Ultrasound Findings at CD2

[atomic sagebrush]

I am soo happy for you Fefe!! Don't even worry about relaxing on diet, after that long you can safely relax.

Wishing you the very best of luck for happy and healthy pregnancy!

[1moregirl]

Wow!!! I've only just read all of these 7 pages of updates. It was really really interesting and a huge congratulations Fefe on your BFP. As Atomic said - all the best to you for a happy and healthy pregnancy.

[fefecooks]

First ultrasound reported no heartbeat at 9 weeks. Baby measuring 8 weeks. Very minor cramping and still exhausted. No bleeding whatsoever. My heart is heavy.

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[atomic sagebrush]

I'm so sorry fefe - how can we help???

[fefecooks]

How long does it usually take to naturally miscarry? I can't morally go for a D & C but I'm scared that it will happen naturally at the most inconvenient time. Also, the mental anguish of it all when I do deliver it. I do wish I could know the sex but know this is probably next to impossible naturally. It's kind of important for me to know if I'm a mommy to a boy or girl for some reason. 💔

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[fefecooks]

Also, my temps are still up and I just don't understand why the body holds on this way.

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[atomic sagebrush]

I know it's no consolation but given that you just had uterine surgery it's actually a good sign your body is holding on so much to this pregnancy. Some women have the opposite problem after uterine surgery where they can't hang on to the baby so while I know it doesn't feel that way, it's actually a good thing.

Yes it's probably not going to be possible if you wait to go naturally for them to tell the gender. But they may not be able to tell anyway.

Going naturally is tough. It may be much harder on your body than having the D and C and could end up even delaying TTC longer than the D and C. I know how tough it is to come to that decision though. Just follow your heart but I would recommend taking your temperature morning and night and at any time you develop a fever or body aches (even if you think it's from illness) get to the ER right away.

Are you taking anything like aspirin, garlic, etc that can thin the blood?? If so wean off that starting right away.

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh sorry I missed this - it is all over the map how long it takes to miscarry naturally. Sometimes it happens fast, other times it takes weeks. I wish I could pin it down more than that but it's just one of those things that no one can know.

[1moregirl]

I'm soooo sorry to hear you are going through this Fefe. I went through the same thing myself back in August. I'm thinking of you. Xxoo

[fefecooks]

Starting to spot. It's happening now. Thanking God that it's happening naturally. Still trusting Him.

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