Due March/April/May 2017 (2)

[Girlieplease]

This is DS2's nursery and the furniture I have to work with. The boys are now both in this room as it is bigger, otherwise I would have used it again as a nursery as I still love the monkey theme

I think I just about had the whole theme planned this time into my pregnancy with him but I'm not so sure what I will do this time.

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What a lovely room but are you going to go pink pink pink for your girl or an alternative colour? X

[Girlieplease]

Hi everyone, I am new to this site. I am due with my third baby boy on April 2 (I will have a third c-section so it will be sometime during week 39). I have been feeling so heartbroken and angry since finding out I am having another boy. I know that my husband does not want anymore children but honestly one of the only things getting me through right now is thinking about doing IVF with PGD for a daughter in a couple of years- even though I know it is too expensive for us and my husband will refuse. I also don't know much about it as I just learned about it this weekend through research online. I just feel like I need something to give me hope. Just goes to show how futile and relentless hope can be. I don't know why I can't just be happy and accept that I will have three boys. I truly feel like I have lost my daughter, even though she was never real. I can't let her go and it's tearing me apart. Thank you listening and I pray we can all find some peace that are struggling with GD.


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Welcome Violet, sorry you did not hear pink. There are lots in this group who are in the same boat. I am only 10 weeks so am yet to find out if my sway has worked, you will find good support on this group x

[Girlieplease]

I cried at my checkup yesterday. The midwife asked what I was having since it wasn't written down so I had to tell her boy and just started crying. For some reason saying it out loud is so hard, it's final and definite, no hope left that someone screwed up and it's a girl. Hadn't met her before so great first impression. By some miracle she has two boys and is done having kids so she could at least relate. It was still probably pretty shocking to her considering here she was telling me everything looked great at the anatomy scan and I have a healthy little baby, and there I was completely indifferent. She wants me to try therapy so I can start enjoying this pregnancy. I guess I could try a couple sessions, but I feel like it will be a waste of time and money


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Hugs, gd sucks! X

[Girlieplease]

Girlie, Hugs for you... I have had three mmc's and that is a fear that I carry with me until I reach the 20th week... but even then I don't think that fear ever really goes away. Praying for good news at your scan and that your birthday party for our son is uneventful and fun for all!!

Thank you! X

[baby2016baby]

Baby good to hear from you, we have only told my mum about the pregnancy so far and she has not responded well. She just keeps going on about all the negatives and how am I going to cope. She also keeping going on about how my other children will suffer. It is really annoying, especially since my brother and his wife are having their first baby in Feb and my mum is so excited! To add to the annoyance she does not even help us with child care so it is not like it is more of a burden to her. We have not told me in law's, largely because in general they are critical and anxious people, not a good combination. I just am not feeling up to dealing with their negative, anxious comments at the minute.

So sorry your sister reacted like that, sending hugs, hope your ok x o

thanks we are the same, nobody has our kids for us and we don't take anything from anyone but you can bet they will all have their opinions. I'm largely where I think "how will it actually affect anyone" but us but then people always like to stick their oar in....we have yet to tell our other children and any mothers, mine lives in another country!! x

[purple]

What a lovely room but are you going to go pink pink pink for your girl or an alternative colour? X

Well I'm not really into pink that much. I was looking at some purple and mint decor on pinterest. I already have some purple curtains we can use that were left from the previous owners who had a girl and boy.

[purple]

Baby2016, sorry your sister was so rude. Does she have kids?

[Brandles]

Brandles, did the person who did the 15/16wk scan know much about determining gender? I'm paranoid my 15 wk scan will somehow be wrong even though it was done somewhere they specialize in checking the gender. Just over a week until it gets confirmed!

Ugh, yes... that's what made it so hard. It was a place that specializes in gender after 13 weeks.

[Burakoam]

Thank you for sharing brandles. i am sure its hard to relive that. It does give me hope though. I am used to seeing my girl nubs...really easily actually which is funny since they all ended up girls...they would at certain angles be really long and flat..this one i am wondering HARD if i had a stacked nub behind legs because i couldnt see ANYTHING

[lindz]

Well I'm not really into pink that much. I was looking at some purple and mint decor on pinterest. I already have some purple curtains we can use that were left from the previous owners who had a girl and boy.

Mint and purple would be so cute!


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