frequency of BD for pink and blue

[4Giffins]

This is great!! Woo hoo..I now have a plan for BD!!

[True Blue]

My O pattern is typically cd15 but not to be relied on it has changed a day either way in past cycles.
So with that in mind and trying to plan the best blue sway I can with the best chances of conception (hard work ) would you recommend

4 day abstain with one shot BD on cd14 with O expected cd 15
Or
BD cd 11, 13, 15 to cover all fertile days? With a 4 day abstain before first BD on cd11?

Help!

[atomic sagebrush]

My O pattern is typically cd15 but not to be relied on it has changed a day either way in past cycles.
So with that in mind and trying to plan the best blue sway I can with the best chances of conception (hard work ) would you recommend

4 day abstain with one shot BD on cd14 with O expected cd 15
Or
BD cd 11, 13, 15 to cover all fertile days? With a 4 day abstain before first BD on cd11?

Help!

I'd BD CD 11, 13, 15. Totally. I don't think you need to do a 4 day abstain beforehand, just DON'T do a long abstain at any point before that - DTD or have DH release, every 2-4 days.

[True Blue]

O'ing on CD 13 this month it seems regular cylcles appear to be a thing of the past.

I wonder now if I were to BD every two days from day 6 through to 16 so 5 times in 10 days would it be to frequent. I fear if I try to plan to BD close to O I may miss it with it being unreliable.

Just as I thought I had it all worked out

Atomic thank you for replying

Edited to ask what may be a totally whacky question but heregoes - if we were to BD, with protection, every two days during the 3 cycles while waiting for the TTC month would this encourage good spermies numbers or deplete numbers over such a period of time?

[atomic sagebrush]

Nope, BD every 2 days is perfect for blue. You could BD every two days from now till the cows come home and still be swaying blue! It's ideal for sperm health so doing it for 3 cycles is a great idea.

[True Blue]

Thank You Atomic I think I could just love you

[honeybee]

Thank you so much for posting this! I was curious as to frequency when we start ttc in July! We would like to just BD every other day during the month for our blue sway to keep it as stress free for DH, as he wants to be surprised and never know my fertile time. However, if we are BD every other day, does DH need to abstain from releasing on that in-between day?
Thanks, and sorry if this has already been answered!

[atomic sagebrush]

No not at all, I'm happy to help.

Yes, he can't release on the inbetween days because releasing every day depletes sperm count and if he releases 7 days in a row, is actually a pink sway tactic!!

[honeybee]

Oh man! Maybe I should change up our frequency in the new year in the months leading up to ttc! We only have sex 1-2x a month, so maybe we should start trying every other day, with him practicing not releasing on the day in between so he can get used to it. I've been struggling with low libido for about a year now!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, that's going to sway pink for you. you may not be able to up it to that level (like going from 0 to 60 in 3 seconds haha) but even if you could increase to once every 4 days and then have him release once in between, that would be great.