Boy sway attempt help

[Bluedust]

Thank you we'l see how we go

[Bluedust]

Our attempts this month looks like this; eod after af to +opk. Attempts around +opk the night before the +, i got the +opk at4pm so we bd that eveving, the following morning and night. Please work please work

[atomic sagebrush]

Perfect!! Tons of blue dust headed your way!

[Bluedust]

Perfect!! Tons of blue dust headed your way!

Atomic just when i thought we did everything perfect my husband injured his back yesterday ( thank god it was after our 3rd attempt but i know you recommend continuing eod after this doesnt look like we can get a nother attempt in atleast untill tomorrow night which would mean 3 days after our last attempt i hope i didnt end up ovulating late this cycle aarrhhh

[atomic sagebrush]

Agh I'm so sorry to hear that, but you got the 3 attempts in which is great! FX that you Oed right on time!

[Bluedust]

Well i drugged up hubby with painkillers and managed to get another attempt in pheww! The only thing is it was last night where as i would have wanted it to be the night before but oh well i can obly plan so much.

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes and for all we know that was meant to be that way! Good luck!

[Bluedust]

Hi Atomic, my period is due tomorrow i tested this am and its bfn i can feel AF coming with the stomavh cramps ( i dont know what to do differently next month? It will be cycle 3 I know its a short time but with dd1 i fell pregnant whilst on the pill and dd2 fell pregnant 1st cycle.so i think i just had high expectations and now im really upset. I dont know do you have suggestions for next cycle?

ETA: what are your thoughts on red raspberry leaf tea? I read that it helps if you drink upto O day but dont want to try if it sways pink.

[atomic sagebrush]

It takes an average of 3-6 months to get pregnant even under ideal circumstances. It probably just wasn't the month this month. Tell me everything you did this month and I'll tell you what if anything to change.

I rarely recommend RRLT. I don't trust it for pink or blue. I think it could potentially sway either way based on its biological effects, and while I'll sometimes have a couple who have been trying for 6+ months add it in, it's more as a "Dumbo's feather" and not because I really think it helps people conceive. If you want to try it, up to you. I would drink it daily from AF to O, then every other day from O-AF, and once you get BFP, gradually wean off by spacing doses further and further out till down to one per week. (I"m not saying you should use it, just that is how I'd use it if you want to.)

[Bluedust]

It takes an average of 3-6 months to get pregnant even under ideal circumstances. It probably just wasn't the month this month. Tell me everything you did this month and I'll tell you what if anything to change.

I rarely recommend RRLT. I don't trust it for pink or blue. I think it could potentially sway either way based on its biological effects, and while I'll sometimes have a couple who have been trying for 6+ months add it in, it's more as a "Dumbo's feather" and not because I really think it helps people conceive. If you want to try it, up to you. I would drink it daily from AF to O, then every other day from O-AF, and once you get BFP, gradually wean off by spacing doses further and further out till down to one per week. (I"m not saying you should use it, just that is how I'd use it if you want to.)

You're right I guess it was only our 2nd month ttc... things we did:
Been doing HE diet for few months now but since cd1 i made sure i didnt miss eating really good (incl salmon, red meat, chicken etc) for both of us so i think in terms of diet everything was fine. Things ive been having every day for sure incl: v8 original, coconut water, and a glass with lemon squeezed in it, i also drink about 2L of water. I strawberries and blueberries, 1 or 2 eggs a day, cheese, full cream milk, mixed nuts incl almonds, walnuts, avocado, full fat plain greek yoghurt, oats and granola mix with pumpkin seeds and milk every am and late pm, fruit and veggies.

We've been taking our supplements for a few months now too. Ive stopped drinking coffee i was having 2 a day. Hubby has 1 every few days but we drink black tea every day is that fine?
DW aged 32: centrum multi everyday, probiotic every day, vit d every day, folate (1 morning 1 night), fish oil 1 eod.
DH aged 34: centrum mens 50+, vit d daily, coq10 daily occasionally fish oil.
I started taking robutissenstarting the week of expected ovulation which i think worked because i never saw that much EWCM when i wiped before in my life.
Started using clearblue advance digital opk cd9 empty circle, cd10 flashy smiley, cd11 flashy we bd, cd12 am flashy then 4pm solid smile so we bd that evening, cd 13 solid smiley bd am and pm. I tested again cd14 (using clearblue and another brand) and it was negative. We couldnt bd again untill cd16 because hubby injured his back but have been continuing since then eod (this is more sex than usual for hubby i think thats why we have 2 girls probably had 1 attempt

I always get real atrong ovulation pain it has woken me up a few times, its usually on the left side where i had a dermoid cyst removed a few years ago maybe scar tissue? Not sure..
We used preseed on 2 of our attempts around ovulation.
AF due today/tomorrow hasnt arrived yet.