September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

**Flava** · September 23rd, 2011, 05:53 PM

begonia I have a feeling you are having a boy. And do not feel guilty about not telling to DH because he don't want to know!!
You should feel guilty if you tell him!
OMG now I can't wait again to hear and see pics!! What time is it???

iluv- I just love japanese accent! And I love that they have this respect and honor going on ...like that ppl a lot.

**babydes56** · September 23rd, 2011, 05:55 PM

OMG Jen that's FANTASTIC news!!! It's late in the UK but i had to log in to find out. One down, Begonia & i next.....You lucky lady, you dont have to stress with the what if's anymore. I'm sure you still in shock, you'll have to celebrate tonight. We'll catch up when you've settled

**babydes56** · September 23rd, 2011, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by begonia

Oh that is good to hear Flava, that it really can happen that way ... because I feel like I will be OK! Which is good because:

I made an appointment for Monday

I'm definitely NOT going to have them tell me in the room though, I'll have it written down and open it later. I'm having some minor guilt about not telling DH about it ... but I really want him to have a surprise! I just can't take the not knowing myself... I'm sure it is a girl at this point and I think part of me just wants to rip that band-aid off. I love the IDEA of a surprise but I HATE the mental torture; I just want to enjoy this last pregnancy and I think I'll be better able to do that w/o the big WHAT IS IT hanging over my head. It is ZERO fun for me. But I want it for DH and this is the only way I can see us both getting what we want out of it! I just won't be able to tell anyone IRL, and I am confident I can do that. So ... here's hoping I have as much fun as Jen did today!

Are you really going to find out on Mon? How many weeks will you be? I'm soooo nervous for my scan on the 3rd, i feel sick when i think about it. I've prepared myself for girl & to be honest i've been ok with it lately. Cant wait for Mon now, yay it's all exciting. I bet you'll hear boy too

**iluvmyman** · September 23rd, 2011, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by Kris217

Well, he just snaps and goes crazy. At home and at School, attacking other kids and teachers, his brother and sister who are older than him. He uses things as weapons to hurt kids and he enjoys it. We also found out he's been hurting our animals and damaging our rental property. He has now been taking into care by DOCS. We can't have him in our home full time any more, he's just too dangerous. Threatening to kill us, and he runs away too. HE needs one on one care and daily counselling. I couldn't imagine him hurting our baby when it's born out of anger or jealousy. It's sad we had to do that but we couldn't sacrifice 5 peoples happiness and safety for him. No one would help so we took him to the ER and they had him admitted to the mental health unit.

Oh so 16 weeks is still considered a little early huh, damn I might have to wait until 18 weeks!

There is this lady Dianne Craft http://stores.diannecraft.org/Catego...y=Audio+CD%27s and she has some great hollistic approaches that can go along side of medication to help w/ exactly what you are talking about. The CD Biology of Behavior might help you out. She deals w/ ADHD as well as kids w/ "blocked learning gates" we are working with DD2 on her blocked writing gate and her stuff is great.

**Flava** · September 23rd, 2011, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue

Here's some pics

Oh Lord what a beautiful baby!!! Super cute!

And he is looking up! I love to guess nub and look at baby pic and Im not bad at guessing. I see sooo many time that the baby boys look face up strait just like Jens baby on this pic.
Don't know why is just something I notice a lot.
(not saying that baby girls not , but mostly the boys do this)

**3Pink1Blue** · September 23rd, 2011, 06:00 PM

Just saw only 1 pic posted, here's the money shot

**Flava** · September 23rd, 2011, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue

Just saw only 1 pic posted, here's the money shot

Oh yeah no hiding that big boy! Not shy at all LOL
What about names??

**nuthinbutpink** · September 23rd, 2011, 06:06 PM

That's a boy! Congratulations!

**LolaInLove** · September 23rd, 2011, 06:07 PM

HELL YEA!!!! Congrats, Jen!!!! I am so excited and happy for you all!!!!!

**iluvmyman** · September 23rd, 2011, 06:08 PM

Originally Posted by begonia

Oh that is good to hear Flava, that it really can happen that way ... because I feel like I will be OK! Which is good because:

I made an appointment for Monday

I'm definitely NOT going to have them tell me in the room though, I'll have it written down and open it later. I'm having some minor guilt about not telling DH about it ... but I really want him to have a surprise! I just can't take the not knowing myself... I'm sure it is a girl at this point and I think part of me just wants to rip that band-aid off. I love the IDEA of a surprise but I HATE the mental torture; I just want to enjoy this last pregnancy and I think I'll be better able to do that w/o the big WHAT IS IT hanging over my head. It is ZERO fun for me. But I want it for DH and this is the only way I can see us both getting what we want out of it! I just won't be able to tell anyone IRL, and I am confident I can do that. So ... here's hoping I have as much fun as Jen did today!

I giggled, this is great but I'm that little red devil on your shoulder.

seems like kinda the best of both worlds. Just don't emotionally give the whole gig away when you see DH.

That was funny Flava, sounds like a great idea to send the pics

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