UK SMOG Wannabes - March

[pinga]

Hi there,

Congratulations on your little boy Littlemiss... you sound like you're in a good place.

Maybe - DS1 had his tongue tie snipped and he was a 35weeker (so a poor feeder). But the tongue tie being snipped helped soooo much with the pain!!! Good luck!

Deaks - try not to obsess too much! Its really not good for your sanity!! Only 6 weeks til you can find out? Are you?

Took the kids to see The Wiggles last week and I think DS1 was completely weirded out by the fact that the Wiggles were there in real life and not just on the TV!!

Absolutely shattered here... this pregnancy is wiping me out!!! Looking forward to the babys arrival. I love parts of being pregnant but the tiredness is just so hard this time... it doesn't help that DS1 still wakes up at 5.30am most mornings!

oh those of you expecting soon... how are you going with names! We are having a bit of a nightmare!!! DH and I like the same types of names but we just can't chose anything!!!!!! Arghhhhhh....

[Sunset]

At least mine don't cry and throw themselves on the floor and refuse to budge (they did at two - I always walked off and left them).

I've tried walking away from ds2 when he does this but unless i've got ALL day there's really no point as he actually doesn't budge. Once I decided to see how far I could walk before he actually got up himself but i had abandon that idea as well when strangers started asking ds2 where his mummy was

[Sunset]

hiya ladies! hope you're all doing okay and have had a good easter. We've been so busy these last 2 weeks i haven't had much time to go online.

Littlemisswilko ~ congratulations on your little man! it sounds like you are in a very good place! we will definitely have to arrange a meet up soon I'm free on most weekdays after 12pm and can always do a weekend if that's easier.

Maybebaby ~ glad to hear your little one is having his tongue tie sorted finally. It might still take a few days for him to relearn how to feed properly, but once it's healed it should get much easier for the both of you

Pinga ~ sounds like you're in a good place too have you decided on a name yet?

2monkeys ~ keep popping on to update us hun!

Deaks ~ i'm really no good with nubs but i guess girl based on the skull. how are you feeling now?

hello to everyone else! *big waves*

[Sunset]

APRIL Thread

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...tml#post176366

[clarabell]

Hello, I would like to join the fun and introduce myself. I have three boys, the youngest is 6 months and very cute, kissable and a happy boy, but still I dream of having a girl one day. I read all your sways and think wow, no wonder I had boys as I didn't TAKE NEARLY ENOUGH SUPPLEMENTS, MY dh DID NOTHING (OTHER THAN THE OBVIOUS) No wooden spoon or pink outfit, moon must have been wrong and ions??? The only ironing I do involves a board , and way tooooooo much of that. I did suffer with GD when I found out I was having DS3, I think how will I cope if I have another boy. I am not able to talk to my DH he doesn't understand at all. The other day he freaked out and said he didn't think he wanted another one full stop. I have found this so hard to cope with and feel now all my hopes will be shattered. I have been even thinking how could I do it without his concent. Yes so wrong I know. Plus I'm far to honest for my own good. I try and have faith that what will be will be and all for the best. Some times I resent him for not giving me what ever I want (spoilt I know) I don't want him to have control of opur future like this, but then I think I have to drop it for the sake of my boys. Has anyone else been in this position? Then I think if I don't mention it for a while he may forget, then I could have an accident? Or maybe I need to find another man, not easy I know. Maybe I have totally lost the plot and it becomes an obsession? Congrats to all you with BFP. Sorry for the rant x

[Sunset]

Hi Clarabell welcome! it's nice to have you onboard! come join us on the april thread

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...tml#post176366

[deaks66]

Hi all, just a quick pop on. Just had another scan. All well with baby and sonographer certain it is a boy.... i saw it myself too. A few tears right now but know i will be ok much quicker than with ds2

[deaks66]

Clarabell, welcome! This morning i totally know how you feel. I dont really want a fourth baby in the furture and im sure dh will be deadset against it anyway, so i need to find a way to stop obsessing about it all and enjoy what i have and stop acting spoilt because im not happy with what i dont have. So hard to control these feelings. Wish someone had the answer. I feel so blessed and so sad all at the same time.

[maybebabythree]

Deaks - come over to April :¬)

where did you get your scan? Its very early for them to be sure unless you had it done by the best (harley street, Dr Penman in Kent etc). Anyway boys are fab which we all know, but its ok to feel sad too. We have all been trying and thinking pink too long to be 'oh well I never really cared anyway it's going to take time. Besides we do all care or we wouldn't be here.

[clarabell]

Deaks - I wish you lots of luck with the pregnancy. congrats. Did you do the huge sway thing and the LE diet ? I only know about all this stuff, in more detail, since ds3, although I sort of swayed with the last two. I convince myself that my sways were half hearted and based on the shettels mthod of timing which clearly didn't sway pink. It makes me think from reading all these posts that many people work very hard on their sways with every element covered yet they still get blue, so does it really work? I'm sure your little man will be lovely and like it has been said yes we do care and why? I don't know, wish there were answers. Another friend has just had a gril after two boys, I am the only one with all boys and they don't seem to mind either way. Doesn't seem fair, yet I know we are truely blessed. Does anyone else balme their husbands at times when they piss you off?