Dreaming Pink Opposites Due Winter 2013/14

[Waiting4Daisy]

Ladybugs I think if I was in your position I'd need to have another scan to confirm. Omg this might be your little girl! I hope she is healthy and I hope she is all girl and that other place were rubbish.

[Dreamofpink]

I am in shock...and no, not over the kidney issue. I have been told from the Md today that the gender reported is a girl.....

I am still shaking...and feeling like the 18 weeks elective scan could not be wrong, but they must be at the 19 and 21 scan at the hospital one. She (if they are right about gender) has a bulging bladder, a 2mm and 6mm cyst in the right kidney which means it is a write-off, but the left kidney is working and the bladder is doing its job as there is a good level of amniotic fluid.

That is the update for now...in my head, I can't shake off that he could be a she, she could be a he. To be team green sorta???

Wow! Just wow!! I'm so glad that the one kidney is working, but incredible news about it being a possible girl! You must be all over the place. Did the hospital record the gender then at your 19 & 21 week scans and not tell you?! Amazing stuff! I just hope that the docs can help your LO & give s/he the very best start in life. ((Hugs)) x x

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[2lovelyboys]

Hi ladies just found this thread, hope u don't mind me joining?!

Ladybugs that's great news all round you must be reeling from it! Will u get the opportunity for another scan?

I am having good and bad days, it's preempting and responding to comments from others that I find difficult and upsetting. Mostly I am fine and have started to look forward to the prospect of DS3, have started to feel him move and the magic and wonder never ceases to amaze me!

[I Love Ladybugs]

I went to phone my mom to tell her of the kidney/bladder news (not telling gender stuff even) and she let me know that my brother has been rushed to the hospital an hour away for a CT scan. He fell onto his back/backside off his crane truck and is in urgent care. I have been bawling over that....I promise I will respond to all the messages soon....I have been praying my heart out for my brother.

[Dreamofpink]

Ladybugs you've had so much to deal with today. Huge hugs to you. Your brother is in my thoughts & I really hope you get some good news about him soon x x

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[I Love Ladybugs]

My eyes are raw right now.....I am still waiting and praying for news of my brother. I love him so much...I might not always be the best sister, but he is important to me...and I know to his wife and kids.

AFM....I was so accepting that he was a he, that to have news otherwise, I don't know what to think. I feel odd being bumped to team green.....especially when I have little to no say in when the next scan is! It will be a fairly serious appt in Vancouver (12 driving hours away) and within the next few weeks I am told by the MD that I saw today. The hospital asks if you want to have gender assessed and is submitted to the radiographer.....but if it is less that 80%-85% certain, they will not include it in the report my MD sees. The u/s tech said 75% at the 19 week and 85% at the 21 week scan, so she is certain that this baby is a she.
All I can say to all you girls is thank-you so much for all the support!

[meeks32]

My eyes are raw right now.....I am still waiting and praying for news of my brother. I love him so much...I might not always be the best sister, but he is important to me...and I know to his wife and kids.

AFM....I was so accepting that he was a he, that to have news otherwise, I don't know what to think. I feel odd being bumped to team green.....especially when I have little to no say in when the next scan is! It will be a fairly serious appt in Vancouver (12 driving hours away) and within the next few weeks I am told by the MD that I saw today. The hospital asks if you want to have gender assessed and is submitted to the radiographer.....but if it is less that 80%-85% certain, they will not include it in the report my MD sees. The u/s tech said 75% at the 19 week and 85% at the 21 week scan, so she is certain that this baby is a she.
All I can say to all you girls is thank-you so much for all the support!

I replied on the other thread, but wanted to say we are all here and waiting and wishing health for your brother. I really hope you get some news soon.

It's good you will go to Vancouver for further tests, just knowing the right person is looking at your case can be so reassuring. I understand the distance is such a challenge though. Well at least they are certain she is a she! Have they given you an action plan for what's next yet? Or just one step at a time, and next step is further investigation in Vancouver? I'm so sorry the he turning into a she has been overshadowed by the baby's health issues and all of it overshadowed by the worry of your brother's health. Life is certainly not always fair.

[I Love Ladybugs]

The time at my friend's house was dearly needed.....the concerns for my brother's life and health are of top concern to me, but it was nice that my baby was important to them to ask/talk about as well. No real update on my brother, but he was airlifted to Vancouver tonight and we will have more to go on in the am. Please keep him in your prayers and thoughts!!

I will be on in the morning to reply...my heart is heavy over my brother and I know that I will need sleep.

[Charlee]

Thinking of you Ladybug!

[2lovelyboys]

Hi ladies, how are you all today? I'm feeling a bit down booooooo! My down days are thankfully becoming fewer and further between!

I have recently been thinking about going for no4 and been reading up on swaying (again!), am thinking its my way of distracting myself from my GD! Like someone already said I think I need to put swaying to one side and get my head around being a boy mum before I contemplate no4, although finding it easier said than done!

I still haven't told many people about the gender, I know they will also be disappointed for me and I'm not ready to deal with that yet, need to practice my happy face!

Sorry to be such a downer but I know you all understand!