Due March/April/May 2017 (3)

[Girlieplease]

Girlie you obviously love all your children, and all of them know that they're loved, including the little person you are now carrying. It sounds to me like your heart is opening to your baby, regardless of his or her gender...this is a good thing.

It's natural to want a daughter, but at the same time, maybe you are healing from the pain of GD by realising that mother love runs deeper than anything. You ARE accepting your child unconditionally - that's where this feeling is coming from. You have nothing at all to be ashamed of. Remember, this unique, precious little one wouldn't be here if everything hadn't been just as it was. Congratulations mama!!

Thank you so much, it means alot! X

[Girlieplease]

Girlie I think your feelings are totally natural

I am progressively getting ridiculously large. This is my bump today at 19 weeks



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Such a beat bump!

Thanks for your kind words! X

[Girlieplease]

Neat not beat, obvs! X

[purple]

I saw on Nessa84's nub post that she is expecting boy number 2.

It looks like there are only 4 left on the list waiting to find out gender or confirm gender!

[Girlieplease]

Goodness lots of opposites in this group? X

[Girlieplease]

Looks like of the 9 folk that we know swayed only 4 got desired gender, less than half! Only 4 left to find out, x

[purple]

Yeah 5 opposites to 4 desired genders. I wonder how that compares to other DD threads?

When are the remaining 4 finding out?

[Cinss]

Well the swayers are doing better than the non swayers, out of 5 that were "hoping" 4 got opposites...

[Girlieplease]

Interesting way of looking at Cinss, we had quite alot of non swayers!

Am really not sure when we will find out. My dd will have her heart set on having a sister, so I want to tell her we are having a baby and what it is, so we would need to find out soon. Am massive so she will probably guess soon and am sure a family member will let it slip. We are probably going to get the harmony done as I cannot repeat the worry of last pregnancy, but am not sure I want to receive the news of what my baby is via am email or telephone call! :-( after my rescan I am not going to have another scan until Jan, big scan. Cannot wait that long but cannot afford a private scan and harmony.

Gender comments started already, :-( mother in law, never said congratulations or anything but said I hope you give dd the sister she has always longed for! Like it's that easy. I felt sick when she said it, like I have deliberately not given her a sister! X

[purple]

People can say such stupid things! I still find it annoying my FIL said it better be a granddaughter. Lucky I wasn't there when he said it but I was there whe he complained that DS2 was a boy.

Cinss, good point with the non swayers mostly getting opposites. I do still believe swaying will tip the odds in favour of your desired gender but obviously it's not 100%.