said nothing about my questions on page 35. Plz what do you guys think??

[Zivic-Bubac]

Oh and no1 said nothing about my questions on page 35. Plz what do you guys think??

About Maca? IMHO it might be a good idea for mean only and for us Wheat Grass juice or Green Magma.

I often think about quitting the whole idea about 3rd child. But it's better to regret something you've done then something you haven't, right?
Why do you want to stop trying:
- you are functioning great like family of 6 and don't need any more?
- not enough space & money?
- DH is not full on board?
- you are afraid you will get another girl?
- all this combined?

Well all this are my reasons, esp the 1st one, we are doing great like family of 4 ( just our family make up sucks ) and my greatest fear is that I will ruin our harmony with another baby. That is what astrologist told me when I visited her before DD 2 was born: if you want a 3rd, it will be boy for sure, but very difficult child and he will ruin your life

I just laughed and said: oh, no each child is a blessing but a bug remained in my mind How ultimately stupid is that and what she knows in the 1st place.....

And of course, we don't have enough money, nor space, nor time....DH said to me few times he feels we are done and we are complete as a family. He never wanted 3 kids

At this point, I *think* I will be OK w/another girl, I have few names I really like for her ( boy name was decided before DD1 was born )

I'll keep trying until I hit 40, and then I'll stop. It's a year and a half away, hopefully I'll get pg before that, but with all that swaying, I'm thinking: maybe my body is just not designed to conceive a boy

[begonia]

find this in one of atomic post



ok I don't get it we suppose to have lot's of ewcm for a boy right? But this here says the more sticky you have the higher a chance to have a boy?
Or it's just only if you always have sticky CM then you chance is higher for a boy but of course the best is to have ewcm?

Flava I think this is a good Q for Atomic. On the Q re: selenium I have no idea, and I'm not doing Co-Q10 either so no opinion there either, sorry! I do take D3 because it is another one that is considered "good for health in general" but specifically for bone/immunity health. I'm honestly not sure how it fits in the boy sway other than the "more nutrients, better overall health = boy" idea.

I'm so sorry you're struggling so with the #5 idea! It is a tough decision and certainly well worth thinking through over and over again, for sure, so I think it is great you're weighing it out. Because it is life changing for your family and the baby-to-be. For me when I think about #3, and about NOT having it, the appeal is that if we don't have another, we know what we've got and we know you we can handle it and it is what it is. But TTC again means so many unknowns, and unknowns can be exciting but also scary! Only you and your DH know for sure what the right answer is. Like Lola said I just hope you can come to a decision you are at peace with!

[begonia]

Welcome back 3PNB! Sounds like you're in a good place right now and that is fabulous. Looks like there will be a nice little group swaying in a couple of months!

My mind has gone blank! I wrote the post to Flava and then started this one and then the girls needed snacks and now I come back and can't recall a thing I was going to say. I have to go re-read. Sheesh ... I need some supplements to help with my memory recall.

[begonia]

Princessap I'm sorry you're out this month :-( To answer your Q I think timing has crazy, massive amounts of studies behind it. The thing about the studies is they can go either way ... so IMHO timing just isn't a big deal, at all. I do however think if you know what you did for your DD's I would do the opposite, and it sounds as though you know what you did for the DS you lost, so maybe just try to mimic that again.

Lola if you don't mind what supps are you doing now? I know you mentioned antiox type stuff so I am just curious.

Hooray for the job TTC5! I'm happy you're excited about it, and it sounds like a wonderful position with helping out little ones. Hope it goes very well :-)

[Flava]

zivic I think I just leave the maca alone. How can some1 say a baby will ruin your life? That astrologist was stupid .All tehy do is guessing game anyway don't believe it!
I have all this reasons you say here...plus I have to do it all by myself because DH is working and there is no1 else to help.
But if maybe just maybe it would be a boy then all worth it. ehhhh so hard!

[begonia]

For reals ZB ... we've had a boy name picked out for like, a decade now, LOL :-) Girl names I have a couple ... but nothing I love yet.

[Flava]

begonia thanks! Im thinking to try this CoQ10 because it highers the sperm count so good and so would be great for ttc boy.
But wanted some help on it first. I think atomic only have time on thursday or so she said...

[TTC5]

That's awesome! Nothing like working to take your mind off of stuff, that is for sure! So, you are aiming for August now?

I am not setting a month now, just take it by ear =)