October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

[My Fabulous Children]

I just write a post and it's all gone...anyway thanks for all the nice words !

I think it was more a chemical then a m/c I was only 17 dpo not even 5 weeks .

DH said we can try again I guess he was just sad yesterday. I was sad too but Im ok now. Something must have been wrong and no one want a sick baby...
And it's October! I woke up yesterday and it was cool outside not the damn hot humid hell what we normally have! Same cool today it's so nice! We did the fall and Halloween decorations it's my favorite time in all!
We will try again .I was only off the diet for like 4-5 days and took the sups but not all. Did not stop the green tea and v8 drink .Also doing exercise. Just need some more sups and drinks.
I know after m/c suppose to sway pink but I read a lot's of ppl got a boy after it. Atomic says we are more fertile now and
pretty much everything that increases fertility seems to sway blue...
So what do you guys think??

Honestly, I would go for it , no problem. I've read many people got boys after m/c, but its all up to you.

[My Fabulous Children]

Just have to share I HAVE EWCM this morning wooo hoooo, as you may remember I was struggling before to get this precious stuff!!!!!! I just hope my pH and EWCM remains like this when it comes to December!!

Also, I made a group for those mummas who are expecting girls after swaying for a boy.. I thought it would be good for you ladies if you find it too hard to visit this thread. xoxox

That's Great!

[ELP]

Nice to see you!!! how are you?

Really well thankyou xxx But FAT!!!!! I'm currently the weight I delivered my last baby at I am trying to healthy eat but its so hard when the hunger kicks in isn't it lol!!!

And notice NO crazy capitals!!!!! Woohoo for new keyboards

MFC, where are you in your attempt?????!!!

[Flava]

Honestly, I would go for it , no problem. I've read many people got boys after m/c, but its all up to you.

Thanks fab! I know the prog. lvl can be higher but it also go down fast and I just hope with all the other stuff we do I can have a chance for a boy.I know lots of ppl got boys after a m/c .

I just know if we stop and wait 3 months I never try again. By that time I loose the weight and don't want to start all over again.Oh and suppose to be on the diet for at least 2 months that's 5 months already! No way I do that.

[Flava]

ttc5 -great that you have ewcm!!

[LolaInLove]

Flava, I'm sorry to hear about your chemical. I hope you are doing ok, hun. I also hope you can try again.

FWIW with the trying again after a chemical, I have heard of plenty of boys coming after that. I wondered the same thing and researched it after mine in January. They say it sways pink because of the progesterone in your system from the pregnancy, but I don't think it matters. I say go for it if you want. Gotta remember there is no secret formula for making this work and getting a boy. You have to be ok with another girl too.

Tink, hope this is your month!

Hobber, sorry about your fight, but go ahead and go for it today as early as you can...maybe you can have some fun make-up sex and it will rev up his sperm count!

BIB, welcome! I wouldn't worry about your DH having coffee or alcohol, as long as he isn't like drinking 10 a day or anything excessive. In my opinion, the diet is more important for you, but it's good to just have your DH as healthy as possible for healthy sperm. But I wouldn't sweat him if he has a couple beers at night or anything.

MFC, hope the Clomid does the trick! What CD did you ovulate on it? I always did on CD13.

As for me, BFN this morning at 11dpo, completely expected, but just had to poas anyway. I think the next few months I am going to wean myself off of testing so I only test after AF is late. Well, you guys know the deal with me. I'm kinda a lost cause at this point, but want to stick around for now to be encouraging to you all.

[Hobbermittens]

Hobber, sorry about your fight, but go ahead and go for it today as early as you can...maybe you can have some fun make-up sex and it will rev up his sperm count!

It is way too late for that. I o'ed late Sat. or Early Sun., had the temp rise Sun morn. I am so upset about the way this all worked out. I wish we had just gone for it sometime Sat. during the day, but I was somehow convinced that I had to DTD 2x to make a boy and I know if we did it Sat. day we would only get one shot, so we didn't try. F-ing STUPID! I regret it SOOOOO much. I feel like that was my one god chance and now it's gone. I am having a really hard time sticking to my sway now--my heart really isn't in it. I am a wreck!

[ELP]

As for me, BFN this morning at 11dpo, completely expected, but just had to poas anyway. I think the next few months I am going to wean myself off of testing so I only test after AF is late. Well, you guys know the deal with me. I'm kinda a lost cause at this point, but want to stick around for now to be encouraging to you all.

Sorry for another bfn Lola How many months have you been trying the clomid? I'm sure I saw somwehere IG? that the month after clomid can cause a rebound effect on fertility increasing the chance of twinning again! If 2 eggs popped out then 2 chance of catching at least one right! Have the Drs scheduled you a break?

[ELP]

It is way too late for that. I o'ed late Sat. or Early Sun., had the temp rise Sun morn. I am so upset aboutthe waythis all worked out. I wish we had just gone for it sometime Sat. duringt he day, but I was somehow convinced that I had to DTD 2x to make a boy and I know if we did it at. day we would only get one shot, so we didn't try. F-ing STUPID! I regret it SOOOOO much. I feel like that was my one god chance and now it's gone. I am having a really hard time sticking to my sway now--my heart really isn't in it. I am a wreck!

Hobber, there are some swimmers in the right place atm yes?? Some meaning a possible million!!!! When was your previous unprotected BD, in the few days before? If so thats still pretty good odds! Just see what the next 2 weeks holds, you could be surprised

[Flava]

Thanks Lola! Hope you not going anywhere see you told me to stay too and Im hanging here .Im sure everyone like you to stay.
Did your DH got another test done ?