If You Knew

[Hobbermittens]

Congrats!!! I think you will do great with 3 kids.

[nuthinbutpink]

Congratulations! I have no idea what that woman was trying to tell you, but I assure you, none of us would undergo such a thing as elective IVF and pay $20,000 for less than a guarantee!

I hope you get your DS the old-fashioned way!! Wonderful surprise!

[CapricornAquarius]

Hobmit - thank you, im going 2 be ok i think, im scared though.

Nbpink - thank you. Yes i know what your saying, but thats what she said 2 me, maybe she was taking drugs that day, hey??
I really hope i get a boy, & really hope i will be ok if i dont.

[begonia]

CONGRATS CA! FX you get blue! FWIW I wish this baby had been an accident ... I'd be much more accepting then of her being out of our control. DD1 happened while I was on BCP's and I never had a minute of GD with her, even though I never wanted a single DD, I felt like God sent her to us, like the best surprise EVER. So ... DS or DD, remember that this baby was planned by something far bigger than you It's going to be amazing!!!

[CapricornAquarius]

CONGRATS CA! FX you get blue! FWIW I wish this baby had been an accident ... I'd be much more accepting then of her being out of our control. DD1 happened while I was on BCP's and I never had a minute of GD with her, even though I never wanted a single DD, I felt like God sent her to us, like the best surprise EVER. So ... DS or DD, remember that this baby was planned by something far bigger than you It's going to be amazing!!!

Thanks Begonia, I know, its weird cause I do feel like someone above has made the decision for me, its kind of like a relief if that makes sense, he/she was meant to be, thats for sure! Im trying so hard to stop thinking about the gender cause I really want to enjoy this pregnancy as its going to be our last, after this one my hubby is doing the chop.

dd1 dd2 & OMG Im

[ThroughWithBlue]

the not knowing would kill me also. if I knew I would have 3rd boy, would I try again? YES because if I were to have 4th that MAY be my girl. Or, if you mean, if I were going to keep having boys would I keep trying? My answer is I really don't know. The heartbreak would probably kill me honestly. But I'd have to try, it's better to me to try than to keep wondering. Bottom line, I guess I'd have to keep trying to avoid the what if. I really do think it is a 50/50 shot however I feel like i am about 75% more likely to have another boy, I feel like it's a slim chance in hell I'd have a DD ever but I have to try.

[DoulaMama]

the not knowing would kill me also. if I knew I would have 3rd boy, would I try again? YES because if I were to have 4th that MAY be my girl. Or, if you mean, if I were going to keep having boys would I keep trying? My answer is I really don't know. The heartbreak would probably kill me honestly. But I'd have to try, it's better to me to try than to keep wondering. Bottom line, I guess I'd have to keep trying to avoid the what if. I really do think it is a 50/50 shot however I feel like i am about 75% more likely to have another boy, I feel like it's a slim chance in hell I'd have a DD ever but I have to try.

Oh Honey, I have to give you some cyber hugs (((HUGS))) I felt the exact same way. My hubby is one of four boys....TONS of boys in his family. My side has a whack load of boys as well, except for my mom who had me and my sis. I REALLY thought I would have a girl for my first...HA! Was I wrong....3 times in a row! This pregnancy was a complete oops, wasn't really swaying at all, and when I did get pregnant I was 110% resigned to the fact that I would be an all boy mom. Well, it doesn't look like that's the case! This one looks ALL girl and I am SHOCKED beyond belief. It can happen for you Mama~ xoxo Lots of hugs to you~~

[CapricornAquarius]

Yes your right Throughwblue, I know if I had made the decision not to go for a 3rd Im so sure I would have always wondered 'what if', so Im so glad its happened the way it has.

Hope you do get your girl, sending you heaps of pink pink pink

Dd1 Dd2 & OMG Im

[CapricornAquarius]

Congratulations on your pink bundle DMama, thats fantastic, you must be so excited!!!

Dd1 Dd2 & OMG Im