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[Dragonmother]

You girls really thought about the details : D

[Dragonmother]

I problably overestimated my DH's sharpness ; )

[nuthinbutpink]

I problably overestimated my DH's sharpness ; )

LOL. We did try and make it generic. Privacy is a big concern for many of us and we do what we can to preserve it.

[atomic sagebrush]

You're right, it can be anything concerning baby's : )

A lot of women-related stuff is called "baby", even adult women's clothes companies.

[atomic sagebrush]

You girls really thought about the details : D

NBP is smart.

[krickyk26]

Hello!

I am thinking about purchasing a plan to sway pink but just want to make sure that it would be helpful considering the health issues we have going on. Diagnosed MFI in 2008 (motility) but through some miracle we have twin boys (spontaneous) and a third boy. DH has diabetes, on high blood pressure meds, and has polysystic kidney disease. Kidney function is poor and dialysis/transplant likely within in 5 years (so not a lot of time). DH fights with ED. I have had gastric bypass and have malabsorbtion issues and am supposed to shoot for 60 gms of protein a day. I also recently learned I was pretty anemic (hemo below 9), calcium low, B12 low, actually pretty much everything was low. I also thyroid issues (hypo). Had pre-e during both pregnancies. Although I've had gastric bypass, I haven't lost what I gained through the pregnancies and would love to drop around 50 lbs. At one point (it's been years), I was told I had PCOS but I doubt I really do - cycles have been fairly regular with ovulation. Had a surprise chemical last month.

Can a personalized plan help us or do we present too many complications for it to be safe to consider? We want to sway pink but don't want to risk the health of a baby or our own. Not sure if we swaying is something we can do. Any immediate advice?

[atomic sagebrush]

I absolutely can and safety is ALWAYS my highest priority.

Most of the things that are bad for one thing, are bad for everything so I would simply exclude the things that are iffy in terms of being 100% safe.

A lot of what you have going on would tend to sway pink anyway, so it would just be a question of maximizing odds of conception without doing too much to sway blue.

[HopeSprings76]

Hi Atomic Sagebrush,
I just wondered roughly how the personal sway plans here differ from the IN Gender diet and also if either your personal plans here or the In Gender plan are workable with IVF.
I am going to have IVF in the Fall as I am lone woman conceiving. I would like to sway Pink but I noticed some of the foods (on the IG site) are considered too acidic by some natural fertility experts. Obviously whilst I would prefer to maximise my chances of a girl but at my age (I will be 3 months off 38 come ttc) the main object is getting pregnant at all.
Sorry if this is rambling to reiterate I wondered what the difference in terms of forbidden foods etc is between the plans on here and the IG diet and also is it worth following a sway diet at all with IVF? I thought/hoped theoretically I could change the PH of my eggs and make xy sperm more likely to implant?
Thanks for your time.
xx

[nuthinbutpink]

Can you come to NYC? We just had a single woman cycle using PGD in NY. She is pregnant now!

Regarding the difference, there is an entire post dedicated to that.
Ingender vs. GenderDreaming Swaying. What

I'm sure she will add more!

[HopeSprings76]

Thanks for that link NothingbutPink
I am trying to gradually get through all the info on here.
Re NYC and PGD I wish I could do that but money is super tight
I am just about able to afford a couple of cycles of normal IVF as it is.
I will keep my fingers crossed for a lottery win though
Am thrilled for the lady you mentioned that's great she got pregnant.