Confused/losing hope

[Violet_]

Any update on this? Hope all is working out okay.

[harleyquinn]

Thanks Violet. I did have my appt yesterday and it didn't really go so well. The Dr kinda looked at my chart and at me, and said in not so nice terms that due to my age and history, it may be time to just move on from baby-making.

Unfortunately, I have been spotting quite a bit and I shouldn't of told her that because she then decided I was going to lose the baby and there was no point in doing bloodwork because I would know one way or the other anyway.

She went on a bit about how at my age the ovaries just don't make adequate progesterone to sustain a pregnancy. She told me if I don't get AF by Monday, to start the progerterone suppositories at that time because if I started that now, it would just make things hang on a bit longer than necessary.

SO..now I wait. Besides have pre-noravirus anxiety disorder (LOL) I don't feel pg at all, zero symptoms so I just don't know. Usually for me, things fail quite quickly so I think I should know in a week or so if things will stick. I hope to settle into the pg rather than be a nervous wreck the entire time.

[The Anchor]

JEEZ harley, what a nightmare! Sorry you have to go through this. I had a doctor actually refer to me as a "senior mom" (not my regular GP) and I just about lost my mind.

I've had zero symptoms for the first 4 weeks of pg with both of my kids. And spotting at week 4 with DS, for 2 weeks. Stay strong girlfriend.

[harleyquinn]

Thanks...I think the pre-noravirus anxiety disorder may actually be pg symptoms because after I eat anything, I'm just convinced I'm going to barf. Every growl my stomach makes...I"m positive its nora. If its a girl, may just have to call her Nora...its THAT bad!!!

[dreams529]

harleyquinn sorry you had to go through that! I've dealt with some nasty Dr's in the past. They should really need to be tested for bedside manners before being allowed to practice. Like you really need there stress!

I hope everything works out I spotted for months with my first DS fingers crossed that everything works out for you! I think Nora is a perfect name by the way its tops on my list if we have another DD!

[Violet_]

Yep, I wouldn't be impressed by that doctor! Hope things become clear within the next week for you.