September 2013 babies!!

[divakotka]

Now that I am home with DH and DS2 napping and DS1 at preschool, I am sitting here bawling. I wasn't expecting the emotions to hit me so hard. I just posted on FB and got two comments: "Another boy??? Wow!" and "Oh, a girl would have been a good fit though."
We went out for lunch after the scan and I saw cute little girls everywhere. I really hurts. And I feel like an ungrateful idiot for crying in the first place.

[shiningstar]

Now that I am home with DH and DS2 napping and DS1 at preschool, I am sitting here bawling. I wasn't expecting the emotions to hit me so hard. I just posted on FB and got two comments: "Another boy??? Wow!" and "Oh, a girl would have been a good fit though."
We went out for lunch after the scan and I saw cute little girls everywhere. I really hurts. And I feel like an ungrateful idiot for crying in the first place.

Oh Mama! It's ok to have those feelings. You should give yourself time to adjust to the news. Be gentle to yourself and know that it will get better. Congratulations on your precious baby boy!!! I bet he will be a perfect addition to your family. ((Hugs))

[4Giffins]

Can't wait to see pics! I will def be stalking! Hope you get the perfect boy nub

Awww thanks!! Me too!! Im planning to take a little video "for the girls to watch" So ill hopefully have that to obsess over too!!

[Wanting-a-girl]

That's why I am not telling anyone I found out if it's a boy curse I don't want to hear things like that.... And if anyone says something stupid like that when I'm holding my beautiful baby boy I will lose it! Don't let it get to you just wait and see you will be okay don't worry I'm pretty sure Ive got a boy a brewing too... Just take some time to grieve and get it out of ur system... Have a bath... Go shopping do something for you


I just booked. My anatomy scan for April 8 at 10 am

[Northern_Shutterbug]

Oh dear sweetheart! I'm sorry to hear that and please don't feel guilty for how you feel. All of us here know exactly what you're going through, so certainly won't judge!

Take the time to grieve before your little boy gets here, and I have no doubt that as soon as you see him he'll be loved just as much as their brothers are.

Congratulations on your healthy little boy xxx

[Southern Butterfly]

Now that I am home with DH and DS2 napping and DS1 at preschool, I am sitting here bawling. I wasn't expecting the emotions to hit me so hard. I just posted on FB and got two comments: "Another boy??? Wow!" and "Oh, a girl would have been a good fit though."
We went out for lunch after the scan and I saw cute little girls everywhere. I really hurts. And I feel like an ungrateful idiot for crying in the first place.

Oh please don't be so hard on yourself. It's pefectly ok to cry, being sad doesn't mean you love your baby any less! Give yourself time... you will be ok I promise. I'm speaking from experience here, this little guy will bring you more joy than you can even imagine.
For now be kind to yourself and let it all out. Sending HUGS your way!!

[divakotka]

Thank you so much everyone. Your kind words and understanding brought me to tears again. Ah, pregnancy hormones are so lovely. I posted the potty shot on in-gender just to get a slightly different set of people to look at it but all in all, I think that more expert eyes confirming that it's a boy will help me to let the news settle in. I googled "three dots boy or girl ultrasound" because I am just over 15 weeks and it wasn't a good idea because it ignited a spark of foolish hope inside of me. Ugh.

[Thorz300]

Hun I am so sorry you are struggling! When I found out DS3 was I boy I was in the exact same place as you, I cried for 3 straight days, then I cried because I felt bad for crying and I felt bad that I was disappointed about this beautiful baby that was MINE!!! I know you know this, but once that little guy is in your arms you will love and snuggle him and you wont want it any other way! Unfortunately for me, it didn't take away the desire to have a DD so now, I am about to go through it all again, as I know my luck is that I have DS4 growing inside of me right now!! We are all here for you!

[Longingforgirl]

Oh no I am so sorry!! I cannot even put it in words. I am so scared of my scan and I just know how devestated I will be when I hear "boy" again. I am so so sorry I would also still be having a little hope.. as long as it is not 100% I guess... there's always that slight chance. I am so sorry! I wish none of us would have to suffer from GD anymore.. I feel like the more you wish for something the less it is becoming true Others get their DG so easily. Others struggle and struggle and still be disappointed

Today a friend of mine who accidently got pregnant (she already has a 3 year old daughter) found out that she was not carrying another girl but a boy. I have no idea how she could have been that naive, but she honestly expected the next baby to a be a girl as well. She had a 12 week scan and the tech said "could be a girl". Now she is almost 18 weeks and they already painted the room and everything. They are both devestated, but more than I ever imagined to be. They are even thinking about giving him away after birth. She does not want to carry a boy and would like to put an end to it. But it is illegal here so she cannot act on that. She thinks she is not able to love him because he is a boy. I am a little shocked...
I am really glad we all love our children no matter what gender. Even though we are struggling. But still we love them.
Sorry just had to get this out. She just told me and I am the only one who knows already. I am just shocked at how she is reacting. Wouldn't have expected that as she never said anything. Although she knows how I am wishing for a girl and how I am struggling with myself at the thought of this being another boy.

[Wanting-a-girl]

Omg! I cant believe people think like that! Not to undermine anyones feelings but if you want to kill or give ur baby away cause its not the gender you want then that person should not be having babies! That's terrible makes me so sad so many people lose their babies and have sick babies or can't have babies so in the end I'm just happy to have a healthy baby regardless of penis/vagina... I myself have a special needs boy and actually prob two...so really if a get a normal healthy baby boy I will be crazy happy... That's why I'm not as obsessed this time around cause that's all u want just a girl would be the cherry on top...