July 2WW

[Magical22]

Im joining in. Ill be Cd1 tomorrow this will be my 6th cycle ttc (swaying girl).

Just wondering if everyone is having a different plan this month if last month didnt work?

I'll be just doing the same [emoji5]️


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[momamia4]

I am switching up my bd schedule to every 3 days plus another attempt at +opk and I'm taking clomid. Other than that, everything else is the same. Hopefully this month will be the lucky one for all of us!

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[TiffSal]

We released every 4 days and 2 days closer to O but junped to quick and had my attempt the day beforey +opk....wondered if it was too much release for dh....

[Junie]

Hi ladies! I got a BFN today so I'll be joining you as AF should be here any day for me. I've already started BDing more in the fertile period before O, as we are really desperate to get pregnant at this point (almost 7 months after 12 wk miscarriage) We thought we would be having a baby in a month and now I can't even get pregnant I just want a third child so badly so my sway is weak at best.

[Bobster]

Junie sorry to hear about mc. I had two early ones before ds and it also took a while to get pregnant again. I think the stress and worry can really affect things but it did eventually happen and it will for you. Af time is hard as its so disappointing each month.

For me I've only been trying for what is my third month so I'm not changing anything drastically but next month I might go to bd every 3 days too. Question- I dtd yesterday so my next 4th day will be the 27th and due to ovulate on the 29th. So should I just dtd on 27th or should I dtd 28th to make it 1 day before o instead of 2? Are chances still good with only one bd 2 days before o?

It makes me nervous because we had loads of bd when we conceived ds and he took a while to get pregnant with!

[Magical22]

Hi ladies! I got a BFN today so I'll be joining you as AF should be here any day for me. I've already started BDing more in the fertile period before O, as we are really desperate to get pregnant at this point (almost 7 months after 12 wk miscarriage) We thought we would be having a baby in a month and now I can't even get pregnant I just want a third child so badly so my sway is weak at best.

I'm so sorry junie!


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[Junie]

Bobster- I'm sorry for your losses. I also wouldn't change anything right away! I did months and months of the diet quite strict and timing every 4 as I was on the diet for months leading up to my previous pregnancy as well. I think everyone knows what the point is for them where they have to make some changes. 2 days before O is actually statistically the best timing according to FF! So I wouldn't change your timing at all

[Bobster]

Thanks Junie I hope so! Hope OH is up for dtd on Saturday too as he is non the wiser that we've been dtd every 4 days. I think the pressure would put him off. It's hard work dtd so frequently as I don't have a particularly high sex drive so we usually just bd around O time.

It sounds like you are at peace with your change in sway plans. I think the fact that you've been on the diet so long will really help your sway whatever bd pattern you do. If you look on the 'how we got girls' thread so many people on there bd'd frequently. I asked atomic about this and she said they probably had girl lifestyles. It sounds like you've adopted a girl lifestyle for a while now so this will set you in great stead.

Is anyone else drinking lots of aspartame? I'm wondering if I should stop this. This is cycle 3 for me and so far 3 days of ewcm which is good as didn't get any last 2 cycles. I hope an increase of ewcm doesn't make me more boy friendly though... Ever a predicament in swaying !

[TaytumJ]

So sorry AF showed up Junie. I do agree though that if you are really just wanting #3 it might be worthwhile to change BD pattern. It will happen, hopefully soon!

Bobster- do you have boys? DH and I aren't rabbits either (9 years ago, yes lol), so this trying for a boy has been somewhat exhausting, especially for him haha. We're planning EOD and if I snag the surge on a OPK then extra attempts then hopefully. Good to know others got boys without dtd lots! [emoji4]

I got a hot flash last night day 3 of Clomid. Woke up extra sweaty and thirsty! Besides not being able to sleep well, I don't have other symptoms so I'll consider myself lucky!


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[maidentomother]

Awww Junie, I was really hoping you'd see a BFP this month. AF arrived very early this am with mega cramps. That's really the only reason I hate CD1...the cramps. Otherwise I think I'd enjoy the the relief of knowing for sure after over a week of limbo.