Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

[sugarNspice]

Spinning,

I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone, and that I am so so sorry to hear your news. I just lost a much wished-for, much hoped-for at 18 weeks (she was found to have died some time before my anatomy scan), after multiple losses (some chromosomal, some unknown). So I do know how it feels to hear unthinkably bad news at an ultrasound. It is one of the saddest and hardest things I've ever experienced.

I have no advice for you, except to say that everyone tells me to wait and grieve before making any decisions, and this seems like a good idea. Sometimes I too think we are done having kids, and sometimes I want to be pregnant so badly I can't sleep or sit still. I do believe the sadness will ease in time, and I also think (hope!) that knowing I am not the only person to go through something like this and survive it makes it easier to bear.

I am so lucky in that i already have two beautiful children, and on some level, I know our lives will be okay even if #3 is not to be. Holding them, kissing them, keeping them close to me--these are all things that bring me comfort.

Hugs to you.

[homebirthing princess]

Spinning iam so sorry sweetheart I really don't know what to say, like shell said wish we were there with you!! So what happens now do they run more tests??
Huge hugs xxxx

[coocoobananas]

No it's even if it's not trisomy 13 there are serious issues. I've been stuck Ina nightmare for like a year

What? Omg!!! Spinning, I am so so sorry and sorry that I have no words. Life is completely unfair and it seems so much harder on some than others. This shouldn't be happening to you and again. Thinking of you.

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

I can't understand this!!! I don't know what to say. This is absolutely terrible.

[spinningmadly]

This is the second time In a row . Apparently I just have crappy luck.
They are testing for trisomy 13 If it's not they are going to do all sorts of tests

He said we would do Cvs next time but If there is a next time I'd just do ht and test ahead of time.

I'm only 29 so I don't get it

[homebirthing princess]

So so unfair, my heart is breaking for you xx

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

So does this mean the pregnancy is over? I can't wrap my head around this.

[spinningmadly]

It's up to me. It will probably end on its own and I would never consider this before but I want to just terminate this time. This is the second time in 7 months. I can't do this again . Deliver a dead baby I just can't. Every kick I feel I want it to go away . It sounds awful but twice in a row I can't mentally do it

[spinningmadly]

What they are sure of is that there are serious issues. These aren't just soft markers

[suregena]

Oh my God, spinning... I can't believe this. I don't even know what to say... oh my God... you don't deserve this at all....