Uk ladies

[foxymrsg]

Oh crap awkward! Will you accept her? If you do and she questions it just say one of the kids was playing with your phone and has probably deleted her by mistake!! ��
Were on Easter hols too and it's already been a long day today, should be a nice Easter but everything with house move is just going tits up and I'm just so sick and tired of others clicking their fingers and everything in their perfect little lives falling into place. Today is not a good day ��

[motherofboys]

I don't know, I haven't accepted or denied it yet. I'm not sure if I can take it, but is it just pathetic to cut people out because they got what I want?
Ds3 is unbearable at the moment. He is naughty from the moment he wakes up to the moment he falls asleep. I just ended up shouting at him really loudly because he wouldn't stop making ds4 scream and he laughed at me and asked me to do it again!! Everyone else seems to get what they want out of life, even if it takes a while, they eventually get the nice house, or the baby girl, or the career they want or whatever. I won't get a nice house, because we will never be able to afford anything nice, it'll be bigger but won't be what most would call nice, if we ever move. I don't see us having another baby at all now so no girl for me.


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[motherofboys]

If past lives are a real thing I must have been really awful in my last one. I mean I haven't asked for a lot from life, just enough to get by, and for my babies to be safe and healthy, and all I wanted was 1 healthy baby girl of my own and I don't even deserve that.


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[Mrs_Incredible]

Hugs mob xx

[motherofboys]

Thanks


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[foxymrsg]

Ah hun sending you massive hugs too, it's so unbelievably hard but they are justified, everyone is entitled to their feelings!
Ds1 is being a real challenge to me too if that makes you feel any better, I too have to shout and he just smirks in my face, makes me want to cry. He's a lot worse when step ds is here too it's like he gets middle child syndrome! DH doesn't help as he yells at ds1 even for step ds naughtiness. It's a massive bone of contention in out marriage, so bloody hard.

[foxymrsg]

Oh and DH threw in my face today that I'm just miserable today and is the hell would I cope with another baby as I'm so tired today due to broken nights sleep last night with ds2, which is a rarity. Not that he'd fooking know he never got up with him as a baby and didn't last night either funny enough! He's just pissing me off so much right now lol

[motherofboys]

I just feel like everything I've been through and the large percentage of my life I've spent depressed I ask for 1 thing and can't even bloody have that. Is a daughter really that much to ask for? Yet I feel stupid for it mattering. Ds3 is hard work at the best of times but he just seems out to wind me up. Dh told him a week ago that if he gets so many ticks on the calendar he can go to toys r us and spend the money he had for his birthday last month. Even an incentive like that isn't enough to get him to listen.
The only time Dh ever mentions anything to do with babies is to mention all the stuff he needs to get rid of from the loft (countless prams, a few car seats, stuff like that) and if he mentions girls it's always to point out some kind of lucky escape, like school text to say nits we're going around and he said about what a nightmare it would be trying to treat a girls hair. Because that's enough to put me off, obviously.
I feel like he can't possibly understand because he has his boys and can do all those boys things, and it's not that I don't enjoy those things too, but I want to do other things too, things they have no interest in. How would he feel if he had 4 daughters and desperately wanted a son but I just kept saying "well thank god we don't have to stand in the rain watching a boy play football matches!" He enjoys that, just the same as I would enjoy doing some of the things he seems to think are a blessing to have escaped. And yet I know he wants a girl too. Ever since I was pregnant with ds1 he kept saying 'she' with every one of them and refused to believe they might possibly have been a boy until he saw the proof on the the screen at the scan.


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[motherofboys]

Oh and I deleted the facebook app on my phone, don't know how long I'll be able to stay away but I'm rarely on the laptop so hopefully won't see too much or have to deal with it all. 1 of the many pink bumps is now a week over due so any day now there's going to be pictures. I feel horrible that I can't just be happy for those people. But honestly the way she goes on about not believing the sonographer and asking them to double and triple check if was a girl at every one of her scans. She only has 1 son so it's not like if someone with a whole bunch of boys suddenly got told it was a girl


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[foxymrsg]

Your DH sounds exactly like mine! Like he thinks if he points out any thing that may be remotely hard with a girl that I'll just move on! We had a talk last night and he's adamant he doesn't want anymore kids but feels that he should for me I suppose, he kept saying how we won't be able to do nice things for even longer! I wouldn't mind but I am at college to give us all a better future so he kind of loses that argument! Oh and he goes on about the sleepless nights, he didn't do any with ds2! So again he can't argue.
Know how you feel I think deleting the FB app may be good for a while especially as you know someone is due soon. If needs be you can just hide any posts from her! It's not blocking her it just wont show on your newsfeed!