swayers over 35 buddy group

[Hobbermittens]

Blue dust on its way!!!
Im also taking a break this month Yuzu but will be back ttc in feb,i am liking eating my normal foods too much and cant get back to starting my starvation diet yet, but im not bothered really i hope one month on LE diet will be enough to convince the girl swimmers next month Its difficult for me to skip this month but if i dont i will have 2 kids with identical birthdays possibly.Ah also the clock is ticking i will be 38 this month booohooo and might not have any chances left
Maybe i should rethink my reasoning?Anyone have 2 children with same birthdays?What are all your thoughts?

I have 2 kids with birthdays a week apart, and I won't lie to you, it sucks. Also, I don't know if this means anything, but they are both the same gender, conceived in the same month of the year. Maybe that is a coincidence, but to me I feel that I can only make girls in July.

[sweetsister]

Yeah i feel its kind of good then im skipping this month i feel better knowing thatAnd also feb might be better girl territory for me then too! it is weird though that i have the exact same cd1 as 5 years ago and if i did conceive they could be born the exact same day?So strange...and plus i still cant bring myself to start the diet ive missed eating meat and salty food sooo much How did your attempt go are you feeling positive about it?

[Hobbermittens]

Yeah i feel its kind of good then im skipping this month i feel better knowing thatAnd also feb might be better girl territory for me then too! it is weird though that i have the exact same cd1 as 5 years ago and if i did conceive they could be born the exact same day?So strange...and plus i still cant bring myself to start the diet ive missed eating meat and salty food sooo much How did your attempt go are you feeling positive about it?

I was really happy about it, except that FF says I O'ed on CD12 and I really think I O'ed on CD13. If I O'ed on CD13, then I am pleased with my timing, but if I O'ed when FF says, I think the timing was terrible. I guess as long as I get a boy, who cares, right?

If you haven't been doing your diet, then you should definitely wait until Feb. The diets are hard to stick to, aren't they? I like the food on the boy diet, but the having to eat ALL THE TIME is killing me!

[Mochagirl]

I have 2 kids with birthdays a week apart, and I won't lie to you, it sucks. Also, I don't know if this means anything, but they are both the same gender, conceived in the same month of the year. Maybe that is a coincidence, but to me I feel that I can only make girls in July.

If I hadn't lost my angel baby, I would have had ALL 4 kids' birthdays within 1.5 months. I would have had ds1&2 on May 11th, my angel sometime around June 4th, and ds3 on June 25th. Although I would give anything to have my angel back, that would have been such a marathon! I was also concerned because I had conceived all my boys in early Fall and figured since that baby was conceived at the same time it would be bound to be a boy as well. I'll never know if my instincts on that were right.

[Hobbermittens]

If I hadn't lost my angel baby, I would have had ALL 4 kids' birthdays within 1.5 months. I would have had ds1&2 on May 11th, my angel sometime around June 4th, and ds3 on June 25th. Although I would give anything to have my angel back, that would have been such a marathon! I was also concerned because I had conceived all my boys in early Fall and figured since that baby was conceived at the same time it would be bound to be a boy as well. I'll never know if my instincts on that were right.

So when are you due this time, Mocha? Maybe all you needed to do was change the time of year when you conceived to get a girl.

[Mochagirl]

I'm due September 15th. I'm hoping having a Fall baby will be lucky for me. My Mom had me in October after having 3 boys....

[lemon2012]

Hi ladies!
Sweet sister...did you skip this month?
I was thinking the same thing...but I just turned 38. We are taking a trip when I would be 10 weeks pg if we try this month and I am getting anxious.
I am doing the diet so I am not sure I want to waste it but I have a lot of cheat moments!
Not sure what to do,.....getting older is a concern.
However, I feel like I have been running my life for my future child instead of the ones I have!
Auroara,....yeah for the baby and yeah for being 34..hahahah!lucky!

What to do?
I am cd 9 and due to ovulate on cd 14 most likely!
Advice?

Hope you are all well!

Hope,..you have to let me know when you are attempting! Hope you are feeling good!

Enjoy the time off Yuzu,,..it will happen..for all of us I hope!

Good night ladies!

[ILindGurl]

did any of you get pregnant right after a chemical/miscarriage? So it turns out that I did get pregnant last month, but it didn't stick (dr confirmed). I'm suppose to get another blood test monday just to confirm the levels are back down...which I feel confident they are since I finally stopped bleeding, BFN on HPT and I'm starting to get EWCM today. If the blood test is good Monday, then should we go for it?? I *should* ovulate next week although I'm not sure if that will be affected by everything that happened. We're not swaying at all. No diet...no supplements...no special timing....no refresh, nothing. I really don't care anymore, esp after the chemical...I will be happy with either gender! Anyone else ttc the month after a miscarriage/chemical? and what was your experience (good or bad)? Thanks!!

[Mochagirl]

My experience was likely very different than what yours will be, but I'll share anyway. I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks (fetus likely died 6-8 weeks). After a lot of research I decided it would be safe to try right away. I thought I'd stop bleeding before O arrived, so I wasn't really monitoring, then suddenly, about 2 weeks after my m/c, I noticed my cervix was softening and started testing and BDing right away. I never really stopped spotting - there were periods of the day when there would be no blood, but there was almost always some blood at some point during the day. My cervix stayed open with TONS of blood-tinged ewcm for days. I never got a +OPK, but eventually FF determined an O-date based on a temperature rise. I spotted through almost my entire LP, which was very frustrating, then af arrived early, finally putting me out of my misery since I figured there was no way I could have gotten pregnant with all that spotting anyway.

The good news is, I got pregnant the very next cycle! I think my body just wasn't ready to be pregnant immediately after my m/c, but again - your experience will be very different from mine since yours was a chemical. Good luck!

[Hobbermittens]

I'm due September 15th. I'm hoping having a Fall baby will be lucky for me. My Mom had me in October after having 3 boys....

Good luck! Take all my pink dust!!

Right now, I have the exact family I grew up in too...GBG. Though we are adding another, hoping for GBGB.