Complete pink swaying statistics spreadsheet

[rainbowflower]

Thank you Rainbow Flower - this is superb!

May I please check that spreadsheet two is a continuation (page break) from page 1 - so the rows should match up to forum names? I am interested in having a look a little deeper at some of the data, and knowing the names for page two will make that easier!

Also, echo-ing Mrs Magoo - can anyone pop in a link here to the background of mag component of the ca/mag supplementation?
Here is the calcium stuff I think Mrs Magoo ... :http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...roversial.html and http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...-part-2-a.html

yes the rows should line up... but there isn't any info on there individual-sway-wise that isn't on the first page

[mommymachine]

I don't think I can convince DH to abstain. And FR is against our religion. So really my only option is Frequent BD. DH is only 25 so if we BD twice a day from AF to three days after O we should be good right??

[rainbowflower]

I don't think I can convince DH to abstain. And FR is against our religion. So really my only option is Frequent BD. DH is only 25 so if we BD twice a day from AF to three days after O we should be good right??

could you BD using a condom on alternate days so you can choose how many attempts you have, or have you help him to release so he's not doing that on his own and without BDing..?

[mommymachine]

Thanks for trying to help! But every sexual act has to be open to new life. So everything is allowed in foreplay but he always has to finish in me. So no condoms. And no him doing it himself. Hmmm. I could try talking him into abstaining. But would BD everyday still sway girl if I used aci-jel to keep pH down??

[rainbowflower]

Thanks for trying to help! But every sexual act has to be open to new life. So everything is allowed in foreplay but he always has to finish in me. So no condoms. And no him doing it himself. Hmmm. I could try talking him into abstaining. But would BD everyday still sway girl if I used aci-jel to keep pH down??

oh that's fascinating, what religion is that if you don't mind me asking? I was thinking it was just the DIY that was forbidden

yes BD every day would still sway pink with a lowering lube/gel such as that or RepHresh.
Abstain might be easier to do if you want fewer attempts or worry about CM pH or hormones, but I guess really shallow finish plus immediate J&D would work too. Also, if he got close without BD and then finished shallow so minimal BDing... that would affect your hormones and CM less too.

[mommymachine]

oh that's fascinating, what religion is that if you don't mind me asking? I was thinking it was just the DIY that was forbidden

yes BD every day would still sway pink with a lowering lube/gel such as that or RepHresh.
Abstain might be easier to do if you want fewer attempts or worry about CM pH or hormones, but I guess really shallow finish plus immediate J&D would work too. Also, if he got close without BD and then finished shallow so minimal BDing... that would affect your hormones and CM less too.

Thank you! We are Roman Catholic. The only birth control that is allowed is Natural Family Planning. So that's why I'm desperate for help on this. That's all very good info/advice thanks again!

[atomic sagebrush]

OH really only eats chicken and fish (tuna, cod, mussels). Would he need to drop both or just the chicken?

No. My DH ate red meat all the time when we were swaying. He also ate eggs several times a week (and he eats a LOT of eggs at one sitting, 4-6)

It's jsut something that may help a little bit and can't hurt.

[atomic sagebrush]

I used to sit in a **** all day and look at spreadsheets and look for trends in data so I finally sat down with Excel and played with this spreadsheet.

I'm not done yet but had to post this right away. I looked at the boy/girl column and the aci-jel/sylk column. I can't find if KnockYourBallsOff used AciJel or sylk but all of the ladies who got boys and had YES in the acijel/sylk column used *sylk* and not Aci-Jel. I'm still going through the ones who got girls but that was rather surprising that every one I looked at used Sylk and got boys.

Let me also say a big thank you to rainbowflower for making this spreadsheet!

Also, take everything in this spreadsheet with a grain of salt. When looking at data it's super helpful to have massive qtys of data so you can determine outliers. While this is great, sadly we just don't have enough data on people who swayed yet to draw any blanket conclusions at all. All of us who are swaying are actually on the cutting edge of new research and this is all super exciting to think that maybe in 5-10 years we'll have enough data to draw more concrete conclusions about what does and doesn't work for swaying. Thanks ladies. <3

^^^^This

I know of several people both here and on IG who used Acijel and got boys, and several people who got girls using Sylk (babydust). I'm not sure if they posted their sways or not (Pink Carol comes to mind)

Sylk is a better lube so if you need a lube desperately, I think the Sylk is a better bet. On paper I have a hard time believing that Sylk is swaying strongly blue for people - it harms sperm and is low in pH. I wonder if it may be something like, if your or DH's fertility is high enough to withstand the Sylk and still get you pg, you may be more blue-friendly to begin with (higher sperm numbers and/or more CM to dilute the Sylk) are already more likely to have boys. People who are able to get pg while using Sylk are a preselected group to begin with, if you see what I'm saying.

That's why stats can be so tricksy.

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't think I can convince DH to abstain. And FR is against our religion. So really my only option is Frequent BD. DH is only 25 so if we BD twice a day from AF to three days after O we should be good right??

Why 3 days after O? you can stop sooner if you want to - odds of pg are between slim and none as soon as the next day after O. You may even want to try for a cutoff - I don't think cutoffs sway of course, but it is a way to ensure you'd have less sperm in your repro tract.

I think this is a good solution for you (and it's also how Nuthinbutpink got her girls) but try to keep in mind, frequency as a part of an overall sway probably doesn't sway by too awfully much.

[Kiara]

Cool! It exist something like this for boy swayers too?