October 2013 babies!

[True Blue]

I'm so hurt. I tried everything this time. I prayed so much I even fasted I swayed for 2 months. I. Cant even believe it.

I tried everything this sway too, it is my second time to sway and I did total opposite. My FF charts for my last two pregnancies are so different, my diet was so different. I actually draw comfort from the fact that we really did try so very hard. I also prayed and prayed.
I understand exactly how you are feeling right now
I was so sure this time would work, I was also very excited (secretly) to feel we were going to get a little boy this time

[My3SweetPeas]

I am so sorry Nina!! The hurt will lessen eventually!! Glad she is healthy!!

[xokatietatie]

While I was at my son's school today (which is a private christian school) I got to talking with his teacher about this baby. I confessed that I want a daughter but I am trying to be at peace with another boy, because I do know that we will have what we are meant to have. I do believe God will give us the child we are supposed to have, even if it isn't the gender of our dreams. Does this make my desire for a girl go away completely? Definitely not. I still struggle on a daily basis. We can't help but want what we want. But the teacher did say one thing and it has brought me comfort. God has a purpose for every single precious child that comes into this world. He has a plan for each and every one of them, and that is such an awesome thing to think about!

[True Blue]

Katie I always like to think that as we swayed and improved the "odds" for our desired gender, that if a little opposite makes it through, that they beat the odds to be with us they chose us. I think it's really special

[pebmcpd7]

2 weeks today till my gender scan. Going to be the longest 2 weeks of my life! I'll be 16 weeks and 5 days. Wish I could have got it done a little sooner but they don't scan on thursdays (day I would be dead on 16 weeks) DH works fridays so I can't get there. then its the weekend then monday is a bank holiday here so not open. So tuesday it is.
Still I guess the later the better really.

2 weeks for me too!! I will be 16+6

[True Blue]

5 loooooooooooong weeks for me.

[xokatietatie]

Katie I always like to think that as we swayed and improved the "odds" for our desired gender, that if a little opposite makes it through, that they beat the odds to be with us they chose us. I think it's really special

I've never thought about it that way! I really like that (Aaaaaand I'm crying!!!)

[Navywife620]

To those waiting until your 20 week scan how do you have the will power. I feel like ok I can wait but then I have days like today that I just wanna book that early scan!

[Alyssasmom789]

I'm so hurt and depressed I haven't eaten all day. I have a massive headache from crying anf I just want to be alone but its so hard with two kids and dh. I don't know if I can ever have a 4th because I don't have help from either side of the family and I can't imagine how to even take care of a third let a lone a fourth.

[Navywife620]

My heart is breaking for you Nina!! I can totally relate to how you feel. I hope DH is understanding on how you feel. DH was not supportive when we found out DS2 was a boy. He just didn't understand and thought I was over reacting. It is going to take you time to heal and we are all here because most of us have been through what you are going through right now.