October 2013 babies!

[motherofboys]

Nachelle, make sure you tell us right away!!!

I have been going back and forth the past couple days. My desire for a girl is not going away at all, but I feel as though I am more at peace with this baby being a boy. Some days I still feel very sad, but it's not a constant sadness like I was feeling. I've been spending some time planning out bedrooms if we have a boy. Right now DS1 has his own room, and DS2 and DS3 share a room. If we have a boy then DS1 and DS2 will share a room, and DS3 and the baby will share a room. I've been picturing how I could set the rooms up. Of course I already have my dream nursery designed for a little lady!!! I'm going to see if I can get my ultrasound scheduled for the last week of May.

I think you probably just described whats happening with me and why I'm going round in circles. The desire for a girl is still just as strong but I'm starting to accept another boy.
My scan date is the 7th of May.

[Navywife620]

My best friend just told me she is pregnant! This is her first baby and I am over the moon for them. She is due pretty much exactly 2 months after me. But in the back of my head I can't help but think she's probably going to get a girl.

[Nachelle]

My friend is pregnant too due around the same time as me! This is her second, she has a boy already. She "thinks" shes having a girl. And if she does one of the names she wants to name her is the name Ive had picked out for 5 years!!!! GRRRRR!!! lol I better have a girl and name her first!!!!!

[Lld2006]

Wouldn't it be nice if we were all just a group of tight friends in real life?!? No worries about jealousy, and totally trustworthy to confide in! If only life were that easy, right?

Do all of your DH's know about your GD? Like the TRUE depth of it? My husband knows about mine...and has since our 1st DS But he is having a very difficult time "putting up with me". (Understandable so, I suppose.) we had a huge fight on friday night after a LONG week of depression over me seeing the boy parts at my ultrasound. I called my mom so upset and she showed up at our house the next afternoon. (She lives 3 hours away) she sat us both down and tried to talk some sense into me. It did help, but doesn't erase my GD. I've tried thinking about boy names to try to get excited, but it isn't helping much. DH says we have to stop trying after this baby so it's very rough for me.

I think I'm going to cancel my 16week elective and just hold out for my 20week to confirm what I definitely already know. Don't know if I can bare to see and hear it 3 times. Saves me $125 too.

[Kiara]

Wouldn't it be nice if we were all just a group of tight friends in real life?!? No worries about jealousy, and totally trustworthy to confide in! If only life were that easy, right?

Do all of your DH's know about your GD? Like the TRUE depth of it? My husband knows about mine...and has since our 1st DS But he is having a very difficult time "putting up with me". (Understandable so, I suppose.) we had a huge fight on friday night after a LONG week of depression over me seeing the boy parts at my ultrasound. I called my mom so upset and she showed up at our house the next afternoon. (She lives 3 hours away) she sat us both down and tried to talk some sense into me. It did help, but doesn't erase my GD. I've tried thinking about boy names to try to get excited, but it isn't helping much. DH says we have to stop trying after this baby so it's very rough for me.

I think I'm going to cancel my 16week elective and just hold out for my 20week to confirm what I definitely already know. Don't know if I can bare to see and hear it 3 times. Saves me $125 too.

Your mom seems really sweet! I dont think my dh knows how much I always wanted a boy, only that I want. For him is fine with either (he even slightly prefers an other girl because he says he has such a good experience with our girl Everyone keeps telling me "it feels like you are having a boy" (they dont know about the gender guesses on our last us) I hope they are right But in the same time I can feel sad that my dd wont have a sister in that case or that I problaly will not experience an other girl. Haha, im so weird

[motherofboys]

My DH doesn't really know. The thing is I was happy with boys until he kept going on about girl things. Now I do want a girl but I keep telling him its a boy and if I make the odd comment about having had enough of boy things he says "well should have thought of that before now theres another on the way" and "sorry its my fault, its down to the man" but if I ask what he thinks we will have he says a girl. He talks about 'her'. If I tell him its probably going to be a boy he says "but you know its a girl"
It really doesn't help because my gut feeling has been girl but the nub looks very boy so every time I get any hope I just crash down again.

[Danielle88]

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This is my 13 week scan I'm due on the 21st of October! Can anyone help me this is my first pregnancy and I don't know what I'm looking for on the scan to see if it's a boy or girl.

[ELP]

Welcome to the group Danielle, I think it looks like you have a little boy on the way I hope I get that pic tomorrow!!

[Danielle88]

Thank you thats what everyone is saying! I find out in 2 weeks at my gender scan! Very exciting!!

[Nachelle]

Welcome Danielle!

I think DH knows. Im not sure if it bothers him to much. To him if your crying about a child guys automatic think you hate the baby lol Which isnt the case! He wants another boy! He wants his basketball team! I told him Ill have another boy after my girl lol He just doesnt want me to give my hopes up. I cried at my sonogram with DS2. I was fine with DS1 and DS3. I was just 110 percent sure DS2 was a girl so I was shocked. I even bought a couple dresses prior to the appt!!! I knew DS3 was a boy so it didnt bother me. I have no idea with this one so its driving me nuts! I think thats why Im trying not to think girl too much because I dont want to react like I did with Ds2.

So today is the day! It may be early but fingers crossed for my insanity to stop! lol Oh and it anybody else having really weird dreams? I have one like every night!