October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

[Flava]

1st month off the pill sways pink, 2nd month is neutral again And if you have the feeling to try then I would definately say go for it! I got the feeling even though I was waiting and I'm glad I did, all the predictors say pink for me, including that turd who has me 8 out 8 right!!

omg who was that I need to ask her

[Flava]

MFC - I didn't take soy with my last sway. I always had a feeling it sways girl more than boy. It dried me up badly.

I posted in the October pg thread. I had a MMC. I went in for a scan at 9 weeks and there was no heartbeat.

Im so sorry ! Hope you feel better soon and can start ttc again.XXX

[Flava]

How long are your cycles Bec? On a normal 30 day cycle I would have thought that even starting on Day 14, and the dtd every 2 nights after. Then this way DH doesn't actually know which night is the big night so no performance anxiety, and it will keep a fresh stock of strong boys half way towards the goal I wrote a post at the end of my attempt thread about why I just went for the O-2 x2. But I'm also wondering is it an advantage to give then boys a days rest in the crypts ready for the final race? For me +opk day is ov day where some ladies get the 24-48hr window, resting time? So for some +opk day is the right day and other fast ov's the day/s before? When I've tried on +opk day I've had girls as they were the ones prepared to do the full marathon, where the boys went in for the sprint to the crypts?? At the end of the day, with incentive, men are usually faster and more competetitive than women. Do they sit in the crypts egging each other on, waiting for the big signal and pushing the girls out the way when it comes, where as the girls have the sense to wait for slighty imperfect conditions knowing the guys are wimps when it comes down to it lol and hoping to sneak in if the egg rejects the boys.

The above is probably all silly rambling, but who knows what will make that final bit of difference?

Well you know I hope it's true LOL because we did O-3 and O-2! so c'mon now plz

[Flava]

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...thin-the-cycle

This study basically showed that there were 2 peak boy times, ov day and when you 1st notice the mucous started to change to fertile. So if you cover both your in a good place

Ok so what's with me then? i did not do any of this days...but it's can't be true for all of us I think because i get ewcm very soon after af is over like 2-3 days after and that would be way to early before O so can't get pregnant from it .
But it starts with little ewcm and every day is more and more. Actually we did it when i had the most ewcm days it was a lot and very clear.
So those would be girl making days?Why?

Ok i read it ...wow it is not easy to understand this study! But the I read the comments from skrimpy and i get it now lol.
So for a boy we need to do it on the first day of +opk or before that day. (well i hope so because that's what we did this month) if i get a bfp...
and /or on O day.

[melon]

Hope.ful- I'm usually all for honesty but it she feels like she failed at breast feeding so it's complicated.

Flava- it infuriates my too! I have no idea why she thinks she only needs to eat every 3 1/2-4 hrs. I tell her all the time to feed her but if she only ate an hour ago she doesn't seem to think she could possibly be hungry.

Ttc5- yeah I'm afraid of hurting her, she's honestly doesn't think any of this is her responsibilty. She just assumed she'd make plenty of healthy milk with a really crappy diet and the baby would pack on lbs even with seriously spaced out feedings.

Love being a mummy- baby cries and cries with her and her dh and she still looks at the clock saying oh she ate 2 hrs ago she can't be hungry. I seriously don't get it, I have no idea why she thinks she only needs to feed at certain times when I've told her 1000 times bf babies can eat every 2 hrs.

3p1b - that's bizarre...what is she thinking.....poor baby....I suggest you feed the baby and tell the mom too... may be she will notice how happy the baby is with more feedings...babies need to be fed every 2 hours or sooner if needed... didn't she get that from her pediatrician?

[TTC5]

ttc5-I would do it for sure! DD1 is a September girl...lol This suck when they tell us girl this and this month right? Same fore me they said girl august. (forget who was it) so no way I would sway in Nov. LOL
You are good with the diet and all so try it.

I'm glad I'm not the only one then heheeh!!

[melon]

I have been yep. Need new batteries but will check when AF is gone, last I checked DH was over 9 and I was around 7.5

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/newr...wreply&p=90262

Ph sounds great...it depends on how comfortable you are...if you are strict with diet and supplements may be you should go for it...did you decide if you want to do O-2 and O or just O?

[melon]

Hey ladies, I just wanted to pop in and say I had an ultrasound yesterday at about 11 weeks and baby is looking good. The heartbeat was a good strong 164 and I had a bit of a pang when I heard that, like, oohhh that is a girl heartbeat b/c dd's at 10 weeks was 169. So I don't know. But dd was always super chill in the womb and this kid was doing flips and somersaults and everything like crazy! It was so wild because of course, I can't feel it yet.

Symptoms seem more boy to me--crazy itchy skin, different from last time, not nearly as much nausea as last time, very little acne compared to TONS last time in the first trimester, craving meat and salty things instead of sweets like before....but I don't know, the heartbeat has me re-thinking.

Oh well either way it's mine and DH's and we are very happy everything is going so well. Baby was so active the tech only got two good shots and I don't think there's a nub but I don't know much about that. I may try to post them in the next couple of days if I can get DH to scan them.

Babydust to all!!!

Daisy - I wouldn't read too much in to the heart rate. It really depends on how active the baby is.....the heart rates will be higher at the begining and as the fetus grows the rate slows and becomes more normal.... you definitely have a busy baby there...that's awesome!

[TTC5]

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/newr...wreply&p=90262

Ph sounds great...it depends on how comfortable you are...if you are strict with diet and supplements may be you should go for it...did you decide if you want to do O-2 and O or just O?

I have been having meat for lunch and dinner, lots of peanuts, oats with dried fruit, wholegrain breads, vegetables, juices and lots of banana and potato. I think I might go for an 0-2 and an 0. I think... oh I don't know LOL!!

[melon]

I have been having meat for lunch and dinner, lots of peanuts, oats with dried fruit, wholegrain breads, vegetables, juices and lots of banana and potato. I think I might go for an 0-2 and an 0. I think... oh I don't know LOL!!

6weeks is minimum for the diet so you should be good...it is a tough decision....if you do go for it just think about what you want to do during the 2 weeks leading up to ovulation day...BSD, BSF, Mucinex, egg whites...all that good stuff....