Awesome April 2ww & TTC thread [emoji120]

[gafan]

Congratulations Verena and praying4!!!

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[ABC.2606]

WOW congrats Praying4agirl! And Verena another amazing line!! Have you scheduled your first appointment yet?

Verena, thanks, I'm good. AF is pretty heavy which I guess is to be expected post-D&C. My chromosome test results should be back any time now so stressing about that... With the waiting for test results and knowing we wont be trying again for awhile I'm just trying to keep myself busy. Started spring cleaning my house which it desperately needs!!

[ABC.2606]

Oh, wow, seems we are going to have a great and fruitful month in terms of bfps!!!
Huge congrats, verena and praying4giril! Fingers crossed for noemi and hannah, and those who are close to find out! And good luck to the rest of us ladies!
I feel quite happy and hopeful for all of us, it's spring, everything is blooming, so should we

Hi sunstars! I haven't seen many posts from you lately - how are things going?

[sunstars]

Hi abc, I'm so sorry for what you went through, I hope you'll hear good news from doctors and start ttc again soon.
Thanks for asking, abc and verena, I've been quiet lately, but still actively reading threads here. I actually got again very faint lines past few days, so I don't know what to expect, I really hope there is still a chance that it's not another chemical. I will know for sure in a day or two, af is due tomorrow.

[Verena]

That's really heart breaking what happened with your DS1, I'm so so sorry for you. I had c-sections too and I can imagine how helpless you must have felt, especially being a first time a first time mom. What a nightmare.

I would love to have four kids as well! But no way my hubby would agree, unless a miracle happens or something... I really don't know yet when and how to tell him. Hoping for a good moment but realistically there is no good moment [emoji51]

I'm thinking about getting a nipt test done at 10 weeks to find out gender. I ended up obsessing badly over nubs with DS1 and 2 and I don't feel like going through this again lol. Did you find out gender before birth with your older children?

No not checked due date... i got positive opk on 20th March, il go by your date minus a few days lol!! My first boy and 3rd came at 36 weeks and 2nd one came bang on due date
Yes its still heart breaking, he’ll always be my number 1, my grief catches me unawares and hits me in sudden waves. Ive become better at controlling it infront of others but breaks my heart everyday. I didnt know anything was mjor wrong; the only thing detected at 7 months was dialated bowel which meant if he didnt pass stools he may need surgery for on his bowel. I read up about it and was common ish and pretty straight forward. He came 4.5 weeks early via ceec and taken away to NICU about 3 hours later. My care absolutely crap; i felt lost and no idea what to feel or do. I think having had csec i didnt feel anythin, on min baby was in tummy, the next i was all alone upstairs with baby down in NICU. The drs couldnt figure out what was wrong: got transferred to two different hospitals and when he finally passed the drs even talked about him coming home, albeit needing assistance in feeding etc. The death happened suddey even the drs didnt expect that. They gave him a life expectancy of about a yr not 2 days ��
However i thank the Lord for he is the best of planners and has taught me so so so much through my trials. I have been bless with two gorgeous boys who i will forever adore. [emoji173]️
Sorry to put such a downer on the topic
Glad your lil one is doing well now, may he always stay healthy and well x
Yes ithink after such things in life no matter how badly i want daughters, a healthy son is just as special. I told my hubby this morning and didnt get a overly excited response �� hes quite happy with the 2 boys but only agreed to more cos he knows i badly want a girl, i do joke that we will keep trying until i get my girl (that doesnt go down too well lol) i do want 4 kids anyways if im blessed with the opportunity.
I logged a new post just with my bfp details, will you be finding out sex at 5 months?
When will u be telling Dh? Good luck im sure he’ll be over the moon.
I miscarried in dec, started again in Jan but started swaying ish from feb.. so not long at all. Even now especially in tww i was getting tired of only eating 2/3 meals a day, ive always been a snacker!!

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[Parying4agirl]

Miracles do happen 😁😁😁
Dont give up just yet.
Lol i think hubbies only make a fuss with the first and second after that they act if its a mormal every day thing.. well thats the impression i got from my hubby. Im keen to talk but hes not mentioned it at all!!!
Ahhh wow you’ll find out soon then. No ive not found out on any of them. I think on DS1 the sonographer said cheeky monkey and i got the inkling its a boy however when he was born the midwife initially said its a girl then said wait let me check, its a boy! Haha., then DS2 sonographer said something too that related to a boy! DS3 i thought was a girl cos sonographer was talking to someone and just gave me impressions its a girl but maybe that was me clutching onto hope its a girl lol!!

[Verena]

WOW congrats Praying4agirl! And Verena another amazing line!! Have you scheduled your first appointment yet?

Verena, thanks, I'm good. AF is pretty heavy which I guess is to be expected post-D&C. My chromosome test results should be back any time now so stressing about that... With the waiting for test results and knowing we wont be trying again for awhile I'm just trying to keep myself busy. Started spring cleaning my house which it desperately needs!!

Thank you ABC! I called my OB today to ask him when I should come in and he said tomorrow [emoji33] I don't think it's a good idea because I will only be 4 weeks and 2 days and with DS2 I had such an early ultrasound as well where nothing could be seen. That really made me worry a lot back then so actually I wanted to avoid such an early ultrasound... But as I know myself I won't tell him not to do the ultrasound either, because I'm too curious.. [emoji51]

Oh I can imagine that waiting for the results is really stressful. Will you take a break from ttc no matter what the results of all your tests will be? I think distracting yourself is the best thing you can do and one day you will know you're ready again [emoji173]️

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[Verena]

Hi abc, I'm so sorry for what you went through, I hope you'll hear good news from doctors and start ttc again soon.
Thanks for asking, abc and verena, I've been quiet lately, but still actively reading threads here. I actually got again very faint lines past few days, so I don't know what to expect, I really hope there is still a chance that it's not another chemical. I will know for sure in a day or two, af is due tomorrow.

Oh sunstars, I really hope this turns out to be a healthy pregnancy! Maybe post a pic if you feel like doing it? How many dpo are you? I know how hard it is to be positive after a chemical. [emoji173]️

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[Parying4agirl]

Good luck sunstars

[ABC.2606]

Sunstars - Oooooh exciting!!!!! So many FX that those lines darken soon!!!!!

Verena - I can't imagine why they'd do an ultrasound at only 4 weeks!! Are you sure that's what they are going to do? Maybe they'll just do a blood test to check your HCG and progesterone? If they do an ultrasound try not to worry - I feel like I've always heard that 5 weeks is the earliest that they can start to see anything!! So it will not be a bad thing if they can't yet! If all our tests end up being fine we're thinking of starting again in late May/beginning of June... soooo long from now But if something comes up with these remaining tests then I don't know.