Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

[Mochagirl]

Yahmama - I'm sooooo sorry for your loss It's so awful you've had to go through this so many times.

[Hobbermittens]

Miscarried Mar 4, 2012...I've been out of it all week. Just can't believe this happened twice in a row. Wanted to let you ladies know, but I've got to focus on something else now. We're not going to actively try anymore just for the heartache. Just let things happen. I'm starting some progesterone cream from the pharmacy in case it needed to be in my system before getting my bfp (my dr. always puts me on progesterone after a bfp for the first trimester) I'm thinking since I didn't have any losses before both dd's that the progesterone in the mini-pill I had taken before them allowed it to be in my system enough before we ttc. Fell pregnant first month off mini-pill with both of them and no problems. I didn't take mini-pill after this last one, and I'm having problems just like before DS. Hoping taking the progesterone with these losses allowed it to build up in my system enough for next time. I don't know for sure, just a theory.

I'm so sorry Yahmama.... I really hope things work out for you. I hope you get a blue BFP without even trying!

[rainbowflower]

Miscarried Mar 4, 2012...I've been out of it all week. Just can't believe this happened twice in a row. Wanted to let you ladies know, but I've got to focus on something else now. We're not going to actively try anymore just for the heartache. Just let things happen. I'm starting some progesterone cream from the pharmacy in case it needed to be in my system before getting my bfp (my dr. always puts me on progesterone after a bfp for the first trimester) I'm thinking since I didn't have any losses before both dd's that the progesterone in the mini-pill I had taken before them allowed it to be in my system enough before we ttc. Fell pregnant first month off mini-pill with both of them and no problems. I didn't take mini-pill after this last one, and I'm having problems just like before DS. Hoping taking the progesterone with these losses allowed it to build up in my system enough for next time. I don't know for sure, just a theory.

so sorry for your loss, hope the progesterone helps next time

[Flava]

Hey girls I was so happy I can come and post here I would due Nov. 20. BUT I had a tiny spotting yesterday thought it stoped only this morning there is more and a little darker too.
I also lost the last one too and had spotting with it. Im so worried right now.

Yahmama-im so sorry for you loss! I know it's so sad.Big hugs to you!

[Mochagirl]

Flava - I'm praying this bean sticks!

[PeonyPrincess]

Flava, I hope it settles really soon. What a worry to be hanging over you. I had some early bleeding with DS1 and had an early ultrasound to check it wasn't an ectopic. Is there anything you can have done, like bloods or an U/S? I realise we are both really early into our pregnancies, so not sure what can be done. Will be thinking of you.

Yahmama, I really hope the plan to not plan and just let things happen works for you. It is just awful what you have gone through.

[Flava]

Thanks but I can't do nothing at all .Im only 12dpo today so I hope it's just because AF would do but it will stay away!
Really what can a doc or any one do this early? Nothing. It happened to me before and I know they say they can't help it's wait and see.
Anyway first I have to take care of the insurance no doc will see me before.(gotta love the usa) So to my pregnancy care to kick in first I need a proof of pregnancy and send it to them. BUT they do a urine test here for that not a blood test.they do blood test on the fist appt. only. SO I can't even go in early to get it because if it don't show up on the crap test strip they use or if it's to light they say it's a negative and send me home! (happened before)
I have to wait till like 6 weeks to make sure my lovely pee test show positive to get the proof of pregnancy.
So lucky me huh?

[Hobbermittens]

Flava, I agree, our insurance system sucks! I hope the spotting stops and your bean is safe.

[Foxy]

Yahmama - I'm so sorry for your loss

[HappyLea]

Yamaha ~ so sorry for your loss

Flava ~ hope the bleeding has stopped, hope you have a healthy sticky bean in there.

Sorry ladies not been on for a couple of day, Grandad had a heart attack yesterday so lots going on. As for me have been having pains kinda like period is coming and also dull aching pain in lower right back. Everytime i pee and wipe i am always checking expecting to see blood. I dont know why i am so paranoid with this pregnancy and think something is going to go wrong I feel like we are very lucky to have 3 gorgeous healthy boys and are we tempting fate with 4th....iykwim!!

Off to mum's to do some decorating tomorrow and then appt with Dr at 3.30pm to confirm pregnancy and get refered to midwife team.

Hope all you lovely ladies and beans are well x