Part 9: Due December 2017, January, February and March 2018

[AshFind]

Shan what a fabulous idea with the BBQ maybe I need to do something like that. Sounds fun I always like get together a


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[Shannshaff]

Shan what a fabulous idea with the BBQ maybe I need to do something like that. Sounds fun I always like get together a


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Exactly! I usually do the cooking for it and all, but this time I am still feeeling so tired and drained that I am getting it catered. My MIL is picking it all up too, so I have less to do. Poor DH is stressing that we have so much to do for the party and I am like, Oh well. They all know us and if they don't like the house the way it is - tough.

[Mommy2apples]

Great idea Shann!! It'll be super fun!!


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[AshFind]

True! I have a friend at my mops group who envies her sister because of her relaxed attitude. She told a story of her church group getting ready to come over and she had asked her sister if she was going to clean and she said her sister looked at her puzzled and said why would I clean we all have kids and we're all friends. I sometimes wish I could have a not caring attitude but I'm to anal and clean from sun up till sun down. But I also don't work and have high respect for women who work and have to clean.


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[Shannshaff]

Well, since my weekend to clean and get ready was spent in the hospital, I just don't care anymore. I am too tired to care. I will clean a bit and put stuff away, but I can't send myself into labor doing it. So I have had to just let go this time.

[Pbn3]

Maxim that's great you bought a couple things! The only other thing I can suggest is to not try and force yourself to come to terms with this in a certain timeline. Just let it happen on its own accord. Don't hate on yourself for feeling this way (and Shann, Kat and LMSM this is for you too [emoji173]) you're only human and we all struggle when we don't get something we want, especially when someone we know does, we all came to this site for the very reason of trying to get what we want. I have read many stories on here of GD but they all end the same, whether its prior to or after birth, mum and bub always bond and often so strongly that it takes mum by surprise xxoo

Maxim there's two message areas in tapatalk, chat and pm. I'm attaching screenshots so you can tell the difference just in case you aren't aware. I only ever see messages in chat by chance however I receive notification of pm's. The first screenshot shows the envelope icon in the middle of the screen and its how you access chat. The second screenshot shows the envelope to the right and that how you access pm's.

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[Pbn3]

Mommaxo3 thank you! And I think it might be because of the tests that's she's seeing me a week earlier. I'm not going to worry about it regardless.

Dancing I still cant believe I said 'her' as I truly have no inclination either way. I'm beginning to think perhaps she just misheard me [emoji848][emoji23]

Mommy2apples you are gorgoues [emoji8] and your dh is one lucky man!! As for finding somewhere to hide it, hmmmm is there something he does routinely at home? Like a daily habit? Maybe you could stash it where he goes regularly but its out of sight. Will think on it some more....

Shannshaff love the bbq idea!!!

Ash I'm the same cleaning wise [emoji17] I have let go somewhat which you have to when you have kids but I can only let go so much then I go nuts with cleaning, I'm forever picking up during the day.... I may sound like I'm joking about being a bit ocd but I honestly do believe I have a minor dose of it.

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[Mommy2apples]

Thanks Pbn! [emoji15][emoji8] so are you! lol probably would have to be the most obvious place so he wouldn't look! He's so nosey! Lol worse than the kids! I can never surprise him!
eek! I cannot wait until you hold your sweet baby and tell us gender!


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[Pbn3]

This may sound silly but what if you mail it to him? Use a computer to print out the name and address part so he wont know straight away its from you. Then again that could be risky if it gets lost in the post [emoji30]

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[Mommy2apples]

That would be so cute though pbn! As he would never expect it!!


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