UK SMOG Wannabes - November (moved from PL)

[littlemisswilko]

well i do have some frer hopefully getting delivered tomorrow but i didnt want to waste them iykwim was just going to go to the poundshop or home bargains and buy the cheap ones from there and see what happens. or do you think i should just test with the frer?

[deaks66]

Hmmm not sure. Tbh my ic cheapies didn't pick up my convincing bfp til the same day clearblue digi. There was a very very faint line the day before but I really though it was an evap as it appeared hours later when the stick dried out. Certainly won't be putting myself through that torture again!

[Lavenderlime]

Petal 11.11.11 would be an amazing Birthday! I think he's holding out for that

LMW- Glad i'm not the only one. I always used to have areally light AF before my pregnancies but awful, awful cramping and pains. Now I have no pains but it's heavier. Much better this way though! GL for a BFP this month! I'd use the ones being delivered tomorrow and if a BFN get some cheapies too. If you get a BFP you've saved yourself a trip and some money!

Deaks I think you should def still TTC this cycle if it turns out to be a MC. As it was early/chemical if you hadn't of tested and had seen AF you would have tried this cycle as normal IYSWIM. But as others have said your really not out yet. So i've got everything crossed.

Think it's X factor on sky+ and me and DP are going to watch a film tonight and enjoy the last of the weekend.

[littlemisswilko]

enjoy your film lavender!! what are you going to watch!!

[maybebabythree]

Deaks if you still get BFPs which are getting stronger then please ask your doc to do a blood test and repeat it over 24 hours. There is a tiny possibilty it may be etopic. I 99% think its not but I know someone in RL who had one and if so you want to save your tubes. I still hope its all going to be ok x Did you have trouble conceiving your boys? I have a short LP at 10-11 days and I did get pg. But getting a full test and maybe fert clinic if this a chem is going save some time and heartache. No one has to know your swaying. As you know mine and DH's tests came back bad and armed with that knowledge it was stop swaying or risk never having another baby. When you have the knowledge you can decide then. So sorry your going through this xxx

[deaks66]

Thanks maybe, I will definately be asking for blood tests even if my bfps stay the same rather than get darker. I really need to make sure I look after my fertility. Any pain has really subsided today and I'm definately having a full flow so I'm hoping that the chemical is sorting itself out. I didn't have trouble conceiving my boys due to a short lp as before they were both born my lp was normal, this has happened since ds2 for some reason. I think it just took us a while because we were clueless with ds1 and dtd too early with ds2... Cutoff was the only thing I knew about swaying at the time and it didn't work for a few months so we dtd over ov.

I'm so glad to have you and the other ladies on here looking after me! X

[Inglewood]

Deaks, so so sorry to have missed all ur posts till now. Hoping ur bean is sticking and all is well, my friend had a her Af for the 1st mth after conception and was actually pg. Fx all is well, thinking of u. xx

Petal.....what a cool date!!

[maybepink3]

Just come on quickly before bed. Sorry guys, haven't read through all the pages of stuff, just a couple of posts. Having a horrible time with morning sickness. Deaks - hope all goes well with the docs tomorrow. Thinking of you and hoping all is well xxxx

[deaks66]

Thanks girls! Know this sounds ridiculous but am actually relieved this morning that the ic cheapy has gone incredibly faint.... I have been loosing so much blood and was in so much pain until yesterday morning that I think even if the bean had tried its hardest to stick that problems could have been caused. I really just want to move on now and get things sorted at the doctors.

Hope you are all well, I'm dying to be suffering from morning sickness... Though know I won't be saying that at the time! X

[charlieispy]

HUGE HUGE hugs deaks x I hope you get some answers from the doctors today x x

Littlemiss - good luck testing x

Spotted slightly yesterday - i mean i only noticed as i am a 'toilet paper looker' when pregnant slight brown spotting. I hate this stage I spotted with my MC ds2 and ds3 but obviously it is worrying trying to tell myself its quite 'normal' for me but still scared. Trying to take it easy however got work today and tomorrow. I worked yesterday and obviously my job is on my feet the whole time we had a queue to the door for most of my shift so lots of rushing around making mountains of drinks....FX i can rest this morning although we have no food so need to get some food shopping