TTC BOY in a few days! Please help with my questions if you can!

**The Anchor** · November 13th, 2012, 04:50 PM

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

It's not make or break, it just seemed like something that could help if we started it a few days before O so it could get in all the nooks and crannies, then a good shot of it right befrore!!

THANKS, that totally makes sense

**atomic sagebrush** · November 13th, 2012, 05:11 PM

Originally Posted by onthepond

YES! We have preseed and will use some tonight and tomorrow. I am seriously just devastated. Thank you so much for the advice. We will plan to BD tonight, tomorrow morning, and then tomorrow night, too.

ONE more thing. Thursday was going to be a critical boy day for moon signs and biorythms and of course yesterday was critical girl day. Do you guys believe in those? If so, are we destined to have another girl based on that? I seriously just want to cry right now...all of this is so overwhelming.

Swaying works not because of magic, it works because in some environments boys have a better chance at surviving to hand down genes to future generations, and other times, in other environments, girls do. It does not make any sense that one day you'd have the wrong environment for a boy and then the very next day, a girl would suddenly be more likely to survive. Your body just doesn't work like that. It takes cues from the world around you as to what baby has a better chance at handing down the genes and that's the gender you're most likely to conceive.

Moon signs have never been proven to influence gender in any way. Moon PHASES might have a tiny influence but the moon phases on IG are not correct, it has nothing to do with ions and has to do with moonlight.

Biorhythms were invented by a mental patient and based on numbers that he just happened to "like" and then the idea that all women have a 28 day cycle every month, which as we all know is totally not the case.

**onthepond** · November 13th, 2012, 05:25 PM

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

Swaying works not because of magic, it works because in some environments boys have a better chance at surviving to hand down genes to future generations, and other times, in other environments, girls do. It does not make any sense that one day you'd have the wrong environment for a boy and then the very next day, a girl would suddenly be more likely to survive. Your body just doesn't work like that. It takes cues from the world around you as to what baby has a better chance at handing down the genes and that's the gender you're most likely to conceive.

Moon signs have never been proven to influence gender in any way. Moon PHASES might have a tiny influence but the moon phases on IG are not correct, it has nothing to do with ions and has to do with moonlight.

Biorhythms were invented by a mental patient and based on numbers that he just happened to "like" and then the idea that all women have a 28 day cycle every month, which as we all know is totally not the case.

Thank you so much Atomic! To be honest, I did not believe in them anyway but of course this threw me for an unexpected loop today so I think I just got nervous about everything. In your opinion, when should we BD now that I got the smiley face at around 1:30pm? I am thinking tonight, tomorrow morning, and then tomorrow night. Is that too much? Ooh I just want this to be our month. Thanks all for your help!

**Cinss** · November 13th, 2012, 05:33 PM

Originally Posted by onthepond

Thank you so much Atomic! To be honest, I did not believe in them anyway but of course this threw me for an unexpected loop today so I think I just got nervous about everything. In your opinion, when should we BD now that I got the smiley face at around 1:30pm? I am thinking tonight, tomorrow morning, and then tomorrow night. Is that too much? Ooh I just want this to be our month. Thanks all for your help!

perfect

**onthepond** · November 14th, 2012, 08:04 AM

Ok ladies - ONE more question. I took 2 more OPK's last night, one at 6pm was positive and one at 9:30pm was negative. Hubby and I BD last night around 10pm. I woke up in the middle of the night around 3am and took my temp and it was 98. Every day prior I was about 97.18. I took it again a few times at about 4am, 5am, 6am and I am now at about 97.86. Does it look like I OV early this morning? Should we still BD one more time this morning or should we just hope and pray from the one time that this will be our month? TTC a boy! Thanks so much!

**atomic sagebrush** · November 14th, 2012, 01:32 PM

Sorry I didn't see this sooner, but YES!! Your schedule sounds perfect.

**onthepond** · November 14th, 2012, 04:24 PM

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

Sorry I didn't see this sooner, but YES!! Your schedule sounds perfect.

Hi Atomic, what do you think about the timing after the temp rise this morning? I know that it was very unlikely that it would have been 12 hours since OV andI wanted to BD one more time to at least have 2 attempts in there but am worried it was maybe too late? I did not have a ton of ewcm but we did use quite a bit of preseed for both attempts. Overall I feel good about it but it really just threw me getting that smiley face so early...thought we had a few more days and I guess I expected more ewcm. I did post my sway in the sway area, could you let me know what you think? Fingers and toes crossed for a BFP and healthy baby boy! Thanks a ton!

**Cinss** · November 14th, 2012, 08:15 PM

Are you charting on FF at all, maybe we could have a look at your chart?

**onthepond** · November 14th, 2012, 08:21 PM

NO

I am not. I have been charting on a calendar next to our bed. This month was really a goofy one...I think because of the green tea and EPO. Usually I am so regular. Well - too late to make changes now...we BD last night and this morning, which was what we were most comfortable with when discussing this. I guess in all reality that I only OV 1-2 days earlier than I had thought that I would, so I guess it isn't that crazy. I am confident, though, that we BD within 12 hours of OV...I am thinking I must have OV overnight or early this morning and our final BD was at 6am. I do know that I had EWCM in my cervix and could feel my cervix very high and slightly open (even still this morning) - which I think is good.

Fingers crossed. Toes crossed. Saying a prayer.

**Cinss** · November 14th, 2012, 10:05 PM

No problems, now that you are in the 2ww and it is really boring and drags, seeing as you have all the info jotted down on your calender, you could enter it all in on FF (if you can be bothered) it is such a great ttc tool and it is really helpful and informative, and i know when i was using it it was quite reassuring that everything went well, its free too and you can post it here if you need anyone to take a look

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