Need advice Please...EXTREME PINK SWAY.....PLEASE LOOK AT POST AND COMMENT

[Lassie1982]

I will be wearing my "TEAM ATOMIC" t-shirt proudly in the next monthly Swaying Games! May the odds be ever in your favor!!

LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT and buying 7 of these! One for each day of the week!

[Lassie1982]

Sorry but I have been kicked down now....when it happens to YOU then you can make that assessment!! That is how I feel. I do not doubt she tries to help others with swaying and gives her opinion but she did not do that with me IMO!!! You see it how you see it but it's not you it's happening to! I didn't see her helping that way at all. You can all stick together with this....I get it....you have a "internet history" with one another!! I can take it....I'm a CALIFORNIA GIRL.......I can take it, I just thought with a site like this I was going to get way more support, especially from ladies that DESIRE a GIRL just like me!!!! I thought that people would want to help and would make suggestions.....and I have had some, so I will take that and consider it all.

Im going to try and get this point across in as civil and diplomatic way as possible.

Reading the posts objectively, it is very apparent that what is happening here is that you take offence, and see as personal criticism, anything that is said to you that disagree's with your opinion, or your methods. At no stage has atomic done anything other then 'show' you a different perspective.

It quiet obvious that anything other then 100% agreance is perceived by you in a derogatory way, as a personal attack.

Im not saying any of this to be rude, or nasty, or to put you down - or any of the other phrases that you have accused forum members of. Im saying it merely in the hope that you can perhaps look at if from a separate standpoint, not your own emotionally vested standpoint. When we are so emotionally tied to something and we pin all our hopes to it then its very easy to fall into the trap of being far too subjective - misinterpreting things - and therefore alienating all those who want to welcome you with open arms, and have nothing but the best and purest intentions for you.
It would be a shame if that were to happen because this forum is without a doubt the most informative, friendly and supportive forum i have ever had the privilege of being on. In fact the only 'nastiness' that I have seen at this forum at all in my time here (albiet a limited time) are the comments that you have made towards Atomic....

Perspective, please please gain some, and this forum can and will help you achieve your GD - and if not, then it will help support you past it.

People can be responsible for what they say, but not how it is interpreted - that responsibility is down to the listener to accept and see for what it is, or to twist and misinterpret it.

Best of luck

[atomic sagebrush]

WOW....well, thanks ladies for being soooo warm and welcoming! I think that this is nasty! I came on here to ask for support and I am not attacking anyone (ATMOIC) I felt attack buy YOU so dont turn this around on me!! Nothinbutpink I think you need to see my perspective here and allow me to defend myself! Now, I am being told that my method is NOT the ideal and now I want to know why??? You say that you are here for everyone, well, let's here then what is it that makes me NOT the ideal for getting a girl??? Are you saying o+12 does not work??? Are you saying that spinning my sperm doesn't work 100%?? Are you saying my diet and supps did not work??? What exactly are you saying??? I have been on IG too for many many many years and I for one don't like people trying to say that I am here to sales pitch an idea about how to get a girl!!! I really think its great to help others.....I do all the time! But, I never try to act like i know it all or put someone down in the process!! I thought that other women in my shoes would help me out here and now I am being accused of things and now ganged up on because of the relationship you have with one another!! Is that fair???? Wow, women are cady!! This is crazy! For anyone else reading this....I truly wanted advice......I needed input not attacks and not telling me the ideal way to sway I didn't do!!! I really hope the ladies that wished me luck will continue to as I think I am pregnant. I just has some blood today....more a peach color because of my suppositories I think , so I really think those well wishes and good luck I need at this time!!

You ask right in this post if I am saying that sperm spinning doesn't work 100%. And my answer is, no, it doesn't.

I am bowing out of this thread permanently for the health of my baby because I really do not need this. I'M TRYING TO HELP YOU and I do not profit or benefit off of your success or failure in any way. I'm sorry I spent time away from my children that need me and the others on this site who need help, to get slammed for doing nothing other than attempting for a second time to assist you. My advice is, if you don't want people to answer questions honestly and to the best of their ability, then don't ask them. There are other sites out there where people will tell you what you want to hear. Good luck to you.

[atomic sagebrush]

I am NOT being nasty.....I am NOT a nasty person. It's funny that I am not the only one on this board this has happened to. I want advice.....I do!!! I am begging for it...READ MY POSTS !!!!!!! Go read some of the posts.....I showed my dh just now and he agrees......I am not nasty....at all!! I think he said "wow these woman think they know it all". That's great and I want the help but not the way its been delivered. I am so distracted by this, it's not even funny NOR worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And yes, NUTHINGBUTPINK, I get the HT. I didn't take my egg out have it fertilized......I did turkey bastor method here. I know HT doesn't happen for fertile women......I am not even going there....I wanted some advice on drugs, diet and what I should do now. I am not in denial...I am moving on and wanted some help. But, maybe your right....maybe you can't help!!!


Really you think I want sympathy.....You are talking to someone with 5 boys!!!!! I wanted help lady!!!!!! I think you even messaged me that Atomic wouldn't make anymore comments........well, she did and people can think that I am defensive but I am telling you I am not at all.

???The only reason I spent time out of my day to reply again, was because you seemed to need help and it seemed petty and catty to me for not to respond when you were asking questions that were in my area of expertise. I never said I wouldn't respond to your post. Believe me, I wish I wouldn't have LOL.

The reason why I begged you to pay attention in the name of a higher power was because I wanted you to truly understand the importance of why you should not sway while going HT. That's an expression I just happen to use in my day to day speech, I've written it many times in many places. You don't gain yourself a thing by doing so and you hurt your odds. I WANT YOU TO SUCCEED and get your desired gender.

[rainbowflower]

sorry ladies, I'm closing this thread now as bickering isn't the atmosphere we want on here