♥ June 2011 ~ Swaying for Blue? This is the thread for you!! ♥

[Plum3]

Begonia, I think in that case I would go again tonight as well. How long have you been trying for?

That cake looks amazing 3PNB, well done! Yum.

Kris, when are you going to start testing?

[Tink18]

I haven't decided at all. I am so flipping confused. But I guess i better get on it. I am taking a 1 medication NOT by choice at all due to a fall I had wile six months pregnant. Trying to avoid having back surgery. I tried to wean myself off of it. I have 2 slipped discs and my right hip is blown out. I really don't want to be on it at all. I have never been on anything in my life but my back is F*%Cked up. When I stopped taking it back in March, for the month I did I could barely walk so I got back on. I really don't want the surgery. I have heard such back things about back surgery s and I am ex semi pro soccer player with no injuries. And my father is a Basketball coach, he is very against me having the surgery as well. Leave it to me to slip on a chocolate milkshake in the middle of the mall 6 months pregnant!! go me!

Anyway, I wonder if my medication will mess my sway? So that is the other reason I want to be off this, I am also willing to suffer. Plus I have lost weight since then too. So that may ease up on the disc.

i have no idea what supplements to start on? Anyone want to recommend a little combo? I'm more of a tell me what to do and Ill do it kinda of girl..lol.

[Kris217]

Begonia, I think in that case I would go again tonight as well. How long have you been trying for?

That cake looks amazing 3PNB, well done! Yum.

Kris, when are you going to start testing?

Hey Bec, I will probably wait until the day before AF is due. I really don't like bfn's and I feel guilty when I get them. Just knowing we spent money travelling to and from Sydney for it and hotels etc. My very first try was in America, we had our flights booked and I got my period early so we had to re-book the flights for a few days earlier which cost $650 and when I got a bfn I felt really bad. So yeah I will wait this time, one bfn isn't as bad as 3 or 4 if I test early.

[iluvmyman]

Oh Iluv, big ol' hugs to you. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. Hope your DH is being a good support for you.

MFC I've heard that too about the post-miscarriage cycles. Surely it was the supps? FX your cycles are good and normal from here on out.

No POAS this am, TTC5?!?

Kris how many DPO for you know? FX this time worked for you!

OH! I was totally forgetting to mention! We did decide to have an attempt last night, so it was an 0-2 with a 4 day abstinence, and then FX I do get the +OPK on Monday afternoon, so it'll have been 48 hours. I know that egg is coming b/c I'm usually nauseated before O and I've been feeling it all morning. Anyhow ... I had loads of EWCM so didn't bother with eggs or preseed, I did big O before and after, and did do 1 BSF an hour before. Hips propped for 90 minutes with my phone on my belly. I'm more relying on diet/EWCM than any of the bells and whistles that go along with DTD.

Anyhow today is my birthday, yay! My lovely ladies gave me a set of garishly loud (and according to DH, atrociously expensive) pajamas that they picked out, so of course I shall cherish them always

Happy b-day my friend!!

[iluvmyman]

Thank you for the birthday wishes gals!! I need help with timing!!! We DTD last night (after 4 day abstinence) thinking it would be an O-2 attempt (expecting +OPK tomorrow afternoon) but I just got a +OPK now! Should we DTD again tonight, or just let it go? I'm pretty sure I won't get a +OPK again tomorrow afternoon; I usually just get 1 day, and maybe the next morning. There's zero chance we'll DTD tomorrow am, so either tonight, or not again, b/c I'm not risking O+12.

That said I think this is the strongest O I've had in months; I usually get a bit of nausea but today has been ridic how much I've had.

Thanks for any opinions! I may just let the evening play out however ... if we feel like BD we will, if we don't feel like it we won't. I don't like making life all about the sway, y'know?

um um um um um.....where is lola? I don't want to give wrong advice, I would say do it since abstinence isn't supposed to be like a crazy crazy diff and I though Atomic said that the 1st sperm would still get there 1st since they have to shed something. I would go for it if you want more chances for a BFP.

[iluvmyman]

Happy Birthday Begonia!!!
AFM - don't feel like AF is coming but don't feel preg either lol have just one ic test left... off to use it lol :P

It's so hard to know since we are tracking and hypersensitive to any body changes. I called mine last attempt and 11 dpo but you never know till AF. There's just no positive sign until you get a + hpt. I'm sorry hun, it's stressful and we are so hopeful. I don't have any advice but GL.

[iluvmyman]

Thanks Bec, we have had fun and I love my ticker too

Tink - I would start the sups asap so you have time to figure what works best for you.

Begonia- I'd go for it tonight

ttc5 - still early

Here's the cake ladies, it was huge and crazy heavy but it did have to feed 50 lol
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All edible even the shoes

Very nice and looks yummy

[TTC5]

Thanks TTC5! I was going to ask how many DPO you were with your girls but I know at least 2 you weren't sitting around POAS ... were any of them later BFPs? Do you feel like AF is coming on? I really really thought this was it for you; I'm having a hard time giving up hope!

Bec, it isn't the biggest part to me - I'm very much a diet believer. I think I'm just thrown b/c OF COURSE I think I have it all planned out and then things don't go the way I thought, LOL. So I just really was hoping to get some engagement on the topic from the girls here since DH isn't at all into swaying and doesn't give a flip what we do. Although he'll never turn down some good ol' BD

Anyhow I know it's also tough to get lots of opinions on a Sunday night since many are online more Mon-Fri, so thank you girls for talking with me about it!

I wasn't tracking so no idea when I got my bfp's lol I *think* I may have been late for my period....

[TTC5]

Thanks Bec, we have had fun and I love my ticker too

Tink - I would start the sups asap so you have time to figure what works best for you.

Begonia- I'd go for it tonight

ttc5 - still early

Here's the cake ladies, it was huge and crazy heavy but it did have to feed 50 lol
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All edible even the shoes

Wow that cake is magnificent!!!!

[TTC5]

It's so hard to know since we are tracking and hypersensitive to any body changes. I called mine last attempt and 11 dpo but you never know till AF. There's just no positive sign until you get a + hpt. I'm sorry hun, it's stressful and we are so hopeful. I don't have any advice but GL.

Yeah I have a tiny bit of hope left but i don't know... just think I'm out Not to worry though!! xx