Due dec'14-jan/feb'15 part 2

[crazycatcouple]

Abi, you look so stinkin cute :-) And yes, I will report back once I talk to my doctor about the gas for sure! Our next apt is the 11th, so a couple more weeks.

Sweetdream, I am so sorry your having such difficulties!! That's great that your mom can help out a bit too, but don't let DH off too easy. I know he has to work, so he obviously can't do much while he's away at work, but let him step up when he's home. Men are capable of so much more than they think, lol. I hope this therapist can give you the relief you deserve. Sending hugs your way!

[sweetdream]

Dh already helps a lot. But he's chaotic and i have to ask everything. When i do he does want to do it, but forgets 80% of the time.

He always brings the boys to bedd. When hes home he walks the dog. He cooks half the time. He helps now with food for the boys to school. He does the dishwasher kitchen in the evening.

(But the kitchen is never completely empty and always just before turning in. He wouldn't vacuum or do the toilet/bathroom out of his own. And he leaves a trale if trash were hes been (we all do) but if i cant clean its harsh to keep it in order.

[kitkat18]

Abi you are so gorgeous!! Cuuttee bump!! How many weeks are you now?
Sweet dream im so sorry honey its not easy when something like this happens! Pelvic pain is really sore my friend had it really bad she was ln crutches for a month or two but it just relieved itself as baby grew. It was her first so she didn't have the worry of caring for three others!
What about looking into getting a cleaner? Even once a fortnight? I know its expensive but might be a saving grace, glad your mum can help out a bit and boss DH around!! Xxx
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[sweetdream]

My mom will do the cleaning.
I walked with crutches with ds 1 for short time.
Ds2 no problems at all.
Ds3 a bit but manageble.
This time is hard cause i,ve had a nerve blocked 3 times know. That hurts like hell.
It will be ok... But really need to take a step back.

Thx for your kind words both

[kitkat18]

Thank goodness your mum sounds like a saint, why don't you ask round school/ kindy if other mothers would help with pick ups and drop offs. I am so sorry you have to go through this again! Xx
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[sweetdream]

Thx kitkat your sweet.

My mom is my best friend.
We do everything together. Thats were part of my genderdesire comes from.
We are super tight.

I'm asking for help (wich is hard for me.... I akways want to do it alone)
A neighbour drops my eldest off at school today (we are close too. School so lucky with that.) but the middle one has a very bad cold and has been caughing like a seal all night... So 2 at home today.

I feel like i have been hit by a bus lol. I think with straighten my pelvic my back wasn't amused. But i was crooked so guess it helps in the long run and hopefully my neckpain will disapear too.

I see things more positive today. The pain is much less. I have hopes it will be better i just need to function a bit till the vacation end of december.
We'll see more after that.

[Yahmama]

Im so sorry sweet dream Glad youre able to ask for help and have your mom for aupport. Hope the pain gets better soon
My 30 week appt is tomorrow. Its getting harder for me to act like I dont know the gender around my friends. Only 1 knows we really found out but she doesnt even know its a boy. I told eveyone "we're haviing a surprise this time" so its not really a lie, but lately theyre asking me how hard it is for me not knowing and they dont know how I am so calm about not knowing and I have a hard time fibbing and pretending I dont know. Part of me feels like giving in and saying I know but part of the reason I didnt was because I like only dh and me knowing. But I guess I also feel a but guilty. I have 5 close friends that have 3 girls or more (one is having her 6th girl) and they have all said how much they want a boy. One of them is 8 wks with #4 and will find out gender around when Im due and she wants one the most. I dont want any of them to feel worse and just want to be sensitive to them if that makes sense. Trying to figure out if now or at birth would be easier for her and Im praying for her that #4 is a boy so by then maybe it wont matter as much. Sorry for rambling.

[Abifasc]

Kitkat, I'm 25 weeks! Thank you!! I love seeing everyone's bump pictures.

[kitkat18]

Abi wow time is flying for you honey! Im nearly 17 weeks its going fast too!
Yahmama, I wouldn't worry about not telling people its your decision and it sounds like you like it being a secret between you and DH. Sweet you are so considerate of your friends and their GD and I can tell you finding out at birth is easier than hearing all about boy clothes, boy names etc etc XX
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[lala22]

I am starting to get SO antsy for this little guys arrival- both apprehensive about labor and just super excited to meet him. I'm definitely nesting and having some serious OCD issues getting things ready and cleaned. I'm already a clean freak so I actually hate this part of being pregnant because I'm too big to get down on the floor and clean so nothing is ever clean enough- lol.