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    Rosie,
    Today is my second peak day and my cheapy opks are still dark. I just had my first attempt a little while ago. I was not able last night because my youngest dd was up till very late 😩.

    After kicking and screaming lol, I told my dh I felt betrayed by him for doing this to me. I don't know why but my dh seems to freeze when i tell him its time to bd and its difficult for him to complete his task. You would think the dh would be excited to bd but i see that he feels as if i am asking him to do a 007 mission. He always becomes nervous and has asked me previously to not tell him and just dtd but i always get in the moment and expect him to be as happy as me that we are bd'ing for a reason. He tells ne that he wants to do his part perfectly so now I get that he feels i am asking a lot from him. Sorry for venting and thank you ladies for your support. I would not be able to share this with even my closest friend ☺💕❤

    Ps i might be able to get my last bd in today. I just wasn't able to get the first bd at +opk

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    Yogi and Rosie! I'm so sorry your DH's are being difficult they just are sometimes arn't they!!
    Mine would be too if he knew we were swaying he is soooo stubborn.
    What works for me is not telling him its 'time' just go to bed in the nude!! Or wear sexy underwear tmi sorry but it works every time then I act super casual even if I have a blaring opk like no worries if you don't want to have sex with me....even though I'm lying here in the nude!! Hehe they just hate being under pressure to perform so I take all pressure away.
    Hope that helps!!
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    And yogi hope you get that attempt in!! Rosie good luck for your upcoming one xxx

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    Thank you Kitkat,
    Ill definitely use your tips for sure 😉💕

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    Hehe I now realize I sound craycray!!! Xx

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    Ha kitkat I'm so the same as you when it comes to 'it's sex time now'! My dh would run a mile if I told him he had to put out at a certain time so like you I have to pretend I'm really not interested so that in turn makes him want to dtd Works a treat all the time!!! As I'm doing a more relaxed sway this month thought we could dtd every day up to ovulation. But have been so sick in bed the last few days (this never happens to me) haven't been able to do anything and its cd10 today so hope to get better soon and start dtd or we might not make this month aaarrrggghhhhhh!!!!
    To all you ladies suffering over the holidys with unruly kids and bold dhs I'm so sorry you are having a hard time. I think families seem to get on much better when there's a routine in place like school etc. You poor guys! Try running your kids around a park or somewhere all day and put them to bed early then hopefully you could run a nice hot bath (alone!) That could help ease a bit of the stress hopefully.
    Well done yogi getting an attempt in. Fingers crossed it worked.
    Rosie better kiss and make up quickly if you want to get preggers Best of luck!
    essence I haven't a clue about antihistamines so I can't give any advice sorry!

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    Oh and boysway I really don't think weight gain is most important in your sway. I have 3 ds and was always at my lowest weight when I conceived them. Diet is most important. I had a perfect boy diet but my food and snacks didn't put any weight on. Just choose healthy foods that don't make you put on weight, like nuts and seeds, oatmeal, tuna, eggs and drink lots of green tea This will help you not put on weight. And I swear the one with jasmine got me my boys! Best of luck with attempt!

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    lol Rosie, hope you have made up with your hubby! Agree with odd - no matter how p1ssed you are with him, get that attempt in - totally worth it not to be on the diet any longer than necessary!! As you say, you are ready for meat and fat....mmmmm......just getting distracted by that lovely thought....

    yogi - hope you also made up with your hubby and got your attempt in - although if you are swaying blue hopefully you may have only missed one attempt out of a few so all good?

    Sorry to hear everyone's kids are driving them crazy, must be something in the global air as when I picked DS up yesterday he was in such a bad mood from he moment we got home until I put him in bed! lol mumofsix even your cat is being naughty!

    Boysway, hope you managed to start attempting, I have to say I am the tired one at night so am secretly glad to only need to do BD every 4 days/one attempt. Last time TTC we BD every 1.5/2 days which was exhausting! Not that DH is complaining, he would be up for more frequent BD but is OK with what we are doing. It probably sucks even more to have to put on weight than it is for us having to lose/maintain weight - poor you, really hope you get your BFP and you are welcome to my blue dust - agree with daisymoo, you can still have a great boy sway maintaining weight by eating the right food. I used to LOVE chicken and avocado wraps, sometimes with some pistacios and salad leaves - probably the perfect boy sway lunch and I had 2!! I hadnt put on recent weight when I conceived DS I had been the same weight for a really long time. I took green tea capsules every day as well as I couldnt stand the taste of green tea but wanted the health benefits.

    kitkat great tips, I usually just tell DH I am in the mood (whether I am or not), that gets him in the mood lol

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    Daisymoo and stephk, unfortunately I'm not worried about trying to put on weight. I am having trouble maintaining my weight. My weight has gone up by just over 5 kgs (11.02pds) since mid January. I eat the nuts, tuna, eggs, oatmeal. If I eat bread it is only wholemeal. I only cook wholemeal pasta. I think it's the quantities I am eating. I can't keep my stomach full for long no matter what I try. I also do a fair few nightshifts and I eat on nightshift what I would through the day.

    I have tried drinking green tea but, I can't stomach it. I will have a green tea bag in with my normal tea bag but, not for long. I would rather not have too much green tea anyway as I don't want to take a chance on it having a negative affect on my cm. I don't have much now.

    We haven't even started bding for our attempt yet Dh has been too tired. I also usually get fade in OPK's by now and haven't had them. I think I will have to pull out the lingerie as well I hesitate though, dh has turned me down even when wearing lingerie Plus, he has also been known to 'freeze' under pressure.
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    A huge thank you to Atomic for all her encouragement when I was up against things out of my control and ready to chuck it in. I can never thank you enough. Thank you also to all the other knowledgeable and ever supportive ladies that have helped and encouraged me. I truly believe my dream would not have come true without this site, my boy gender plan and the incredible love and support.

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    Oh kitkat that made me laugh sooo hard!!!
    praying and swaying

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