Bleeding and cramping low hcg?

[True Blue]

[atomic sagebrush]

I had a internal u/s on Monday but the u/s tech said it was too early to see anything at 4w 6d. She was clearly annoyed as she made quite the point of telling me 'I told them there will be nothing to see' before firing questions about my bleeding at me. When I get a blood test next Wednesday I'll be 6w 1d. I know the pregnancy isn't viable I just hope there has been enough growth to be seen and I really really hope it's not ectopic. This limbo is quite terrifying I'm ringing my obs office on Monday to find out if she deals with these situations so I can hopefully start seeing her intead. I had a couple of glasses of wine last night so I won't have any more and I won't exercise if this is what you mean about unintentionally kickstarting something? My mind was in such a state after all the reading I had done I needed something to take the edge off. Needless to say it took forever to sleep.

Bunnygirl I read quite abit about the vanishing twin situation however I have lost all pregnancy symptoms. I aslo started temping yesterday and my two mornings temps are very low back down to between af and o temp range. I'm so sorry yours didn't work out at the time.

I would register a complaint about the tech because s/he does not need to let her conflicts with coworkers spill over onto people who are undergoing losses.

The wine won't hurt anything, I'm talking about things to possibly get the uterus to cramp and make it a little easier for your lining to start to shed. That would be a bad idea to do that if there is a pregnancy in the tube so we won't do anything along those lines.

[Pbn3]

Thanks atomic. And agree with comment about tech but I wont bother registering a complaint unless I get her again and she's rude once again. I contacted the lady I've been dealing with yesterday and explained I'm not coping very well with waiting and could I please come in and get blood tests today (monday) instead of waiting till Wednesday. She's agreed to see me at 12. Not sure if its for bloods or maybe a counselling type session but hopefully I'll have some clearer answers on where this is going and what the next course of action is by today. Just hope my boys behave themselves lol, unfortunately I have no choice but to drag them along. Might bribe them with McDonald's lol.

[2xblue]

Pbn, I just saw this thread! I'm so sorry you're in a limbo. Hopefully you will get answers soon. I've been thinking about you. Hugs.

[Pbn3]

Ok so today was not what I expected at all. Didn't even get to see the lady I've been dealing with. Waited for an hour with two very bored little boys only to see a man doctor who I think couldn't get me and my (by then) screaming youngster out of his office quick enough. Basically said I was to start weekly blood tests and my body 'should' take care of things naturally. Come in if I'm in pain or bleeding heavily. I wont even bother saying what he said about the 'm' shot or d&c it was laid out in a horrible and thoughtless way. No scan unless my levels reached 2000 as in his own words 'we've got no idea where it is it could be anywhere'. Needless to say I was very pissed off by this point and left. Rang my obs office and got to speak with the lovely head nurse. Pleaded my case and they've agreed to see me. Not only did she sort a referral out for me she's already organising paperwork for a scan to rule out ectopic and locate tissue (my ob believes I may have had an incomplete miscarriage). I am so very grateful I cant even put it into words. So hopefully fx I can book in for a scan on Wednesday and see my ob by Friday. Feel like the biggest weight has been lifted off my shoulders! Oh and while telling me about the 'm' shot (I call it that because its too hard to spell) he said I wouldn't be able to ttc for 18 months.....

[netti02]

Geez pbn. That doctor is a douche. This is why im always skeptical of doctors and their opinions because that's all they are really. Glad you have a plan in place xx

Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

[netti02]

I think with the 'm' shot, i don't think it's as long as 18 months but im not 100%

Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

[Pbn3]

I thought it was 3 months netti but maybe that varies country to country? Not sure either. I just cant wait for the scan I think it will bring the closure I need to finally fully accept what has happened.

[netti02]

I thought maybe 3 at most 6 months.
Thinking of you and wishing the time away for your scan xx


Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

[maidentomother]

It's 3 months with the metho shot. Dr was totally a douche! Good luck with your ob hun.