♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[3Pink1Blue]

begonia - I've had to many evaps and faint lines over the last few months so I'm not testing till 14 dpo. My standard lp is 11-13 days so by then I'm officially late and can trust what ever that evil little stick tells me. So Friday, nah I'll wait till Saturday the 4th when dh will be home. Have fun on your trip!!

Baby - I don't like doggy either, if dh gets carried away it can really hurt. The position I posted gives me control over the angle and he can go to town lol

Lola - glad you liked the link, made me giggle too. It took a few sit downs but my dh has me all figured out now, he better after 15 years right. He has g spot precision but no matter what I can't O without my help. I feel bad for couple's who believe that some woman just can't O or won't experiment to figure it out. My buddy won't touch "down there" as she calls it and her dh has never released a little tension either, its the standard way for them and surprise, surprise she's never had an orgasm.

Spicy - I guess I'm lucky, I get one before and usually a simultaneous. Since we are not using any lube by then I'm pretty much done lol

spicy and begonia - I'm done playing the ion game. I should have three boys if computers, moons and electric blankets played a big role. I truly believe it's 90% about the diet.

[iluvmyman]

I tested my pre seed and it was only JUST a 7 too maybe a touch less?? So you just add a small pinch? How can you be sure that a pinch is too much and will tip the pH too high :S that is my worry???
And yes lol I totally understand the doggy as my hubby is not a small man either and I am not very big ha!

If BS has a PH of 8, that's as high as it can make the pre-seed, right? Just curious.

[iluvmyman]

I'm sure it will be + soon so keep testing. Are you not going to get dh to release soon, this was my worry & that's why i went for it last night

I've never experienced O bleeding before but seems to be very close to the beginning of my normal AF. That would be way too early but has happened I think 2 cycles ago. If it's the case, then I'm going to have a good cry and go off of the fertilecm and maybe even green tea and just somewhat go back to normal. We've never had problems like this before and haven't been happy with my CM the last couple of cycles but keep 2nd guessing myself. That's DH's thoughts as well. I don't want this to go on for 6 months. Fertile Focus showed like 2 very tiny ferning circles but not anything like it would be in transition or fertile period so I'm blowing that off. I don't expect a + opk today but I might post back w/ egg on my face. This is just too emotional for me to be rational.

OPK just a minute ago had a light pink line again (similar line and time as yesterday) but it might just be 2nd morning urine being too concentrated and messing w/ the O strip. will try again this afternoon. CP seems higher and no CM this morning but some stretchy cm after mucinex.

DH released on CD12 and this is CD16 so we might do it tonight regardless. We were both so exhausted last night we crashed.

[iluvmyman]

So i dtd last night with preseed & a pinch of bs. When i tested the preseed before adding the bs it's ph was 6.5 so i'd suggest to those who are going to use it to add bs to raise it's ph. Am i the only one who doesnt enjoy rear entry, haha! My DH is 6"2 & well endowed & i'm only 5"3 so you can imagine how i love that position, NOT! Sorry tmi

LOL! yes, it can hurt you just have to adjust the height of your shoulders and hips till you hit the sweet spot. Keep the front of your body and chest low, hips high. I like it when I just need a good pounding or when I need DH to finish up. He did figure out a few years ago that it was my trick to get him to finish.

I'm glad it went well for you. Someone needs a BFP.

[iluvmyman]

Mine always has a completely neg day before the positive day, I think it drops ready for the big surge so I'd guess it will be tomorrow or Sat for you

Thanks ELP. Sorry, I was soooo tired after cleaning my MIL's and disappointed last night and I was having a 2 year old temper tantrum. I will just be so dissapointed if no chance this month. I know I'm stressing a little soon but the bleeding is throwing me off and not good CM and last cycle was perfect and right on time in every way. I expected this month to be really easy. Oh well, I know there's still hope and I don't want to be a negative Nancy but I'm getting really ancy.

[iluvmyman]

You could TOTALLY do that with the ew! The first month I ttc and we used ew, I think I put WAY too much up there and it was just everywhere....I think we made an omelette between us in the bed, LOL. But, the other reason I go put it in then have an O (and I do it all sitting on the toilet....sexy, I know) is so that the excess comes out and there is just enough in there to help things along, and with the O, you know some got "sucked up" into your cervix where it needs to be. I think if you have too much it can be a hindrance to the sperm...like, instead of them getting in a pool to swim to the other end, they instead have to cross the Atlantic Ocean to get to the other end. I know I don't have 2ml of ew naturally anyway, why would you need that much?

Too funny Lola, I needed a good laugh this morning. I posted about being a total moron the 1st time w/ ew's, crazy man. I do it in bed on a towel. I could never reach an O sitting on the toilet. I have to be laying down but that's awesome. I figured it would all fall out but I guess you are right and there might be just enough to get sucked up then you could put more in just before DTD if you really felt the need. I'll have to give it a shot if I get the chance tonight or I'm taking the chance I guess. FX but not hopeful. It would sure be nice if I could test my ew's ph though. Oh well! I read 5 ml??? and you're right about the ocean. True that girl. Thanks for being her Lola and helping us out when you are dealing w/ your own stuff. I really appreciate your experience and advice.

[iluvmyman]

OK weird that the preseed is different pH for everyone when it is supposed to be a 7.5! I'm thinking I won't use it ... I don't want to stress over that now too!

hope.ful when you say one line of your OPK is darker than the other do you mean the TEST line is darker, or the control line? Because if it is the control line that is still darkest wait for the test line to become darker than the control. I know it is tricky but the first time I finally got a + (I usually just used smileys) I was like, Ohhhhhhhh... so THAT's what it looks like! It will be noticeable when it is +!

iluv keep waiting it out, I guess! I know last O I didn't ever see a +OPK and it stressed me out, especially since we are trying this month. I don't know if I just didn't O (all the signs were there though, CP and TONS of CM) or if I somehow didn't POAS correctly and missed it. I got one that was pretty dark but not +, and I wonder if maybe that was it?? Because then they went white after that and never got remotely dark again.

DH and I go on vacay tomorrow! Hooray for holiday weekends without my kids It's a shame I"m not ovulating now ... oh well, just hoping AF holds off til next week and doesn't creep into vacay time. BUT I will be offline til Tuesday so I hope everyone has great attempts if you're having one, and GREAT BFP's for our 2WWers

Jen I think you're the farthest along in the 2WW right now so when are you planning to test? Is it 6DPO today?

I really really like having the digital smiley OPK to confirm. Did you do that w/ the really dark line. I've been taking OPK's so shouldn't have missed it but I have to wonder last cycle was right on and I didn't change anything.

Have fun on vacay, so jealous!!!

[iluvmyman]

OH GOOD, I'm glad to went for it! LOL at your physical differences there....doggie does hurt if you have a, erm, larger fellow there. My preseed has a 7.5 ph, isn't that weird? I'm glad you used it though. I swear, I want us all to get a bfp soon, but I have to admit that if I could choose one of us to get one now, it would be you, Babydes....you've worked and waited a long time now, I know how that is. HUGE FX for you!!!!

I have to say that I'm feeling very good BFP vibes from you baby. I wouldn't be surprised if this is your month. GL to you!

[iluvmyman]

OK, ladies, bear with me....I have several comments to make!

Thanks Lola!

RE: Big O. I think it's me and it just takes Forever! I've only been w/ DH so I have no other experience, although, he did when he was being a horribly naughty young man and as far as I heard he didn't have any problems w/ at least some of the "other" women, so I think it's just hard for me. That being said, we have a wonderful Se* life I just have to go w/o or help a lot. School those boys away though I would love it if there was really some trick or sweet spot he could find.

I wish I could help the stress but this stuff is so emotional and to think about doing all this work for a BFN or missing O all together is....well it makes me cry. I'm old and I don't have tons of time to mess around. I wondering If I really just want to get pregnant at all right now and hope for the best. If no cycle this month I will re-evaluate what I'm taking. Or I have been whineing for nothing and will get a BFP.

Hats off to those of you doing this for any longer than a couple of months. That's a tough road and I'm sorry.

Thanks for the calm re-adjust Lola and I will try to be calm. I need to start my Yoga classes again.

[iluvmyman]

It is a good thing....my DH can, but he is not as good and experimental with it as I'd like. The guy I dated before him kinda set the bar really high for me, I think.

And yes, you are right....it would be ideal, actually, to have one before AND after!

I help myself before and after too. Just should maybe do the before w/ the EW's first.