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    Yes, I was going to mention that part as well but I forgot!!! It doesn't matter if a swaying tactic is more effective if it doesn't work for you as a couple. If I told my husband to abstain for 7-10 days it would ahve gone over like a lead balloon!!!

    PS Thank you Z for the support...sorry if I sounded whiny there. Rough weekend and I don't want to give up this site which has become very important to me, so I can vaccuum all day every day. :P
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    Sorry if you're having a rough time, atomic, hugs to you, we appreciate all your time and information very much

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    pp20 - the birth defect thing puts me off abstaining now too
    AS - vaccuuming won't change the world

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    Thanks guys!
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    With DD#1 we DTD every day all through the cycle...for about 4 months in a row...but I was on BCP the first 3 months.
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    atomic hugs to you! Don't let DH yell at you. Tell him this is not how you was when we got together!
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    Thanks you guys!!! Men, they start off so nice, don't they!! Grr. Oh well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Princess of Pink View Post
    With DD#1 we DTD every day all through the cycle...for about 4 months in a row...but I was on BCP the first 3 months.
    Wow that is dedication! Your DH is a machine!!!
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    Oh, dear! I had been planning on abstinence with a cut off, but now I don't know (like with most things... I think I've got a plan formulated then I read something additional on here and then I'm back to "I DON'T KNOW!!!")
    I'm concerned about birth defects now!

    Oof. Abstinence isn't difficult for us, sadly, because between our son and my husband's odd work patterns + my job, we rarely have the chance or energy to do anything. He is always so tired that he doesn't even really self-release.

    Before our son, our jobs were different and we were pretty regular with doing things. Not so much these days.

    But, anyway. I'm confused again. Hmmm.

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    like with most things... I think I've got a plan formulated then I read something additional on here and then I'm back to "I DON'T KNOW!!!")
    Me too

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