Swayed for a Girl in 2018!!

[atomic sagebrush]

And these are just in ONE thread. I have posted countless other posts telling people not to expect overly high chances of success with swaying, telling them swaying is not a guarantee, etc. So while I must apologize if I am sounding overly sensitive here, I try very hard to give you guys accurate expectations of success and want nothing but the best outcome for everyone in terms of swaying, safety, sanity, etc. It just isn't a guarantee. Wish I could make it happen for everyone but just seems to be that God/Mother Nature has different plans.

[Pretty]

I swayed girl and am having a girl!

[Pretty]

Oops you have me down already, my apologies!

[Thinkingofthree]

When I am told about a failed sway I immediately come to this thread and post it. I do my level best to include everyone in these results but sometimes i"m juggling 10 other things and miss an update, or I never hear about it. I need you guys to come and tell me (as many times as it takes, if you think I've missed you - it happens.) that your sway didn't work out. I'm not wired into the Internet and literally can't read every post on the site, so if you updated somewhere and I didn't read it there's no way for me to know about it. And if you told me and I somehow missed updating it, tell me again.

I have repeatedly, repeatedly called for opposites in this thread and posted again and again not to use this as your baseline for deciding whether to sway or not. I go out of my way to remind everyone that swaying is not a guarantee and tell people time after time to use the absolute lowest possible expectations of success instead of artificially high ones, more than any other site that I'm aware of. I do think swaying works about 2/3 of the time and have posted that in many places. Some tactics get more but I've never promised any kind of guarantee whatsoever.

This thread is and never has been represented as anyone's expectation of success rates with swaying. It is simply an easy way for people to keep updated on the most active posters on the site and for us to be able to see results by the year This thread is not our complete sway stats, that thread is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...your-sway.html and our results are at present 69% (with a sample size of over 500 people) The results in this thread are actually LOWER than the overall success rate of the site, 66% (sample size 68 people) so not only is it an accurate representation of the success rate of the site, if anything it's kind of low.

Now, earlier on in the year we were getting very good results but I posted repeatedly in this thread telling people not to trust the results and to look to the complete sway stats. I'll repost a few of those below just for the sake of "clearing my name". I understand you are disappointed and that you are trying to be helpful to spare others your disappointment, but I obviousy cannot let incorrect information that I am misrepresenting anything, stand uncorrected.

I'm so sorry that your sway did not go the way we were all hoping that it would.

To be clear I never said anything incorrect. I stated *my* feelings and how *I* interpreted things. I never said you were misrepresenting anything. I was simply bringing my sway to your attention as (you pointed out that) you asked us to do.
I know you do a lot on here. No one expects you to keep up.
I was simply trying to help others by having a more accurate thread.
I’m already going through a lot and this hurt though. The GD threads on here are dead and I feel I have nowhere to turn. Apparently this was not the right thread to reach out on either.

[Linni]

I also swayed for girl and it looks like it worked, but the confirmation at 14 weeks isnt that reliable yet I will come back in 4 weeks!


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[Bromedha]

To be clear I never said anything incorrect. I stated *my* feelings and how *I* interpreted things. I never said you were misrepresenting anything. I was simply bringing my sway to your attention as (you pointed out that) you asked us to do.
I know you do a lot on here. No one expects you to keep up.
I was simply trying to help others by having a more accurate thread.
I’m already going through a lot and this hurt though. The GD threads on here are dead and I feel I have nowhere to turn. Apparently this was not the right thread to reach out on either.

You and Atomic both doing the right thing of setting the expectations right among the swayers...appreciate this... Most of us have gone through severe GD and we try to prevent this to happen to others..I was also overwhelmed by the results in this thread and kept my expectations little after Atomic insists everyone not to look into just one high wave trend...

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[atomic sagebrush]

To be clear I never said anything incorrect. I stated *my* feelings and how *I* interpreted things. I never said you were misrepresenting anything. I was simply bringing my sway to your attention as (you pointed out that) you asked us to do.
I know you do a lot on here. No one expects you to keep up.
I was simply trying to help others by having a more accurate thread.
I’m already going through a lot and this hurt though. The GD threads on here are dead and I feel I have nowhere to turn. Apparently this was not the right thread to reach out on either.

I understand that and it is never my intent to pile onto anyone's GD or pain. I am always happy to help offer support to anyone who needs it. I am a human being and I have feelings and emotions too and it hurts - kind of a lot to be honest - to have charges of me being anything less than totally ethical laid out there for everyone to read. Particularly when I had those concerns all along myself, and tried very hard to keep this thread accurate and to keep people's expectations realistic. Particularly when I DO try to keep these threads as accurate as I possibly can. It puts me in a position I do not ever want to be in where I have to go back and prove my case for being honest and upfront with you guys. And I apologize for having to do that or if I could have done it more delicately - probably. I could have and should have done better with my response and I apologize.

[atomic sagebrush]

I also swayed for girl and it looks like it worked, but the confirmation at 14 weeks isnt that reliable yet I will come back in 4 weeks!


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Yes I prefer to wait till we're sure about it before I add it, because I don't want to put in the wrong info and then have to come back to update. Good luck!

[ABC.2606]

You can add me, atomic. We've confirmed that our twins are boy & girl!!

[Kelbear]

Not sure if you added me from my confirmed sway post. I did a light girl sway while trying to convince DH to try for a third and our oops baby is confirmed a girl