New year babies !!TTC Pink in May

[Marika]

I know how you feel Rosie. I too am so sure our loss was a girl and it's so frustrating to have to start all over again. I haven't exercised or been perfect on the diet this month and with our attempt getting closer I feel like I have no chance of getting a girl again.

It's so hard, so upsetting and so frustrating when everything falls apart and there's nothing we can do about it but all we can do from here is try to think positive and keep on trying! xx

I can so relate to that feeling as well. When we lost our baby and then found out it was a girl I first felt relieve that we actually could get girls. But then I felt like I was punished in that cruel way (you know, guilt for wanting a girl when having two boys etc...) and I started feeling that maybe I am not meant to have a girl anyway. I still feel upset about having been so close to a daughter but still being so far away.

[stephk]

Rosie I am so sorry hon I really feel for you. I cannot add to the kind and wise words already said by the others but just know that we are all here in support.

[Rosie85]

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Oh no!!!! This looks like it could turn positive very soon. This is normally the way it looks the day before I get a positive. I am only 7 days out from the 1st day I bled for my miscarriage. Is it normal to O this early after? What should I do...do I attempt? I just stopped bleeding yesterday.

[stephk]

It might just be fluctuating hormone levels after the mc? As it's negative anyway, why not wait and see whether it turns positive tomorrow?

[Rosie85]

It could be...but this is my 4th day of testing and they were all negative before. I am having some cramping and twinges and cm. This is nuts. I think since we won't be home tomorrow Dh and I will attempt tonight just in case. We don't want to miss our chance at catching the 1st egg! If it's not than Oh well I will keep testing and attempt again.

[daisymoo]

If you can't dtd tomorrow and you think it might be posituve tomorrow I would definitely dtd tonight It can't do any harm and you might just catch that egg Best of luck!

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[Rosie85]

Thanks daisy. They were so faint the last few days and now this...it totally caught me off guard. I assumed I wouldn't ovulate until next week some time. Maybe it's just a random fluctuation.

[stephk]

Yes if you can't do tomorrow definitely BD today - good luck

[Marika]

Rosie, I would also BD today if dh is away tomorrow. Good luck, fx you get to catch that first egg!

[Kidandcatmommy]

Good luck Rosie! Hopefully, this is it and you can catch the first egg!