Pre-seed and gender

[afy]

so you did 5 days before ovulation? thts not bad your still within the fertile window

[atomic sagebrush]

ok wow this info about preseed is rather over whelming i must say!!. first of all from the info i have gathered i believe its a lubricant?? and please ladies for those who used it and swayed boy... how often and when did you use it? im new to this stuff !!

Yes it's a sperm safe jelly and lubricant meant to help TTC. It seems to sway blue, we think because it helps more swimmers to survive.

[atomic sagebrush]

i also forgot to mention which company preseed is best to use.. im not sure whats out there
sorry forgot to mention when you say cup what was the cup used for??

As long as it says something like "conception safe" or "sperm safe" it will sway blue.

If it says "balances pH" or "mimic vaginal pH" beware, it sways pink.

[Elements]

wow. I wasnt going to buy it but i think i will now.

[minimatron]

Has anyone used the maybe baby sperm friendly gel? It says its a ph of 7.2 and "imitates the vaginas natural secretions"

[atomic sagebrush]

as long as it says "sperm friendly" it should be fine, has anyone used it??

[Blueplease]

Can I ask about cups.. Never heard of these. Is it to position the cervix. Which ones to sway blue!! Thsnks

[Cinss]

Instead cups, some ladies insert them after DTD to keep sperm up close to the cervix.

[Blueplease]

Thanks cinss.. Do you think there worth a go and is there a particular one depending on which way your swaying?? Thxs

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks cinss.. Do you think there worth a go and is there a particular one depending on which way your swaying?? Thxs

The prob. that we've had with the cups is that inserting them is kinda difficult, you have to do some maneuvering to get it in there and lose some semen/sperm when you do that, plus, it's not possible that you get ALL the swimmers in there in one go so you're really sealing the cervix shut with some of the swimmers still on the outside. Since you want higher sperm numbers for blue, that's a pretty big step in the wrong direction and you'd be way better off just laying flat for 15-30 min. after BD.

Some people have thought that they could have their hubs ejac into the cup and then insert it, but that's bad too because firstly his numbers tend to be lower when he ejaculates from masturbation vs. actually DTD, and secondly becuase it's hard to get the cup in there without spilling the good stuff everywhere. I tried it out of curiosity and it was a DISASTER.