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    Tell me about it!!

    LOL this got bumped to the next page, I was referring to two dominant people in a relationship together! (don't do it!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by MyByC View Post
    I apologise. I do not try to catch you! I'm just confused when I read other opinions regarding sway..so I better ask.
    ok. Just keep in mind that Custom Sways are BETTER than the forums and so it is best for both you and me to work in your Custom Forum on stuff because then I can give you the best info that is tailored to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Tell me about it!!

    LOL this got bumped to the next page, I was referring to two dominant people in a relationship together! (don't do it!)
    I can only gather that you have second if not firsthand experience with this! It's funny, in my youth (teens/early twenties), I fantasized about a relationship based on equality, with no one person having more power than the other. And yet I don't think I've ever seen that, so I'm nit sure where I got such a foolish romantic idea. I've seen couples in which both parties are very balanced (not too dom or sub), and that's the closest I've seen (though still i can point out who calls the ultimate shots). But as a very dominant person, I now know that such a situation would never work for me personally. What's truly ironic, though, is that I'm sexually drawn to very dominating men who will never satisy me emotionally. So I'm always forced to choice between everything great BUT sex, or great sex with little else. The men I'm drawn to emotionally, don't have enough fire/force in the bedroom. This conundrum used to drive me mad, but I've given up on true love so some unusual polyamorous/open relationship type solution is what I hope for now. I just want companionship with at least occasional great sex, and several kidlets. Too much to ask for, it seems...

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    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
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    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Quote Originally Posted by purplepoet20 View Post
    My DH is 5 9' and 250lbs. He only tried to loose weight before DS3. He used to play football and wrestle.


    I know plenty of males that are lean...the ones who ride bikes a lot have all girls. Most of these guys also have dairy issues and only drink soy milk. A few of them also have careers that takes them from home for a few weeks at a time.
    Hasn't worked for us. DH is a beanpole, never works out because he's naturally skinny (damn him) so has very little muscle mass. He's also short, at around 5'5" and weighs 127. His only physical activity is cycling, he doesn't bike much anymore but biked a LOT as a teen through young adult years. He drinks very little dairy (too much coffee but he's cut back now) and is military so obviously away a lot.

    And yet, we have 3 boys!
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    early m/c Jan 2013

    Cycle #1 @ HRC (Oct 2014) - 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized and biopsied. 1XX and 1XY abnormal. 1XX no DNA found, rebiopsied and found normal, frozen.
    FET attempt #1 (Nov 2014) - cancelled due to functional cyst. FET attempt #2 (Jan 30, 2015) - NT. Remaining embie failed to thaw.

    May 2015 - started infertility treatments at OFC. Femara 2.5mg
    July 2015 - BFP after second round of Femara. Aug 4 2015 - 6w4d
    Dec 21 2015 - mmc 7w1d

    Apr 2016 - IVF Cycle #2. Converted to IUI because of uneven response and leading follicles.
    Apr 19, 2016 - IUI with 3 mature follicles (2 right, 1 left), post wash: 17mil, 94% motility and 89% rapid motility. BFN.

    June 3, 2016 - 5mg Femara cycle. 5w.
    Sep 1, 2016 - 5mg Femara cycle. 8w.

    Our rainbow baby girl arrived on Mon Aug 28, 2017 - "After every storm comes a rainbow". We are so thankful and grateful for every moment.

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